So thoughtful of you (: I'd say try looking for some inspiration. There's all sorts of solo masturbation videos on reddit and pornhub, it can just be slightly harder to find the more artistic ones. Lighting is big. You don't want bright white overhead light, or too dim that you can't see anything. A simple lighting tutorial from youtube may be able to help you out. And make it personalized. Say her name, do things she likes (; I'm sure whatever you do she will appreciate!
RINSE!…. Get to the doctors and always give head with a condom on… I know it tastes nasty but stds are nastier. No one wants a cluster on their mouth. Always ask when is the last time he was tested If they make a weird face, do not touch them. If they don't care about themselves, they won't care about you.
So he sexually coerces you, which is a form of rape and molestation. He gaslights you. And he sleep deprives you. Those are ALL forms of abuse. You need to leave. He does NOT love you he is using you. And id fucking elbow the shit out of him if he wakes you up again if you're planning on staying. Which would be quite a bad decision on your part. These forms of abuse, like all forms ONLY GET WORSE
It makes complete sense that you're bad at blowjobs because you're EIGHTEEN FREAKIN' YEARS OLD! I mean, I know y'all are young and all but Jesus H.W. Christ, tell your boyfriend to stop being a little turd. I think even at 18 I would've been able to see that I was being an ass like that. God damn it, to be 18 again and for my worries to be being bad at blowjobs. Man y'all don't know how good y'all got it! Stay with your parents for as long as you can cause the cost of living is higher than Willie Nelson and Snoop Dogg at Woodstock. Do they even still hold Woodstock? I don't know, but damn it that has to count for somethin' 'cause we were a team.
I had exactly the same thing with my girl, we are already 1,5 years together and till last October i couldn't cum without masturbating, bit we were talking about it etc and I relaxed a bit and managed to cum during sex and since than it was much easier. I have yet to cum from handjob or blowjob. So my advice is just to chill out, let it happen and don't worry
I’m sure you won’t have any problems finding a new fuck buddy! Most men would snap your hand off! If you feel offended is it because you feel more for him? If so tell him? Or just tell him he’s kissed you off and see what the outcome is
There are a heap of men out there that love a larger figure. Best way to attract them is to have confidence. I know that sounds cheesy, but it will help people to see you differently
Get to know the Person over longer periods of time. Meet their friends and family and then decide if he is a decent human being or abusive. You cant know from 1 date. And most men will show their best side on a date jaut to get into your pants. So not giving in fast, dating them for a longer amount of time, not going too fast and enjoying their company is the best approach. Look at their actions, dont believe their words.
Hey sis, I’m an outtie too and I switched to hate it to absolutely not giving a single fuck! 🙋🏻‍♀️ I had many sexual partners and some have said that they loved it, some have said that they found it strange. No big deal. It’s like every other part of your body: some like big tits and some like them small, some others prefer the bum, some love feet and some will make you wear socks during sex because they can’t see them. Just don’t make a big deal out of it, you will learn that it’s perfectly normal and men know that too! Absolute pro: having “more” skin down there also means that you’re more sensitive because there are more nerve endings! 🥰
No advice to give, but what a lucky woman she is
So thoughtful of you (: I'd say try looking for some inspiration. There's all sorts of solo masturbation videos on reddit and pornhub, it can just be slightly harder to find the more artistic ones. Lighting is big. You don't want bright white overhead light, or too dim that you can't see anything. A simple lighting tutorial from youtube may be able to help you out. And make it personalized. Say her name, do things she likes (; I'm sure whatever you do she will appreciate!
Because I’m wondering if he heard it in porn?
RINSE!…. Get to the doctors and always give head with a condom on… I know it tastes nasty but stds are nastier. No one wants a cluster on their mouth. Always ask when is the last time he was tested If they make a weird face, do not touch them. If they don't care about themselves, they won't care about you.
So he sexually coerces you, which is a form of rape and molestation. He gaslights you. And he sleep deprives you. Those are ALL forms of abuse. You need to leave. He does NOT love you he is using you. And id fucking elbow the shit out of him if he wakes you up again if you're planning on staying. Which would be quite a bad decision on your part. These forms of abuse, like all forms ONLY GET WORSE
Op has probably been raped several times…sad
Yeah it’s pretty scary there are ppl that disagree with the idea that you can’t change what you are comfortable with and what your boundaries are.
99.9% you have an STD. Go to a doctor.
Beautiful comment, thank you 🙂
It makes complete sense that you're bad at blowjobs because you're EIGHTEEN FREAKIN' YEARS OLD! I mean, I know y'all are young and all but Jesus H.W. Christ, tell your boyfriend to stop being a little turd. I think even at 18 I would've been able to see that I was being an ass like that. God damn it, to be 18 again and for my worries to be being bad at blowjobs. Man y'all don't know how good y'all got it! Stay with your parents for as long as you can cause the cost of living is higher than Willie Nelson and Snoop Dogg at Woodstock. Do they even still hold Woodstock? I don't know, but damn it that has to count for somethin' 'cause we were a team.
I had exactly the same thing with my girl, we are already 1,5 years together and till last October i couldn't cum without masturbating, bit we were talking about it etc and I relaxed a bit and managed to cum during sex and since than it was much easier. I have yet to cum from handjob or blowjob. So my advice is just to chill out, let it happen and don't worry
Your husband needs to understand that no means no. Does best friend's wife have an opinion?
Yeah that's what I'm gonna do, maybe more than just a week, because I really feel like I binged on it like an addict could do with a drug.
Yeah that's what I'm gonna do, maybe more than just a week, because I really feel like I binged on it like an addict could do with a drug.
I have the opposite problem. I dont get that wet or if I do it doesn’t last. Trust me MOST men prefer a wet pussy.
When we meet, everything is fine. I do agree communication could be better though.
I’m sure you won’t have any problems finding a new fuck buddy! Most men would snap your hand off! If you feel offended is it because you feel more for him? If so tell him? Or just tell him he’s kissed you off and see what the outcome is
Was just doing a lame joke then?
There are a heap of men out there that love a larger figure. Best way to attract them is to have confidence. I know that sounds cheesy, but it will help people to see you differently
The only people that would care are small-minded people.
Get to know the Person over longer periods of time. Meet their friends and family and then decide if he is a decent human being or abusive. You cant know from 1 date. And most men will show their best side on a date jaut to get into your pants. So not giving in fast, dating them for a longer amount of time, not going too fast and enjoying their company is the best approach. Look at their actions, dont believe their words.
Hey sis, I’m an outtie too and I switched to hate it to absolutely not giving a single fuck! 🙋🏻‍♀️ I had many sexual partners and some have said that they loved it, some have said that they found it strange. No big deal. It’s like every other part of your body: some like big tits and some like them small, some others prefer the bum, some love feet and some will make you wear socks during sex because they can’t see them. Just don’t make a big deal out of it, you will learn that it’s perfectly normal and men know that too! Absolute pro: having “more” skin down there also means that you’re more sensitive because there are more nerve endings! 🥰
How open are you two about that type of stuff?
How does it make you feel?