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  1. Step 1 if you aren't comfortable with a safeword quit doing bdsm Step 2 don't do this if you can't use a safe word Step 3 look up stoplight safeword system. Apply all 3 colors as well as some handsignal or gesture for each. For facefucking yellow may be an extremely important addition. Step 4 just start with a deal where can do it, but only where u get to hold his cock in your hands to limit the depth and slowly keep working deeper.

  2. Then why dont you date women? Or are you just like most bi chicks who just view other women as sex objects but only like being romantic with men

  3. Shhhh, we are setting up OPs man to be cured by hookers and suspecting means, he'll be thankful to us without knowing. SHHHH

  4. Your high school biology teacher?? What a stellar source of information on sexual health!! /s Not saying that you are wrong. I've never done extensive research into it either. I just wouldn't put too much weight on the word of your teacher. Especially considering the rampant stigma about things like anal sex that tends to allow rumors become gospel truth.

  5. As another person: enthusiasm goes a really long way. So does saliva. You don't have to make it super sloppy but you don't want to do it dry. Also, and this part is really important: establish if he'd like to come or not. Plenty of men like BJs but they don't come from them so it's useful to know ahead of time what the “goal” is here. That way, if he doesn't finish that way, you won't feel disappointed or that you did something “wrong.”

  6. Yes, this. We have one because we have quite the collection. We have 5 kids, three of them 6 and under so we have to be so careful.

  7. Are you directing him or communicating to him on what you like? If you can orgasm solo, it is either his technique or it is in your head. If it is in your head then a different partner is unlikely to solve the issue. If it is how he is doing it, then maybe masturbate in front of him or tell him what you do to orgasm by yourself.

  8. Post history shows past sexual issues, so yes he's probably a moron but this probably didn't start in the last 9 days.

  9. I read through your post and a lot of your comments. It sounds like you are struggling, ans my heart goes out to you. I am glad you are seeking out a therapist. I hope you can find a good sex positive therapist. But also one very familiae with asexuality. You said in a lot of different posts that you have a lot of shame around your sexuality. You are obviously frustrated with your “answers” after reading Come As You Are. How it says you aren't broken, accept yourself. But you say you know sex is important in relationships, and because you struggle with sex and libido, you feel shame. I want to point out that while sex can be very important in many relationships, it doesn't have to be important in all relationships. I know that isn't what you want to hear. But asexuality is a legitimate sexuality. If at the end of the day, you find that you have zero attraction to your fiance or any other person, you may be asexual. Finding another person that is also asexual to have a romantic relationship with may end up being your answer. There are asexual people who want romantic relationships. Some will engage in sex with their partner periodically as a way to bond with their partner, but not as something they specifically want. Some don't want sex at all. Ever. And that's ok. That isn't something to be ashamed of. It is morally neutral. You aren't a bad person if you are asexual. You may just be trying to put a round peg in a square hole. You said your fiance doesn't turn you on. Do you find them attractive at all? Do you think of them when you masturbate? Do you ever think of anyone when you masturbate? Have you ever felt aexual arousal when thinking of a person? I'm talking about warm tingles in your vagina/vulva. Wetness. You were turned on because of a person. Or is arousal a mechanical function for you? There isn't a right or wrong answer here. You could be having a hormone issue. PCOS does affect your hormones. You actually only need 2 of the 3 symptoms to be diagnosed with PCOS. 1. Irregular periods. 2. Polycystic ovaries. 3. Excess testosterone. I had symptoms 1 and 3. They didn't see cysts on my ovaries, but my doc said it was mainly a hormonal issue. There could be other things with it. You may want to visit a hormone specialist to make sure that isn't a factor. There are other options besides taking the pill. I take spironolactone for my PCOS. It is a testosterone blocker but doesn't give me any extra hormones. It helps with my cystic acne, which is one of my worst symptoms. You also sound incredibly anxious and maybe depressed. Have you spoken to a doctor about that? Do you take Anti-anxiety meds or an antidepressant? I don't know if you need them…. but that is something worth discussing. If you get anxious at the drop of a hat due to an undiagnosed anxiety condition, it will negatively affect your libido. You say when your fiance touches you with sexual intent, you get anxious/freeze up (I forget your exact words). Why is this? Is sex painful for you because you aren't aroused when it happens? Why is it so… bad? What causes the discomfort? You have described a sex aversion. You can't enjoy sex if you are sex averse. A sex therapist can help with this. Forcing yourself to have sex you don't want will only make this worse. Don't have sex you don't want. It doesn't matter if you think your fiance wants it. He needs to understand you need time. You don't want to touch yourself. It feels intrusive. You are obviously disconnected with your body. Therapy can help connect you with your body again. You should be able to touch yourself and explore without feeling like it is intrusive. This is YOUR body. This will take time. A sex therapist should be able to help here too. Please give yourself some grace. There are things you can do to improve your situation. It doesn't have to be like this forever. The main thing is figuring out how you got here, helping your anxiety and sex aversion, looking into health causes like hormone issues, accepting yourself and your body (i.e. sex therapy), and seeing where that leaves you. Will you be more aroused? I cannot say. But I think it will make a difference in your pleasure at the very least.

  10. I did this when me and my ex broke up after four years and I still carried out the breakup but it really ended up hurting him and making him more attached to me

  11. If you’re married and you have a healthy sex life…don’t waste it on porn. Your wife should be getting every ounce of you.

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  13. Wow, this is kinda spooky, OP and I must be living in a parallel universe … I'm watching the comments with much interest…

  14. So there is actually evidence on this: Relationships typically have a honeymoon period. The basic psychology, is you push your own needs down, and idolize your partner. This generally speaking leads to a very easy relationship. Because you are always willing to give your partner the benefit of the doubt. You basically are temporarily selfless. But obviously this can't last (it is illogical to not have self interest). So the typical honeymoon period for committed relationships is 1-2 years. Interestingly affair honeymoon periods actually last a little longer. Closer to 2-3 years. So in terms of initial lust (and be extension likely sex as well), affair sex is going to feel good longer, WITHOUT communication. What research shows though that after the honeymoon period is done relationships either enter one of two phases. They either start to crumble because the rose colour glasses wear off (so generally sex frequency and intensity is going to decrease). Or the couple learns to come together and develop true communication and actually solve their problems. In this case happiness generally increases (and by extension if sex is a value in relationship it will increase in quality). So the answer is: Short term affair sex is technically likely to be better. In the long term committed/married sex is going to be better For me personally: married/long term relationship sex is always going to be better. I enjoy a lot of BDSM, particularly bondage. And it takes time to build trust, to learn all of my kinks, and to be able to support and engage in my kinks. There is simply no way an affair could ever compare.

  15. Do you have a good balance of those encounters along with other scenarios or is it always like that? Maybe you need a bit more of her being the pursuer to help your brain be on board?

  16. no not at all – i know you didnt say that op. ​ i was just wondering if thats how it feels to her and thats why shes suddenly changed. There's definitely something that's shifted for her and since it's happened since your sex drive changed, there has to be a link there, so i was trying to think about how she may view the sudden change.

  17. hmm maybe? ive never came from head before my current gf, shes amazing so it might js be a case of technique instead of ur penis’s sensitivity

  18. A preference is a preference, but if you aren't holding yourself to the same standard and expect or want to receive the same treatment you have been regardless of that then it is a double standard. She's not asking if she should stop altogether, but I think it's 100% reasonable that she'd tell him he needs to trim (which she admits she would already do regardless, just didn't want to shave it clean – which I can attest is itchy and uncomfortable with razor burn and additionally pubic hair exists to protect your pubic area and is natural and healthy. It wicks away sweat amongst other things and keeps bacteria from getting into sensitive areas). A preference for a bald pussy is weird. Asking for your partner to be neatly trimmed is not the same as asking them to be consistently hair free down there. That's literally hours of time throughout the year to keep up with and opens you up to more opportunities for infection than for those who don't trim at all.

  19. She let's you into her body, yet you're too shy to ask her questions about the sex life. That reticence is natural to degree, out of respect for people's privacy, but it's incongruous under these circumstances. You find yourself wracked with embarrassment and a deep sense of guilt — consequently, filled with anxiety — over the apparent inequality of sexual satisfaction between the two of you. It's important that a sex partner be informed of such anxiety and dissatisfaction. As important as her sexual satisfaction is, maybe she would have things to say to reassure you about you continuing to achieve orgasms while she continues not to.

  20. When I was really young I took it personally. But also I was the one introducing it. It didn’t take long to get over it. Now it’s just fun to play/tease her however I want to to get her off. That’s of course If she doesn’t have any ideas herself.

  21. I am generally quiet, but I definitely breathe 😂. I'm more of a heavy breather than a moaner. It does depend on enthusiasm with both parties and if also she is actually enjoying it and not bored, since I've been bored during before and just laid there 🤷🏻‍♀️

  22. Girl, you’re a space saver, he doesn’t see a future with you. He just doesn’t want to be alone at the moment. Please wake up, you deserve better.

  23. Don’t keep your back at a 90 degree angle with your hips. Put your shoulders to the floor/bed, then the back angles properly while your ass is high in the air.

  24. Maybe I wasn't clear, my bad. Its a blowjob without a condom. I know oral sex can still give STDs, but I want to see an escort for a BJ without a condom and wondering how to mitigate / remove risk and what the true risks are.

  25. Just my point of view, but as a woman who has been in many relationships and had many one night stands my consensus is that i have never had a orgasm from the first time. And it’s not their fault, im just too nervous to relax enough to cum.

  26. Tell him: “I love swallowing you, but I really enjoy it when you cum inside me, it's just something I deeply enjoy, I kinda feel animalisticly taken and it makes me feel complete, seeing you cum while you're inside me” (adjust to however you would express it naturally ) ➞ Don't lead by “what you don't like”, try first to lead by “what you love”.

  27. I don't think is meant that way, is it still a red flag if someone just want some sort of approximate timeline? Like, maybe next date, or in a few weeks, a few months… Mainly so both are more or less on the same page, of course is not a binding contract

  28. It very much depends on whether you can frame him as “the one I wasn't good enough for” or “the one I deserved better than.” That sorta comes down to how your self esteem is…

  29. Morning after pill. Also the condom broke because it's too small for your dick or you need some lubrication.

  30. I think the oral/no oral isn't quite the problem but more the difference between how you want to fuck her, but she's pretty much happy to just lie there and take it. Sounds like you want her to be into it in the moment, to jump on top, and for her to fuck you back. She may never be like that. I will say from experience though, that asking for a BJ from someone who's not into giving BJs only leads to literally the worst BJ you've ever had, and honestly I wouldn't even bother. It's all about enthusiasm.

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