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Sometimes I'm so shy my face gets red and I have to cover it while they're going down on me 😅 other times it's too good to be shy and I'm lost in the ecstacy lol
100% people w herpes should always disclose
What the fuck
Sorry. She's bored of sex with you. When you leave she will 100% have some rebound sex and then continue her life.
I’m so jealous lads, of this FWB relationship. No luck for me on that at all in Dublin.
Do you have Interstitial Cystitis?
Good group sex is logistically complicated! Idk about you but when I first started having sex (with one person) it often felt awkward. Messy. Self conscious. Sometimes I felt weird after, or disappointed. Now imagine those feelings compounded, because you have more people involved. Think about how you relate to your BF and the other person. How your BF relates to the two of you. How the other person feels. If you want good group sex you need to be willing to practice, bc it takes some different skill sets. To be clear, I love group play. Definitely not aiming to discourage!
I'll try approach it in some other way. I know that i cant push her, but i hoped by talking about it, it would change her way of thinking. If she can somehow change her way of thinking and not focus on the action but more on the happines you give the other person, maybe it would change. Like i gave her the example of driving her late at night, so she would not have to take a train. Do i like to drive 1hour around? No but seeing the smile on your face and the feeling that you are happy you don't have to take the train so late in the rain makes me want to do this. You get what i mean?
If you want to make your boyfriend feel fucking fantastic, just randomly kneel down in front of him and give him a blow job. A great initiation to sex and honestly something he will think about all the time. My wife randomly initiated a blow job while walking up our basement steps and I still fantasize about it….it happened at least 4 years ago.
I feel talking about it is disrespectful to the partner, first and foremost. I never asked for permission to talk about what I did with someone in bed. So, I never talk about it. The MOST I may do is talk about specific experiences in a very abstract way, without telling names or anything. Although those conversations are rare; they often show up if someone has an issue or something. So it’s more talk about the experience, not the people.
I could screen shot tons if examples 😝
I have read your responses about how you can't get a gyno just yet, so I know you're stuck with that doctor for now. I want you to know that yours is a common problem all over the world – people (including doctors) don't believe women when they have medical concerns. There are really grim articles out there with anecdotes from women who are treated like they're crazy for wanting to change positions when giving birth, change prescriptions, change doctors etc. Basically, health care is a place where female autonomy is resisted. Your situation is a prime example. It's up to you to be more aggressive, possibly even demanding!, when you talk to this doctor. You can be your own advocate, and you have to, no one is there to give you what you need- just what they think you need. Be a bitch, be a thorn, be harsh- it's your body, and you have to fight to take care of it!
I’ll be honest, don’t like it when a guy can’t come during sex. Yes it doesn’t make you feel good, makes you feel like they aren’t turned on or enjoying it enough. Also makes me think they have a death grip and watch too much porn or masturbate too much. BUT all that being said, if they told me up front about it that it was a psychological issue they were working through in therapy, I would be understanding and receptive to that. So I think communication is key to avoid any issues.
I bet you do
He is right though, but only because he is thinking in a state of higher morals. If it is only insecurity then it looks the same but then he needs to work on it .
This post has been removed. OP would be better served to see a trained therapist for what appears to be a series of assaults over the recent past.
Everyone is different. I am a high libido female in my mid 40s and I crave my husband 3-5 times a week. We've been married a long time with 2 children. When you want sex, you make it happen.
Missionary, pillow under the bum so you're kneeling in front and not on top of her. That should clear the way using fingers or a toy on the clit. Your thrusts also hit a little nicer on the inside.
This is the best advice I would go one step further and suggest masturbating regularly , maybe use a pocket pussy/male masturbator sex toy. You'll end having the opposite problem if you do it too much though and she'll think you're not attracted to her from struggling to cum…but you'd be able to get pretty wild for as long as she can handle you
This guy gets it. I want to savour a pretty person to my fullest.
Ok, whatever makes you feel better about yourself 👍
On the other hand, I had an ex-bf who also worshipped the ground I walked, but he was clingy, needy, and whiny, and he didn’t value himself. He lacked confidence. I guess i was doing this part wrong, might it be the reason i (unwillingly) repel a close woman after she gets close to me?
You cannot disregard gender in a situation like this. If a woman is raped or assaulted, no one dares bring up what she was wearing, her behavior, or level of intoxication; because it’s irrelevant, and to do so just reinforces toxic patriarchy and a toxic culture of victim blaming. With men, it should be exactly the same. When a person decides to intentionally harm another, the fault is, and must consistently be kept, with the perpetrator. Our toxic culture of victim blaming has too many times enabled and rewarded bad behavior with its mealy-mouthed whatsboutism and eagerness to distribute fault. Rape, like all other crimes, will only end when we relentlessly and insistently place the blame precisely where it belongs—with the rapist.
Good on Mary, who's so pretty, to wank to.
Put another way, she chose to build a relationship on a lie from the start. If anyone endangered the relationship, it was her. Relationships need trust to work. She's a repeated known liar. Blowjobs alone aren't the issue here. She's a dishonest person. It's a pattern of behavior – promises broken even recently. Another way to think about it is he couldn't properly consent to a relationship because she deceived him about the nature of it.
You sound so unsexy. She works and she takes care of the kids and you’re cutting back on spending. She did it to impress you and now she has you. You probably did things to impress her and no longer do or their impressiveness has worn off. Get a better paying job, your wife needs less stress, buy her gifts that are just for her, and get the impressive blowjobs back.
If you have ED you need to see a doctor. Not only can he hook you up with whatever you need for ED, but much more important is he can treat any underlying circulatory issues before they cause major issues. Last year I had 2 heart surgeries to fix my lifelong but very late diagnosed heart condition.
I mean you can explain anything to anyone but you can’t understand it for them.
Christ, yeah I've never even heard of that until now. Seems like I'd be doing myself a favor by this point haha. Appreciate the advice!
Whenever I gest that feeling of “wasted youth” I remind myself that I stayed true to myself and what I like (I say that as a fellow huge nerd). Also, time that I enjoyed wasting is not wasted time. It's not as focused on the topic of your post as other comments but I feel like everything else I would have said has been said already
I believe I've learnt the technique quite well. The problem might be more psychology related, rather than physical. Something with my brain that I can't fix :\
Has he said he doesn't like a hairy butt? Chances are he wants some hair down there you never know unless you speak about it when the time comes.
Dude I'm 5'5″ and have had acne my entire life. I still have success. You'll never know who will rock your world. Just get out there and give yourself a chance. Don't automatically assume no one will like you, just don't
My wife is as straight as it gets and she likes watching women get off. Amateur porn where the woman looks like a regular woman, even better. The thing is, I've never talked to a woman that didn't like porn that focused on the woman's pleasure.
This is rape! No need to take it that far.. Obviously he shouldn't have done it, but OP asked him to, and he's an 18yr old.
There are plenty of big ppl that do take care of them selves
This. I've said on here before that having to focus the energy inwards has led to dome of the best orfasmscever.
I agree 💯
Yep. I don’t know why people make things so complicated.
Sounds like he’s not physically attracted to you. I’d run for the hills because he’s very deep into porn addiction and can’t be intimate with you without imagining other girls.
Practice edging yourself. Get close to orgasm and back off. Doing this often will help build your stamina so you can do the same during sex Another option is if you feel yourself getting close during sex stop and go down on her, calm down a bit, and get back to it