I feel like there's no winning situation here based on how he voiced his feelings. To me, it sounds like the second jealousy type. She tells him before going, how dare she expect me to wait and be okay with it. She tells him after, how dare she expect me to be okay with her doing this thing and expect that I now don't get to do it.
Aw man I'm glad I've never had this issue but OP id be honest with him and say “hear me out but you need to clean up better, I've noticed the skid marks and bits and pieces on you and I'm not into that so could you please do this for me AND for yourself”
It means little to no sexual attraction and it's an orientation. There is plenty of info at AVEN and r/asexuality if you're interested in learning more. As for your situation, I recommend asking her where she is on the asexual spectrum and what that means for her. It's possible that she doesn't know the correct definition either, or maybe she does but didn't think you'd interpret her texts the way you did.
For sure, each to their own โฆ but no one needs to go to that extent to be clean. A few minutes is plenty which is what makes OPs partner so gross, heโs not even doing that.
Oh Christ, it's Christmas, I'll be the dumb bastard that asks….. Why not?
I feel like there's no winning situation here based on how he voiced his feelings. To me, it sounds like the second jealousy type. She tells him before going, how dare she expect me to wait and be okay with it. She tells him after, how dare she expect me to be okay with her doing this thing and expect that I now don't get to do it.
You're fine. Rinse the eye out if you must, though tears will likely accomplish that.
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Aw man I'm glad I've never had this issue but OP id be honest with him and say “hear me out but you need to clean up better, I've noticed the skid marks and bits and pieces on you and I'm not into that so could you please do this for me AND for yourself”
Following Forum Rule #2, take a look through the FAQ section on Penis Size/Body Type. Thereโs lots of great information in there. Post removed.
It means little to no sexual attraction and it's an orientation. There is plenty of info at AVEN and r/asexuality if you're interested in learning more. As for your situation, I recommend asking her where she is on the asexual spectrum and what that means for her. It's possible that she doesn't know the correct definition either, or maybe she does but didn't think you'd interpret her texts the way you did.
For sure, each to their own โฆ but no one needs to go to that extent to be clean. A few minutes is plenty which is what makes OPs partner so gross, heโs not even doing that.