I think the both of you need to work on communication. He needs to be upfront with you instead of waiting until you ask him. Saying things like “it should have been obvious that there was a reason I hadn’t left,” never goes over well. I was also confused about your expectations. During the morning shower you talked about giving him a bj, then after work it changed to him giving you oral, and finally it changed to sex after dinner.
You walk on eggshells, no? Do you want to walk on eggshells? Are you prepared to defend anything against allegations, mistrust and feel insecure about everything? If that’s what you seek in your partner, everything is fine. He will gaslight his way around and you will always be the one to blame. You say your sex life is good. Well it’s not, according to your post. What is it that makes it good? You need to answer that to yourself. Because from the outsider perspective, this sounds horrible. If you don’t want that, it’s not really a sex issue in my opinion, it’s the overall attitude of your partner.
Yeah unfortunately the shower thing is an excuse. You need to have a serious conversation with him to see if there's a reason he isn't into it an explain how it makes you feel
This really depends on the person and how you fit with eachother.. But some positions can give you more or different stimulation.. But missionary is by no means a bad position 🙂
I don't like to watch my partner masterbate but I LOVE to see a man suddenly ejaculate when I give him a hand job. To tell the truth, it's better than me orgasming.
It should because it’s not like I asked for her to do it cause that would be rude to ask then not do it back . She did say a few days ago in a call that she might do it soon
The best and safest way would be to ask him to guide you. He can tell you better than anybody how he likes it, what feels good and what feels bad. Once you have completed your cock smacking apprenticeship you can then become a journeyman cock basher and won't need supervision.
dear lord, from one guy to a clearly disturbingly insecure guy: chill out. the comment isnt targeted. it's telling someone that if they want something like this to go well, the first time, with a married couple who has never tried it, seek out a professional. ya know….like…. a lot of other fields.
I think the both of you need to work on communication. He needs to be upfront with you instead of waiting until you ask him. Saying things like “it should have been obvious that there was a reason I hadn’t left,” never goes over well. I was also confused about your expectations. During the morning shower you talked about giving him a bj, then after work it changed to him giving you oral, and finally it changed to sex after dinner.
I mean, in the dating sphere any guy under 6ft might as well all be 2ft.
Thank you omg
You walk on eggshells, no? Do you want to walk on eggshells? Are you prepared to defend anything against allegations, mistrust and feel insecure about everything? If that’s what you seek in your partner, everything is fine. He will gaslight his way around and you will always be the one to blame. You say your sex life is good. Well it’s not, according to your post. What is it that makes it good? You need to answer that to yourself. Because from the outsider perspective, this sounds horrible. If you don’t want that, it’s not really a sex issue in my opinion, it’s the overall attitude of your partner.
I have known him for a few years. I know he is gay
Honestly, I rarely feel it. It's more of a mental thing.
Yeah unfortunately the shower thing is an excuse. You need to have a serious conversation with him to see if there's a reason he isn't into it an explain how it makes you feel
This really depends on the person and how you fit with eachother.. But some positions can give you more or different stimulation.. But missionary is by no means a bad position 🙂
I don't like to watch my partner masterbate but I LOVE to see a man suddenly ejaculate when I give him a hand job. To tell the truth, it's better than me orgasming.
It's not gross, it's pretty common
It should because it’s not like I asked for her to do it cause that would be rude to ask then not do it back . She did say a few days ago in a call that she might do it soon
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Well, I'm gonna go on based on this post alone and say it must be depressing as hell to have sex with you
The best and safest way would be to ask him to guide you. He can tell you better than anybody how he likes it, what feels good and what feels bad. Once you have completed your cock smacking apprenticeship you can then become a journeyman cock basher and won't need supervision.
Just shower is all that's needed. As for pube management, there are so many options depending on what you want.
Does it get bigger when erect after it was removed?
Sounds like mixed signals. Be clear and do not equivocate. If you are into him, talk to him.
If you have to explain it or she was not sure, it was not an orgasme. You know when you have one.
dear lord, from one guy to a clearly disturbingly insecure guy: chill out. the comment isnt targeted. it's telling someone that if they want something like this to go well, the first time, with a married couple who has never tried it, seek out a professional. ya know….like…. a lot of other fields.