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32 thoughts on “💜, LEYA-Luv”
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Sounds very fun, I’ll definitely be going for that!!
Some of the most passionate sex I’ve had with tons of eye contact, hand holding, and kissing was with a hookup. I don’t give a fuck if you’re my gf, fwb, or random hookup, you’re getting cuddles after.
With my first two partners I had a bunch of breaks, but 6 out of 11 is nuts
One thing that can help with fear is to think about what could go wrong. Like if you say “so I feel really comfortable with you, would you like to have sex?” and they say “no, I don't want that” that's fine. That really is as bad as it can get. I think people build up these weird myths about “rejection” and how every time you ask someone a sexual question it's a referendum on their value as a human being or something. But it's not, it's just a question, just like any other. Like that's the secret to talking about sex imo, to talk about it exactly the same as any other subject. Taking away that feeling that it's special or forbidden as a subject really helps imo.
Hearing him breath heavily, moaning or saying filthy words in my ear.
Still need to have the discussion and the hard line. You are stuck in the image of who she was. And you dont know why that’s not who she is anymore. But that’s not important. Nobody divorces the person they married.
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How old is she? Assuming she is older so this isn’t an issue of a virgin being too small/tight. Was she not turned on and completely dry? Was this due to a complete lack of wetness? Did you try inserting your fingers? Was she wet and could you insert them? Or did you just try to jam your dick in completely dry without warning her up at all? Other idea is that some women have looser/longer outer lips. So you have to hold them apart/open in order to access the vagina. If you just try to insert your cock by pressing against the vulva, you actually just trap/pinch the outer lips and are pushing them in the vagina so the hole is covered up. This is why if you finger the vagina and ensure it’s wet, and open up the outer lips, then you are cleared to insert your penis.
You know what they say if you won’t do it they will always find someone else who will
On the verge of in. Lmao.
I would add because you want to enjoy it more AND for your partner to as well. There's nothing wrong with wanting to satisfy your partner better, and while sexual chemistry is just one component of a relationship it is still an important component. While I doubt OP's partner would leave them over this there are plenty of people, men and women, who have broken up because they were feeling sexually unsatisfied. It's a valid reason to do so (though no one is owed a relationship so frankly so can any reason be) I agree OP should take a step back and see how much of this is fuel from insecurity riddles anxiety and self esteem issues. But wanting to give their partner more pleasure for his sake is perfectly fine as well. He should do the same for her.
If I understand your question correctly, for me personally I understand fantasizing about other people. It is natural and it happens. I do it myself too. However, as for my comment up top, I do not fantasize other people (fictional or not) while having sex with someone as I find it disrespectful towards the person I'm having sex with (even if its just in my head). Because I see it as myself using the other person as merely a sex toy that is fulfilling my physical satisfaction.
No, you're trying to help yourself. Sounds to me like you're getting to explore another kink of yours while withholding what she likes. Perfect excuse. She can't be bothered reading a link and you can't be bothered controlling yourself to be able to withhold an orgasm so you'll be 'desperate' enough to go down on her. Do you understand how demoralising that would be for her? If you can't or won't do it then just be straight with her and leave it at that.
In the US? Absolutely it is.
Huh interesting. Maybe it's cultural, women definitely talk about guys bodies where I'm from.
That's actually fair.
Well it seems like the same thing to me. So dont overthink being nervous in this instance. Its no different. Its a new thing its normal to have some anxiety about it. Don’t let it stop you.
In the immortal words of Cardi B: “I do a kiegel while he's inside”
It's entirely normal but not common. Had he been drinking? Some men find that alcohol doesn't stop them getting hard but does stop them cumming. Another possibility is nerves, in which case take it as a compliment and help him relaxed. The other thing is for you to both understand that sex does not have to continue until male orgasm or end with it: just have fun together until it stops being fun for either one of you.
1 month ago OP was 30
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thanks! so it seems like this is an issue if you're “watching more and more extreme porn” (eww) or “more than 300 minutes a week” (damn!)? also, they don't seem to control for the fact that people who have problems with nerves might be more comfortable (alone with) porn. in short it seems like it's for people with serious issues or isn't showing causation?
Christ I’ve been treated better by a one night stand. He even made me Breakfast in the morning. Reevaluate what’s going on here. Please.
The most favorable to him possibility is that he's got some really weird manifestation of pre martial sex shame from a repressive upbringing going on. If that's the case it's likely to take a LOT of work by both you and him for him to grow past it. DO NOT assume that it will just solve itself if you get married. Marriage never magically fixes such issues and often makes them worse. The other possibility is that he's not really interested in a real relationship. What are things like outside the bedroom?
Breakout the scuba gear buddy
I mean being attractive is subjective, so if you find someone attractive, yeah, I don't see a problem here.
I don’t care about them having sex but any real up drama could be problematic. If it’s just a casual friend have at it, if it’s a really good friend I would have a talk with them to pleas keep me out of any conflict. But I guess I would have to live with the Fakt that in the worst case scenario I could loose a friend.
It’s one way that adults play together. For some people, it might not be better than playing by yourself. For others, playing with others is way more fun. For others, playing with a close and intimate friend like a partner is the best thing possible. You might not be connecting the physical act of sex with the connecting with the partner. Some people like the connection part more than the actual sex part.
You can use edging before you do PIV and usually when this happens it makes your orgasms explosive.
I think this is what you are saying. You want a guy who wants sex only when you want it. Is that correct?
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If you bathe every day, and wash everything well, maybe get it checked out by a doctor. Men get yeast infections too. Also, even if you clean it really well, it still will somewhat smell after the shower. That’s normal.