What a juvenile, stupid fucking thing to say. No need to say anything aside from maybe it won't be his problem anymore. Absolutely no human being worth fucking would ever insult their partner's genitals.
This isn't normal, and you should seek therapy or new relationships. If she gets horny and masturbates but isn't having sex w/ you without you pushing then somethings broken. It isn't right to say you broke her, either, because in a normal relationship things get sorted long before the 4 year mark. You have a relationship that isn't working for you in one of the important parts of a relationship: sex. If I had a car that worked great until I turned left I wouldn't consider it a great car. This isn't a great relationship, it's a “If I could just fix this one (BIG) area it would be great” relationship.
What a juvenile, stupid fucking thing to say. No need to say anything aside from maybe it won't be his problem anymore. Absolutely no human being worth fucking would ever insult their partner's genitals.
Anything can be degrading if your inhibited enough
This isn't normal, and you should seek therapy or new relationships. If she gets horny and masturbates but isn't having sex w/ you without you pushing then somethings broken. It isn't right to say you broke her, either, because in a normal relationship things get sorted long before the 4 year mark. You have a relationship that isn't working for you in one of the important parts of a relationship: sex. If I had a car that worked great until I turned left I wouldn't consider it a great car. This isn't a great relationship, it's a “If I could just fix this one (BIG) area it would be great” relationship.