Amy Hank , ♥
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Just don't mention the size ! Tell him to get a better quality one Cuz this one slides off easily
Just make sure he is not blowing air into you. That can be dangerous
No, what you described cannot result in pregnancy. Sperm cannot swim and reach an egg without fluid and they don’t survive being wiped on a sheet or being dried out.
No one is saying what this guy is doing is okay. But legally there isn’t much recourse. She can file a complaint with the school and maybe get a restraining order, but I don’t know what could be done legally to get him to stop doing that.
I don't think it's true for me which makes me feel broken. I have no good reason to feel this way about sex.
First don't over think this, second he as something in mind for sure.third, check is porn history.
So much this. tooo many men think porn is reality. in porn the women do all the posing and work. stud just gets hard and hangs on. this isnt how it works. Find a man that will rail you till you spin then you can use your skills to reward him!
Well there is a huge red flag. If he is manipulative, that's a serious issue that will result in long term negative effects to you and you alone. If you realize that, then the best bet is to not doubt yourself and run.
Then why do you do it?
Yes!!
Holy hell I had no idea even mentioning that “sub” or “movement” by name gets you flagged by auto mod. Please don’t ban, I’m recommending against it based on OPs issue lol
He understands, it’s not him pressuring me. I just want to see what is out there to help make it a good experience for both of us.
At the end of the day we are in a great place. I just didn’t know if I was missing something
Each lady has her own preferences, so please nicely ask for whatever will make it better for you. If he has a problem with that, then you are definitely with the wrong guy.
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Natural thought. I am not sure what she achieves by telling you this.
Ultimately, you’ve got to do what’s right for you. More exposure, as a society generally, to other sorts of relationships would help this happen I think, as many people seem to not even know about let alone consider the alternatives and their respective pros and cons. In the meantime it’s always good to try to as keep an open and non-judgmental mind as possible.
Oh I totally get it. I get that way (tense AF) when I have to get a pap smear or something like that. That's really not normal that that happens during sex. Your body is trying to tell you something, and you should be listening. Do you know why you feel anxious during sex? Maybe you already have an aversion.
bigger the cushion, the sweeter the pushin'
I respectfully disagree. Men who prefer shaven watch porn with shaven women with perfect bodies, no hair anywhere. Women have hair, girls don't. It's pretty simple.
sorry you had such a rough experience with your ex. I can understand the trauma, but you should also understand every person is different, and doing the same act with a different person doesn't also mean it will be so violent or rough. Not everyone likes to force people's heads down. BUT instead of talking to him about it, or asking him to explain it, you iced him out? I don't think you're right to feel offended, but it's understandable to feel the pangs of jealousy when your partner talks about an ex favorably. but you only heard the one negative, and not the other positives where you're better in every act you've shared together, in comparison. you asked him to clarify. He can't really comment on whether or not you're better at blowjobs since you and him haven't done that together. shouldn't be offended because it is something you refuse to do (understandably so, as is your right!)
lol yeah she broke up with me because my dick is a horse cock
Yeah, saying “GF wants me to force myself on her” hits differently than “GF wants me to not ask her permission every single time I feel frisky”. No worries.
Don’t touch my boobs whenever you want – ask first (use your words 🤷🏽♂️)
You might want to go to r/relationship_advice for this
Wow, 3x per day is an excessive expectation for working adults. Regardless of the frequency that is desired, don’t have sex that you don’t want. A good partner will respect that boundary.
I have never had an orgasm from sex with him in 15 years. Sometimes I feel like I should be complaining about sex with him and he shouldn't be putting all the blame on me and my lack of previous sexual experience. He does go down on me, once a month. It's always nice, but I've never had an orgasm where my entire body shook. Regarding everything being my fault – he tends to blame me whenever there was a misunderstanding between me and someone else, even without meeting the other person or knowing the full details he will always say it must have been my fault and that I did not communicate properly or I could have handled the situation differently. Also, he likes to embarrass me in front of people we know and even strangers that we just meet while walking our dog. He will say just the most random thing about me that puts me in an awkward and sometimes bad position just to get people to laugh. He is just someone that likes a lot of attention on him and I am very shy and reserved so he likes to say things to people mostly about me to get a reaction from them and to make me feel embarrassed. I have had many conversations about this with him and he always says he meant no harm by it and was just trying to lighten the mood – I wish he would lighten the mood by laughing at himself and not me. Another thing which might be odd mentioning but it does bother me so I will share anyway! He doesn't like me wearing makeup at all or blow drying my hair straight. But every single time we go anywhere he is always looking at the lady with the most makeup in the room and with beautifully styled hair. Sometimes he even has the audacity to tell me you should blow dry your hair straight again – this is a day or two after telling me my hair is better when it's naturally curly and “wild”!! Regarding the Madonna whore complex. He is a very confident man some might even say arrogant, but he is not the type who could be dominant in the bedroom. I would think he would be more of the submissive person in that type of situation. Therefore, I was confused by him saying he would like rough sex, I don't think he could handle rough sex at all and that is why when I asked him to elaborate he couldn't. I honestly, think there is another reason he doesn't want to have sex with me and he is just using the examples he gave me as excuses.
Perfectly subjective…. seeing the comments here some guys ok with it. So ok. For me, my gag reflex just triggered at reading the question.
You are trying and have a willingness to do more for him. You are a treasure and never forget that. The reasons he has given you sound more of a reflection on him then anything about you. So much of what you are saying is making me think he is getting stuck in his head. When I get caught up mentally, asking what I want ends up causing me to get more stuck. What helped me (51m) and my suggestion to you is ask yourself, what do YOU want? Specifically, is there something you want or wanted to try that you have not yet? Changing your “willing to” to a “want to” can make a world of difference. When my wife made that shift it changed everything for our sex life. Because that is what I really needed but could not think how to ask for. Feeling that she want to do XYZ. At that point what XYZ was no longer really mattered because it was all about the desire to. He said to you “that is not who I am” so really ask yourself, who are you sexually? And once you figure that out show him. Don't ask just do. I really want to stress this point that whatever you come up with, that it should be, needs to be, true to yourself. True to your desire.
I’m confused. You moved into your girlfriend’s parents’ house, but now you’ve broken up? Well then move out! Love can hurt and be emotional. Clearly your girlfriend wasn’t ready for monogamous commitment. She could have been more clear and direct about wanting to have fun with other people, but most people aren’t clear and direct in their communication. Move out, go be with friends, and time will lessen the sting.
What boric acid do you use! Is it helpful? Sorry I’ve been looking everywhere for something related to boric acid and experiences with it
Apart from the obvious like saying I’m about to cum, I’ve been told my dick kind of starts to pulsate a bit and my head gets really hard right before I cum
Oh my god that was perfect thank you soooo much I appreciate your answer and time!!
Fuck I wish. To be honest she scared me because I did not know how much power one girl could have over my own body. After that event I sort of laid off a bunch and tried to play hard to get and I think she lost interest. DO NOT LET THIS HAPPEN TO YOU. Honestly timing is everything so if I were you, I wouldn't keep him waiting. Also, take notes and maybe give him a similar experience because holy fuckkkk I would kill to have another orgasm like that. It's unforgettable.
That's what she said!
Excellent literary reference
well, don't ever tell the truth about your virginity. just say you are “kind of inexperienced”. and read as much as you find about sex/pleasuring women. that's what i did and it worked fine.
With comments like that, it's no wonder he sees something in you. I'd be intrigued if I wasn't spoken for.
It's hard to stop a million lives storming the gates. We try…..well I do.
There's a book “100 nights of great sex” (also a romance one) that are kind of fun and lead to Both sides having tasks to do, helps with initiation and ideas. There are a ton of other “spice it up” resources just Google it
Awesome! Gonna get some
Np, i blame it on porn people thinking everyone can take a monster dick and walk find after. Ive got friends that are in the 8 inch range and cant keep a girl all they get are ones that want to try it out for the night or after one date. Most girls ideal size is between 6.3 to 6.7 whats still above average. Good luck anyway you have hard choices ahead.
It depends on the partner and why we are having sex. If she is a long term or romantic partner then eye contact is an added bonus connection. If she is a random fling then I don't need or necessarily want that eye contact.
Than kyou. I think I am just worried about the encounter with sex worker. Although condom was on all the time
Racism not only leads to a lot of bad things but also a lot of weird things, too.
don't go there, an adult male can do a lot of damage with a single punch. think broken nose, cracked orbital, various broken face bones. and swelling that grows your head by a third.
Could just be another case of responsive desire. Having a partner with that and if you try to push it for them to open up it’s always gonna be a deer in headlights. Used an app called spicer to give me ideas but really I gotta take charge in orchestrating it and she responds well
So this is a time to think about your relationship. First. Have you done your relationship a service by keeping yourself the way you were when you met. Did you keep up with your appearance. It’s a hard question to ask yourself but it could be a possibility. Second. Did he keep up. Did he stay the way he has been. I ask this because men are self conscious too. If we don’t feel attractive to a woman we are not likely to approach them (prior to a relationship) and in a relationship it’s the same way. We feel they don’t want me anymore I’m not good enough for her. And it kills our libido! Like destroys itt!!!!!! Another thing is what is his stress like. Is he stressed from work, money , or something else. Stress kills a mans libido as well. And we are very good at hiding stress. Trust me. Another thing is are you wearing comfy baggy clothes at home. Or are you giving him reminders of what you are like. Wear tight clothes maybe boy shirt panties while laying on the couch. Brief story… my wife did this to me. She wore tight grey boy shorts.. she literally went in the bathroom and wet the fabric between her legs with water and then layed her feet on my lap. I couldn’t help but notice how wet her p***y was. (Not knowing it was water lol. Rock hard instantly! Open mouth insert tongue. Lol.
Good for you! Keep it up and you will see improvements. One of my best friends had the same issue. He couldn't orgasm and had pain when peeing after two months of training he is much better. You will be too.
Thank you, this sounds like a way to talk without making it a big thing. Actually my legs are killing me for a few days now, I can can’t be cowgirling for two hours haha aw really hope we can get past that. But you are absolutely right, so early on I actually have no idea what his style is. He is older and I have an impression he is more experienced than me, but have been submissive so far with me not only doing all the work but also initiating more.
The treatment for what you got is porn.
The burning may be from a rip.
Rest assured that thinking about it is most definitely sanitary
I can have fun once im sucessfull
If watching porn makes you angry, that's a sign that you need to watch much less porn, for the good of your mental health and for the safety of women around you. I would recommend that you spend less time alone, and more time doing things that engage you with other people. Of course you won't listen just like the rest of this generation of absolutely broken men. But I've got to try.
Had a bf who was the same way. He always wanted to skip foreplay and rush into it and it drove me crazy lol.. I started moaning and talking dirty when he fingered me to get him into it. It actually worked, guys love that shit lol
For reference six inches is above average. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/32666897/ Most men believe that the average length of an erect penis is greater than 6 inches (15.24 cm). This belief is due, in part, to several often-cited studies that relied on self-reported measurements, with means of about 6.2 inches (15.75 cm) for heterosexual men and even greater for gay men. These studies suffered from both volunteer bias and social desirability bias. In this review, the combined mean for 10 studies in which researchers took measurements of erect penises was 5.36 inches (13.61 cm; n = 1,629). For 21 studies in which researchers measured stretched penises, the mean was approximately 5.11 inches (12.98 cm; n = 13,719). Based on these studies, the average length of an erect penis is between 5.1 and 5.5 inches (12.95-13.97 cm), but after taking volunteer bias into account, it is probably toward the lower end of this range.
It's very common I'm sure, considering oral sex is nearly ubiquitous among most people. I definitely like worshipping bodies with my mouth so I know where you're coming from. It's a part of the sensory experience! And your partner's reactions are what makes it so pleasurable.
You don't seem mature enough to be having sex if this is a revelation to you.
and in general big is just 2 standard deviations above average which is around 7 inches, not 10 inches that you're imagining when you see the word “big” 7 inches is big, yeah, and for some women it's quite big (in the negative sense). I also don't know why we're only talking about length since girth matters a lot and it matters the most for women with vaginismus, for example. It wouldn't allow “most” women to have vaginas that are unable to accomodate big dicks as that'd hinder reproduction. I don't think evolution is very fast, so you need to remember that until pretty recently in the history of humankind (and still in some cultures) whether women can or cannot accomodate big dicks mostly wouldn't matter. So I don't see how that would really affect evolution. So just keep in mind that, like dicks, vaginas also have different sizes.
It doesn’t seem reasonable to him. We’ve had so many arguments about his lack of cleanliness but I’m just consistently told that no one else would care about it and I’m “too clean.”
I mean it is like telling the bartender “delight me” and they bring you a cup of water because unbeknownst to you they are into the sober life and healthy living. It is a bit tone deaf. “do whatever you want” is signal for “you can push limits that are usually there”.
Did that a few times back in my 20s. My ex-gf and I and some friends. It was awkward but thrilling at first, and then was comfortable the next times. Ex-gf is long gone, but I’m still good friends with the other couple, so the friendship survived for sure.
In what world does “do what you want with me” not translate to a sexual action? That's explicitly a sexual comment any way you look at it, to say that takes some courage and strongly implies sex acts, then to be told by the other they're just gonna cuddle is,frankly, demoralizing and deflating.
Depends and what exactly you want to talk about, and who is/are the other participants in the conversation in relation to you… Considering you're probably into DS you could say something like: “I've recently saw the first 50 Shades movie, it's kind of cringe, but makes me wonder… What do you think people would say about somebody, who loves getting spanked during sex?” Listen to their reply and react afterwards.. If they are sharing their opinions freely, you can continue with asking about choking… And or “why do you think its such a turn on for some people?” (notice that the first question is not asking what do they personally think – it's intentional – they cannot be judged for “their” opinion on “sex”, because they are not obliged to tell you..) You can slowly increase the depth, if they feel good about the topic.. If not, just switch to something normal or a small talk (avoid awkward silence)… You can revisit the topic later, with “hey, I've been thinking about what we talked before, I appreciate you're so open-minded, tell me..-insert another topic-. .” Just let them ease into the open-minded dynamic.
Maybe try anal toys first. You could buy a multi pack of but plugs and you and your partner could experiment with them.
I do not think you are ready. This guy seems like one you would try with down the line (maybe a few years). I think you should keep it simple to begin with. It will take time for you to become comfortable in the act and with yourself. Start basic and then progress (if it's something you end up wanting / okay with trying)
Smirks. I blame Dean Winchester. Big hands. I was comparing hands with a guy I didn't really consider my type and he engulfed my hand in his and boom. Sparks right down to my panties lmfao. Cheek kisses (the ones on your face, heathens). Not really an accident but when my bf kisses me there I suddenly want to do the dance with no pants. When you're laying together and he drags you over to lay on top of him. Round two, please?
Damn, interesting. Should be okay next to a partner, may have just thrown him off if youve never done it before and wasnt ever talked about previously. Some ppl are okay with it, some arent. His reaction does seem a bit blown out of proportion for what it was. Maybe he thought that you didnt want him or something since you chose to do that over initiating sex with him. Who knows, you wont know why he was so upset unless he's willing to talk with you. I'd think it would be hot, not a random person, but my partner
Sounds like a dumbass kid listening to some misogynist he thinks sounds tough that he's trying to copy. Dump his toxic ass.
Attempted abstinence is actually the main reason for abortion
“Alexa, what is please fist my ass in spanish?”
Thank you!
My gf knows I done nothing wrong do that’s the main thing
It still is expected. Clearly OP expects it. People are acting like she went out of her way to trap him. She probably thought it was normal to be not that into it and it wore on her after a number of years. Sucks for OP but its not exactly shocking. Young women don't know whats normal in a sexual relationship. Many have pain and think its normal. Just going along with bjs is still not uncommon, especially if she's been with someone pushy. I dated a couple of guys who would shove my head that way every encounter. One had poor hygiene so I was never a fan- but the whining was grating. One I liked doing them for, but he burned me out by wanting one every day. Its entirely possible that she did like to give them and got kind of burned out. I always loved impressing a guy with my skills- but that love waned fast when he did not reciprocate (not necessarily oral) or seem appreciative.
Husband for almost 20 years here and I love when my wife wears lingerie. Besides the visual & tactile appeal, it serves as a nonverbal signal of desire. That's hot. When to put it on and when/if to take it off can vary. Some outfits might look great but hinder access, while others (such as loose skirts) are no issue at all. I tend to prefer outfits that don't get in the way or need to be removed to proceed, but then again how it looks and how she feels in it are crucial factors too.
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Wet flour
It's a pity. Getting rimmed takes you to paradise and I love it. Maybe you could offer some exploration and drop it if there is no appealing at all. Best way to test it for both of you would be some external caressing while giving head.
I'm a fan of Wet Naturals Platinum.
i got mine pierced about 4 months ago and it took away the sensitivity in mine- to the point i’m considering taking them out even though i LOVE the way they look. i’ve seen mixed things from other people as to whether they regained theirs after healing or not. for reference, mine were decently sensitive beforehand and now nipple play doesn’t feel like much. the other thing i’ve gathered from reading other people’s comments on this is that it’s completely different for everyone, you won’t really know until you get them done.
In my experience of SA my brain just didn't except it had happened and I continued to see the guys (2 seperate occasions) it sounds so strange in hindsight it is really hard to understand.
No idea why you're getting downvotes. I'm the same way. There's just no appeal and doesn't feel pleasurable to do it. More power to the people who do masturbate it's just never been a thing for me and I have tried.
Yes, the Lauren boeberts of this world try to ensure young people stay ignorant when it comes to sex
Unfaithful (2002) Richard Gere, Diane Lane, Olivier Martinez Through My Window (2022) Spanish movie with subtitles Adore (2013) Naomi Watts, Robin Wright – crossing taboo lines with each other’s young adult sons.
This is super common! My wife began as more able to orgasm without a vibe, but at this point we use one almost every time. With it, she’s like 98% successful, often several times, depending on how much time we have available. This has also been true for most prior gf’s. At the beginning, NRE adds something that makes orgasming easier. I’ve found that this is very true for many women (but not all) – most orgasm easier the first several times we’ve had sex (though I’ve been told that’s different if with an inattentive partner.) We’ve settled on a large bullet vibe that uses 4AA batteries in a remote controller box, with a wire to the bullet. This allows for easy use in any position. Her favs are cowgirl (leaning way back to get g spot stimulation and avoid too much depth), doggie, prone, and on her back.
You know that squirting isn't some superior orgasm, don't you? For some of us it's not even tied to an orgasm at all. There's no need to focus on it.
Now imagine your parents shitting on your plate and then clean it with industrial grade detergents and dishwasher everyday just before you eat your meal. I don't see nothing wrong. It's clean as shit!! Right?
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That’s good! You absolutely should attend them though! Not only might you benefit from them, but you are reinforcing it and showing him support. He needs it too. It will give you valuable insight into him and why he functions the way he does.
I know you’re frustrated, but cut that zero and get with a hero! Find someone who accepts you the way you are:feels_bad_man:
That's the part I don't understand. How was he with her that long, actually living together and knew she had SH scars on her arms. He had to have known or at least suspected that there were others, unless he's the biggest dumbass ever. How was he so shocked? And that was a wild overreaction to completely just leave without even discussing it.
I used to have this problem, but not everytime i had sex. I had 2 issues working against me. I had endometriosis and this thing called vaginitis, I know I am saying that wrong , but the V one is what happens when the muscles inside the vagina contract and spasm. Its painful and can cause bleeding. Birth control can help to relieve both and muscle relaxer. However its best she see her obgyn and let them test her
Get a big dildo, something that you’ll enjoy, give it a guys name. Tell your bf you want the guy with the big dick first and he can have sloppy seconds.
I had a friend nearly die from ignoring these symptoms and needed emergency surgery. Don’t ignore it. Go to an urgent care as soon as you can. You’ll be fine but u definitely need meds if there is blook
What do you mean by hyperpigmentation? Like acne scars on your face?
Thanks mate I'll take a look. Any recommended place to buy sex toys from in Canada? I've heard one has to be careful to avoid knock offs when buying the magic wand.
As a Demi/ sapio myself I think from the sounds of it – she’s a Demi that doesn’t understand she is. Which is causing stress and confusion for her. She likely thinks her type of attraction is a choice and that he should be able to just do it as well. Which means- this is likely a dealbreaker. Only because she A- likely doesn’t understand her own sexuality B- clearly can not come to terms with the differences I know that all of my relationships with people who had outward attraction styles ended badly. We ultimately loved in very different ways and it was just never going to work. Not say it’s the case for OP, but it is a very real possibility. Especially considering that she has voiced this
And she is being unreasonable making that ask. You cannot force someone to be how you want them to be. It's called abuse if you were to go about it the way she seems to be.
“She thinks I’m her fairytale prince” No you’re a toad. A gross toad. Or turd! Take your pick 🖕
Not only that, but you can be literally 5 different guys in one session. One game we sometimes play is to start with the smallest one (which is not small) and work up to one she could never take cold. You can scratch off a lot of fantasies all at once. Being able to last forever is also pretty awesome. You can put 100% of your attention onto her and pound orgasms out of her until she taps out. The you take it off and finish the regular way. Both people end up absolutely satisfied.
It would probably help everyone who responds to this post if you added a lot more context. For example you say you have been with 30 people. But you're not giving details on what those 30 people did. Do you ever use toys? And do you orgasm from masturbation? Do you enjoy oral? Have you tried multiples? Have you tried different genders? And you also seem to have some type of negative view towards lube. It wouldn't be such a common product of people didn't use it. There's no shame in using it.
Get a bed liner or something or lay down a towel. I use a bed side fan to dry off everything after so I don't go to sleep on damn bedding lol
thanks for the advice! i am just a bit worried beceause i don't wanna step on her toes
Yes, thinner feels better.
Thing is, that the whole size thing is just in the guys heads, like 90% of women absolutely don’t care OR don’t want a XXL guy. I’d be scared, honestly. Maybe nice to look at, but not nice to put in. And about the name thing, maybe look for a short form or nickname that she could use if it’s such a big deal for you
He may just be looking for the affection because he doesn’t feel well. Kind of like how moms would rub our backs or rub our heads when sick. It’s hard to let go of that when you get older and move out, but it’s one of the biggest perks of getting married
Don't be slimy dude.
Vibration toys can work wonders.
Oh jeez. Yeah, if he asked for a massage, that's as green a light as any. Have fun with him! I'd say keep the first massage friendly, but not too friendly. Just get him nice and relaxed.
If it's trauma it should be worst at the beginning and get better as time goes by. She may be an anxious/or anxious-avoidant attachment type (in which case, the underlying subconscious fear is you leaving her) Get her comfortable and get her talking, preferably with the guidance of a therapist if she's ok with that
Idk dude probably because there’s a whole grip of dudes, myself included, who will happily indulge and roll the dice if she’s down
The funny thing is that being a jumper is probably the best place to be as a teenage boy once you have developed a bit of a reputation for being good at it. You get to see more boobs than anyone else, and your girlfriend doesn’t even mind because saving your friends from sin is seen as a selfless act.
Any girl who gets offended is just insecure . And it's funny when a guy gets offended that his gf masturbstes and people call him insecure . That's her body . Goes both ways
Very cool! I hope you guys get to fully enjoy your new toy 😁
What a great argument, smell argument 😬 we can rarely smell ourselves. Give him a bed bath. If he refuses sit on his face with a smelly vag 🤤
There is the word uxorious. It means great love of one’s wife, but can stretch into servility and a negative connotation.
You don’t need to do anything except give her time to process it. She will fluctuate from non acceptance to acceptance multiple times like a roller coaster and each time the emotions will subside until she finally accepts it. You did nothing wrong. She has the issue and needs time to get herself through it.
I meant the 25 years between being 25 and 50. Another example: 23 year old wants to change career. Feedback: sure, go for it. You're still young. Same at 30. When a 47 year old says that, he'll probably still get the “sure, go for it”, but some reservations will also be there. To come back to the original topic: if the 47 year old asks if it's too late, then no, it's not too late to get started in general. He'll have missed out on things, but it's not like “you don't need to start now either, it's too late”.
Many just don’t want to put any effort in. For some reason society puts women on a pedestal, and we have this social narrative that women are prizes and men have to work to be worth anything. They don’t take pleasure in pleasing. They take pleasure in BEING pleased. Not a recipe for a good mutual sex life, but they can get away with it because some men can’t do any better and they know it.
I like spray on Veet.. I use it once a week, give or take and it’s perfectly smooth for a few days post and the grow in isn’t very stubbly if I use a nice sugar scrub on the thigh brow area. Don’t get it on the meat curtains- I wear a junky pair of drawers or tuck them them in and I spray some up the back crack. Other than that- good shower, I am high maintenance so I make sure my nails, toes (and heels) are done, brows waxed. I like REALLY nice underwear and bras all the time so I am usually good to go in that area. I layer my scents- so it lasts and I go with a hair style that can get rumpled and still look sexy.