A girl in high school wanted me. I was totally insecure and oblivious. She had to walk up to me with mistletoe and demand a kiss. Then whispered in my ear to be at her house by 330. I was there every day for 2 years till she moved away.
I Was talking about in general, HSV 1 and HSV 2. Do you tell you Partner when you had Herpes on the lips “in the past”? The Virus Stays in your body forever
I think your partner needs to do some introspection on what she wants. If she is going to wait until marriage thatâs her decision (I think thatâs a terrible idea but thatâs not the point). If she wants to have sex with you before then thatâs ok too. But this is starting to sound a bit like sheâs not owning this decision by putting it onto you. I think youâll be both feel better and have less chance for resentment if the two of you talk about this more and have more clarity.
There's no standard to what happens to sex in a marriage. Depends on how you are as individuals. My husband and I are early 30s, been married 10+ years (no kids) and I'd say it's once every couple weeks, sometimes more sometimes less. I wouldn't say that's ideal for either of us, but we both lead pretty busy jobs, and at the end of the work day, it's not usually something we're looking to expend energy on. But neither of us are unhappy or feel neglected. There's room for improvement, sure, but we tend to be on the same wavelength so either we're both in the mood or neither of us are.
Everyone has different wants and needs from anal. Some people do a lot of prep beforehand to minimize mess; others donât because the mess isnât a problem for them. Based on his reaction, it sounds like heâs very inexperienced with anal in real life. Porn anal involves intense prep so there isnât mess and he clearly was not expecting or ready for it. You did nothing wrong. He needs to do more research and experimenting with anal before trying it again with anyone. Someone experienced would have known what often happens with last-minute anal.
Everyone has different wants and needs from anal. Some people do a lot of prep beforehand to minimize mess; others donât because the mess isnât a problem for them. Based on his reaction, it sounds like heâs very inexperienced with anal in real life. Porn anal involves intense prep so there isnât mess and he clearly was not expecting or ready for it. You did nothing wrong. He needs to do more research and experimenting with anal before trying it again with anyone. Someone experienced would have known what often happens with last-minute anal.
Much as I despise âcommunicationâ, sometimes you are just out of options. You gotta tell this guy about this. You arenât helping either of you by faking it or by putting off the conversation.
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A girl in high school wanted me. I was totally insecure and oblivious. She had to walk up to me with mistletoe and demand a kiss. Then whispered in my ear to be at her house by 330. I was there every day for 2 years till she moved away.
yeah we do tons of foreplay, I eat her out and finger her clit. Still the moment I go to penetrate it tightens up.
Hi any update on this
Its fine, youâre overthinking it.
I Was talking about in general, HSV 1 and HSV 2. Do you tell you Partner when you had Herpes on the lips “in the past”? The Virus Stays in your body forever
No worries, it should probably be linked somewhere in the FAQ because this sub gets so many questions like yours. Best of luck
The subject of pregnancy is covered extensively in the FAQ and previous posts.
I think your partner needs to do some introspection on what she wants. If she is going to wait until marriage thatâs her decision (I think thatâs a terrible idea but thatâs not the point). If she wants to have sex with you before then thatâs ok too. But this is starting to sound a bit like sheâs not owning this decision by putting it onto you. I think youâll be both feel better and have less chance for resentment if the two of you talk about this more and have more clarity.
Dam he gets upset i long for the day i meet someine that comfortable to masterbate infront of me that would defo get me going
There's no standard to what happens to sex in a marriage. Depends on how you are as individuals. My husband and I are early 30s, been married 10+ years (no kids) and I'd say it's once every couple weeks, sometimes more sometimes less. I wouldn't say that's ideal for either of us, but we both lead pretty busy jobs, and at the end of the work day, it's not usually something we're looking to expend energy on. But neither of us are unhappy or feel neglected. There's room for improvement, sure, but we tend to be on the same wavelength so either we're both in the mood or neither of us are.
You don't need techniques, you need to learn what HE likes.
Everyone has different wants and needs from anal. Some people do a lot of prep beforehand to minimize mess; others donât because the mess isnât a problem for them. Based on his reaction, it sounds like heâs very inexperienced with anal in real life. Porn anal involves intense prep so there isnât mess and he clearly was not expecting or ready for it. You did nothing wrong. He needs to do more research and experimenting with anal before trying it again with anyone. Someone experienced would have known what often happens with last-minute anal.
Everyone has different wants and needs from anal. Some people do a lot of prep beforehand to minimize mess; others donât because the mess isnât a problem for them. Based on his reaction, it sounds like heâs very inexperienced with anal in real life. Porn anal involves intense prep so there isnât mess and he clearly was not expecting or ready for it. You did nothing wrong. He needs to do more research and experimenting with anal before trying it again with anyone. Someone experienced would have known what often happens with last-minute anal.
That's good to knowđ
That's good to knowđ
I identify as bi furious I really want this not to be a typo.
Much as I despise âcommunicationâ, sometimes you are just out of options. You gotta tell this guy about this. You arenât helping either of you by faking it or by putting off the conversation.
No. Suck him until youâre safe and in a better mental state
i have a similar issue, hope someone has some advice on this