Dude, if it hurts, stop and back up. My ex used to force it on me, no lube and he was very thick . My butthole now looks deformed because one day he tore me and made me bleed. I do it now (16 years later) with a guy I trust. We use lube. Toys. Fingers. If it hurts, he adds more lube and we both fully enjoy it.
Dude, if it hurts, stop and back up. My ex used to force it on me, no lube and he was very thick . My butthole now looks deformed because one day he tore me and made me bleed. I do it now (16 years later) with a guy I trust. We use lube. Toys. Fingers. If it hurts, he adds more lube and we both fully enjoy it.