I agree with what others are saying that she didn't think of you in that way until she saw you with other women. This probably made her reevaluate your relationship and now she's treating you how she would treat guys she's dating to see if the possibility of a relationship is there
Hi there!! So the first thing I would advise is donโt pressure yourself to finish, that makes it harder to finish. Just focus on enjoying the sensations and discovering thing. So thereโs two places you can focus, the clitoris or the gspot/internally. I would start with the clit, itโs a small round bump, it will be at the top of your vulva. Start slow and gently, as it may be super sensitive. You can go in circles, up and down, side to side, diagonally across it, by rubbing or pressing it. If it feels good, you can go faster, slower, or with more and less pressure. If stimulating the head of the clit is too much, you can focus at the sides, the hood, or if you look under the clit, on the bottom of you should see a small v shape on it, that can feel super good if stimulated. Thereโs no right or wrong when masturbating, if it feels good to you then keep doing it! As for fingering, internally, if that is your thing, start slow with one finger. To look for your gspot, insert one finger a couple inches in, slightly curved to hit it, it should feel ridged or rougher when you are on it. You can move your fingers in and out, hit your gspot, go deeper if youโd like, or whatever feels good, or insert more fingers if youโd like. The clit is your safest bet though, it gets most women off easier and gives them the most pleasure, but some women are more penetration/internal women so that could be your thing instead, just try things! As for finishing, they feel different depending on the type of stimulation. It feels different for every women but clitorally feels more like a pressure building in your vulva area, it can be a light or deep pressure, building in intensity until there are rhythmic contractions. For internal stimulation, it may feel like a very intense deep pressure, and may be felt throughout your whole body, or may not feel like anything at all and thatโs okay! Itโs all preference and what works for you. ๐ You could also try a toy. It may take a while to learn to finish, it may feel weird at first, or may differ in intensity, sometimes they might be amazing and sometimes they might not, and thatโs all okay. READ THIS: If you want to masturbate great! Itโs a lot of fun. But if you donโt that is fine as well. Only masturbate if YOU want to, not because other people say you should or because it will cure you of being aromantic. Donโt let people pressure you. There is nothing wrong with being aromantic, it is incredibly valid and itโs a part of you, and if thatโs how you fee; you identify then take pride in that. Iโm somewhere on the asexual spectrum myself, and am in a happy relationship, and masturbate and engage in some sexual activities. Sometimes I do then I go through phases for months where it never crosses my mind and I am 100% okay with that and I donโt do it, and sometimes donโt want to be sexual with my boyfriend and itโs all okay. I understand how you feel being aromantic, it can be lonely being ace or aro when most people donโt understand but itโs 100 % okay and awesome to be on that spectrum!
Corollary: People should stop asking their partners to be “more vocal”. If you ask someone to put on a performance, you're going to get a performance, and nothing more.
what are yโall gonna name your baby?
I agree with what others are saying that she didn't think of you in that way until she saw you with other women. This probably made her reevaluate your relationship and now she's treating you how she would treat guys she's dating to see if the possibility of a relationship is there
Hi there!! So the first thing I would advise is donโt pressure yourself to finish, that makes it harder to finish. Just focus on enjoying the sensations and discovering thing. So thereโs two places you can focus, the clitoris or the gspot/internally. I would start with the clit, itโs a small round bump, it will be at the top of your vulva. Start slow and gently, as it may be super sensitive. You can go in circles, up and down, side to side, diagonally across it, by rubbing or pressing it. If it feels good, you can go faster, slower, or with more and less pressure. If stimulating the head of the clit is too much, you can focus at the sides, the hood, or if you look under the clit, on the bottom of you should see a small v shape on it, that can feel super good if stimulated. Thereโs no right or wrong when masturbating, if it feels good to you then keep doing it! As for fingering, internally, if that is your thing, start slow with one finger. To look for your gspot, insert one finger a couple inches in, slightly curved to hit it, it should feel ridged or rougher when you are on it. You can move your fingers in and out, hit your gspot, go deeper if youโd like, or whatever feels good, or insert more fingers if youโd like. The clit is your safest bet though, it gets most women off easier and gives them the most pleasure, but some women are more penetration/internal women so that could be your thing instead, just try things! As for finishing, they feel different depending on the type of stimulation. It feels different for every women but clitorally feels more like a pressure building in your vulva area, it can be a light or deep pressure, building in intensity until there are rhythmic contractions. For internal stimulation, it may feel like a very intense deep pressure, and may be felt throughout your whole body, or may not feel like anything at all and thatโs okay! Itโs all preference and what works for you. ๐ You could also try a toy. It may take a while to learn to finish, it may feel weird at first, or may differ in intensity, sometimes they might be amazing and sometimes they might not, and thatโs all okay. READ THIS: If you want to masturbate great! Itโs a lot of fun. But if you donโt that is fine as well. Only masturbate if YOU want to, not because other people say you should or because it will cure you of being aromantic. Donโt let people pressure you. There is nothing wrong with being aromantic, it is incredibly valid and itโs a part of you, and if thatโs how you fee; you identify then take pride in that. Iโm somewhere on the asexual spectrum myself, and am in a happy relationship, and masturbate and engage in some sexual activities. Sometimes I do then I go through phases for months where it never crosses my mind and I am 100% okay with that and I donโt do it, and sometimes donโt want to be sexual with my boyfriend and itโs all okay. I understand how you feel being aromantic, it can be lonely being ace or aro when most people donโt understand but itโs 100 % okay and awesome to be on that spectrum!
If I liked him enough yes but otherwise no
But the catch is, idk where my mom is taking me. Idk which doc or hospital sheโs taking me to . She wonโt tell me that xD
Corollary: People should stop asking their partners to be “more vocal”. If you ask someone to put on a performance, you're going to get a performance, and nothing more.