This feels like something that isn't going to change then. If you've talked with him about this, directly stated that you have felt dissatisfied throughout the years, and told him what you want/need and his responses have been…THESE Then it's probably best to just leave the relationship. 3 years of this then blaming you means he isn't going to change and you're clearly checking out of it.
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Oh yeah its rough down there
Very real chance you are imagining all these behaviors because you want her to be into you.
This feels like something that isn't going to change then. If you've talked with him about this, directly stated that you have felt dissatisfied throughout the years, and told him what you want/need and his responses have been…THESE Then it's probably best to just leave the relationship. 3 years of this then blaming you means he isn't going to change and you're clearly checking out of it.
It’s not the same.