That's fine for one or a couple of nights, but I know a handful of couples where that takes place every night for the last 1-2 years or even more. In one case the guy has stopped trying, because he knows beforehand he'll get rejected. I 100% agree that you can't force it in any way, but getting rejected day in day out is not fun either.
that’s because it is! he’s turned your relationship into a transactional one. don’t let him use you. you’re in school doing great things for yourself. just realize that for a moment. you’re planning a very challenging but rewarding future for yourself and on top of all of your stress, he’s making you fuck him and blow him even when you clearly don’t want to. this is not a relationship. at least not on his part. i understand you love him, but take this from someone who has been used before — get out before you get complacent. you’ll be surprised how much lighter you feel emotionally and mentally. you deserve a better boyfriend.
From my experience I would suggest you to anticipate his forward motion and imitate him by lifting your pelvis. A couple strokes and you'll get the rhythm.
I relate to this a lot. I think it’s important you try to separate yourself from the narrative porn creates because sex with someone you love will be nothing like it. I have also had that feeling of kind of being an object in sex and not a receiver when for most women we are perfectly allowed to feel good too
You’ll be fine. Don’t overthink it or you might ruin your erection. Just enjoy it. We all fumble and fuck things up occasionally, but we learn what works for us. Enjoy.
Objectifying or being sexist towards people in a text thread isn't unique to men.
That's fine for one or a couple of nights, but I know a handful of couples where that takes place every night for the last 1-2 years or even more. In one case the guy has stopped trying, because he knows beforehand he'll get rejected. I 100% agree that you can't force it in any way, but getting rejected day in day out is not fun either.
that’s because it is! he’s turned your relationship into a transactional one. don’t let him use you. you’re in school doing great things for yourself. just realize that for a moment. you’re planning a very challenging but rewarding future for yourself and on top of all of your stress, he’s making you fuck him and blow him even when you clearly don’t want to. this is not a relationship. at least not on his part. i understand you love him, but take this from someone who has been used before — get out before you get complacent. you’ll be surprised how much lighter you feel emotionally and mentally. you deserve a better boyfriend.
From my experience I would suggest you to anticipate his forward motion and imitate him by lifting your pelvis. A couple strokes and you'll get the rhythm.
I relate to this a lot. I think it’s important you try to separate yourself from the narrative porn creates because sex with someone you love will be nothing like it. I have also had that feeling of kind of being an object in sex and not a receiver when for most women we are perfectly allowed to feel good too
May want to throw some pillows under you or get a sex wedge.
Oh yes. I really have to make exercise and do a clean diet! Thank you 🙂
This isn't a personals sub.
You’ll be fine. Don’t overthink it or you might ruin your erection. Just enjoy it. We all fumble and fuck things up occasionally, but we learn what works for us. Enjoy.
Yeah. Annoys me that the best option we have is to just try things out and see if they make us feel like shit or not
Wtf i just read, really?