Definitely! Did you know that 93% of men and 96% of women have fantasized about some aspect of BDSM before? Plus there is a plethora of studies showing that BDSM and things that you are into, are completely normal to like! It looks like you're discovering new aspects of your sexuality and if you're nervous about “desensitizing”, then try to keep things exciting rather than suppressing! Play safely😉🤗
Hotels usually have a check in time, like 2PM or 3PM. You find that out when you reserve the room. You pay for the night and you have to check out by a certain time, often 11AM the next day. You can leave early if you want. They don't care, you have already paid. Just give them the keys or keycard and check out so they know you are not in the room anymore.
Please do not put anything edible in your vagina! You'll get in infection quicker than you'll get up to wash the sugar out of your vag. If he's into sweet stuff there are many different flavoured lubes specifically made for oral sex. – you could try them out.
It's not really about stigma. All (consensual) sexual activity is a trade-off between risk and pleasure, and whether consciously or unconsciously the vast majority of people feel the relatively miniscule risks involved in bareback oral are worth the increased pleasure.
You shouldn’t fear your partner before going into a scene. There should be absolute trust that they have your best interest and limits at heart. Between traveling and this he wants to hurt you via confinement and pain
If you want the truth you have to be a person it's safe to tell the truth to. You clearly aren't, and you're obsessed with his wandering eye and worried he finds other girls attractive. Every man finds women other than their wife attractive. He will not change but he will get better at lying to you because he doesn't want unnecessary conflict. You won't ever get him not to find other girls attractive, and he'll see some he likes no matter what you do. A healthy relationship isn't one where you've successfully removed all his other potential options until only you remain.
Usually 10 to 20 for me. Anything over that and I'm just over dosing myself. Her on the other hand. She takes 80 to 100. She has a high tolerance. Only problem I have is not being able to cum. Takes forever
This guys an idiot, you already said you didn’t cum in her. You’re fine. You only get a pregnancy test if you came in her. It’s that simple. My suggestion if you both plan to make this a habit or do it again, I’d use condoms and lube. It’s safer and cleaner for both of you. Good luck op
When you orgasm your pelvic floor muscles will contract involuntarily. So, practice kegel exercises. That will teach you where those muscles are, so you can know when the real thing happens. Check out r/becomingorgasmic if i manage to relax myself i just end up frustrated when i don´t come. I've been there. I know it's frustrating but you can't focus on orgasm as your goal. As soon as you're trying too hard, it's game over. Mediation helps me a lot to stay calm and focused on my body. It can help a lot of you're a overthinker.
I think it’s hot af. One of my exes would often wake me up with his mouth, or inside of me. I loved it. Also, I feel like it’s the one time where I can literally just lay there, because they woke me up from a dead ass sleep.
No, every man wishes he had a woman as open minded as you. I'm married and I'm jealous! Screw the judgers. Hard to have anal sex when you already have a stick up your butt.
I've heard of this before and I was also thinking that maybe that's the cause of this but I don't actually watch a lot of porn, only like 1-2 times a week I guess.
Buttman here. I've been a buttman since I was a kid really. Back before Jennifer Lopez or Kim Kardashian told society big butts are actually attractive to some of us men. I still like big boobs more than small. But if I had to choose big boobs with a flat ass, or a flat chest with big, beautiful bubble booty that jiggles so perfectly? Well….
I know you're mostly looking to see just how common of a kink this is, but I just want to make sure that you know that ANY comments or feelings you hear from people on here shouldn't change your opinion towards this kink. The fact that you took the care to speak to your significant other about the subject means that you care enough to take the time to communicate your desires with a partner, as well as taken their own considerations to heart. This responsibly beautiful thing supersedes any type of external influences, and i strongly believe it should stay an intimately private and primal force in your relationship that will evolve as you two grow, sexually. It's a huge success that she feels perfectly fine stimulating this particular kink, but I love the fact that she felt comfortable telling you that she isn't into that particularly for herself. It seems like it would give you a strong incentive or segue into cultivating some of her own sexual journeys, and having an environment where such sexual reciprocations exist is one of the most beautiful things about finding and loving your counterpart in life. Something like this takes a lot of love and support, and I hope you and your wife get to enjoy all the accolades that come with something like that, for a very very long time. Best of luck, friend,
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Find someone else to have sex with. My ex had a gf and would come home smelling like her and not wanting to give me any attention, so I went out and got what I wanted and needed
She doesn't masturbate, she doesn't watch porn and doesn't have any ideas what she wants to try. I always ask her if she wants to try something or what she wants to do and she always answers: I don't know or i don't have a idea.
Agree with this direct approach. OP, no more you talking *at* your wife. You need to hold a Q&A chat with her where you ask a question and wait for a direct answer. No moving to another topic. No going around in circles. No “I love you” responses or “I'm happy, really.” I'm a 50 y/old woman who's heard both women and and men tell me/confess their reasons for no sex. I suggest you get direct with your wife sooner than later and if she won't be honest, get clear on whether you can actually live in a sexless marriage *and* with a woman who deliberately refuses to tell you the truth. You don't have kids right now—take advantage of this fact.
i think you're taking things a bit too seriously, it would probably only become a serious issue if he like love loved it yknow? obsession kinda stuff. i know people like that but it sounds like that's not him, so should be fine
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It really depends on what he likes. Everybody's different, some guys like it fast and sloppy, some (like me) like it slow and sensual. If he's like me, then check out a channel called Fellucia Blow (just google it, it's on most porn sites), it will give you some great pointers.
Definitely love clowns in every way, it’s just made its way into my sexuality.
Late 50's and my wife (40 years together)and I are still evolving. Communication is key!
Definitely! Did you know that 93% of men and 96% of women have fantasized about some aspect of BDSM before? Plus there is a plethora of studies showing that BDSM and things that you are into, are completely normal to like! It looks like you're discovering new aspects of your sexuality and if you're nervous about “desensitizing”, then try to keep things exciting rather than suppressing! Play safely😉🤗
Hotels usually have a check in time, like 2PM or 3PM. You find that out when you reserve the room. You pay for the night and you have to check out by a certain time, often 11AM the next day. You can leave early if you want. They don't care, you have already paid. Just give them the keys or keycard and check out so they know you are not in the room anymore.
Go back to 4chan incel
RUN. And file a restraining order. God damn, these aren't just red flags, these are fucking military parade banners.
Please do not put anything edible in your vagina! You'll get in infection quicker than you'll get up to wash the sugar out of your vag. If he's into sweet stuff there are many different flavoured lubes specifically made for oral sex. – you could try them out.
Possibly mini orgasms before the full final one? I’m a F but my bf often talks about this happening during sex.
It's not really about stigma. All (consensual) sexual activity is a trade-off between risk and pleasure, and whether consciously or unconsciously the vast majority of people feel the relatively miniscule risks involved in bareback oral are worth the increased pleasure.
You need to run Forest run
You shouldn’t fear your partner before going into a scene. There should be absolute trust that they have your best interest and limits at heart. Between traveling and this he wants to hurt you via confinement and pain
Oh I know, my previous comment was agreeing with you
If you want the truth you have to be a person it's safe to tell the truth to. You clearly aren't, and you're obsessed with his wandering eye and worried he finds other girls attractive. Every man finds women other than their wife attractive. He will not change but he will get better at lying to you because he doesn't want unnecessary conflict. You won't ever get him not to find other girls attractive, and he'll see some he likes no matter what you do. A healthy relationship isn't one where you've successfully removed all his other potential options until only you remain.
Usually 10 to 20 for me. Anything over that and I'm just over dosing myself. Her on the other hand. She takes 80 to 100. She has a high tolerance. Only problem I have is not being able to cum. Takes forever
This guys an idiot, you already said you didn’t cum in her. You’re fine. You only get a pregnancy test if you came in her. It’s that simple. My suggestion if you both plan to make this a habit or do it again, I’d use condoms and lube. It’s safer and cleaner for both of you. Good luck op
Reported for child abuse and an EXTREMELY illegal suggestion.
When you orgasm your pelvic floor muscles will contract involuntarily. So, practice kegel exercises. That will teach you where those muscles are, so you can know when the real thing happens. Check out r/becomingorgasmic if i manage to relax myself i just end up frustrated when i don´t come. I've been there. I know it's frustrating but you can't focus on orgasm as your goal. As soon as you're trying too hard, it's game over. Mediation helps me a lot to stay calm and focused on my body. It can help a lot of you're a overthinker.
I feel bad for your inbox.
Oh, as a female I definitely recommend this one
I think it’s hot af. One of my exes would often wake me up with his mouth, or inside of me. I loved it. Also, I feel like it’s the one time where I can literally just lay there, because they woke me up from a dead ass sleep.
No, every man wishes he had a woman as open minded as you. I'm married and I'm jealous! Screw the judgers. Hard to have anal sex when you already have a stick up your butt.
I was with you the whole way. But the punch line cinched it.
I've heard of this before and I was also thinking that maybe that's the cause of this but I don't actually watch a lot of porn, only like 1-2 times a week I guess.
Exactly if this was a man he’d already be in prison. The whole post screams pedophilia…
Is it risky. Yes. Does it make you disgusting. No, we like what we like and doctors love patients.
I live in Utah and that is absolutely not the case. Still illegal.
Buttman here. I've been a buttman since I was a kid really. Back before Jennifer Lopez or Kim Kardashian told society big butts are actually attractive to some of us men. I still like big boobs more than small. But if I had to choose big boobs with a flat ass, or a flat chest with big, beautiful bubble booty that jiggles so perfectly? Well….
You mentioned several positions. Look into the “amazon” position for something different.
Ask you SO
Depends on the ex. Sometimes it was just a quick fuck… Others it was sex and cuddling and aftercare.
I know you're mostly looking to see just how common of a kink this is, but I just want to make sure that you know that ANY comments or feelings you hear from people on here shouldn't change your opinion towards this kink. The fact that you took the care to speak to your significant other about the subject means that you care enough to take the time to communicate your desires with a partner, as well as taken their own considerations to heart. This responsibly beautiful thing supersedes any type of external influences, and i strongly believe it should stay an intimately private and primal force in your relationship that will evolve as you two grow, sexually. It's a huge success that she feels perfectly fine stimulating this particular kink, but I love the fact that she felt comfortable telling you that she isn't into that particularly for herself. It seems like it would give you a strong incentive or segue into cultivating some of her own sexual journeys, and having an environment where such sexual reciprocations exist is one of the most beautiful things about finding and loving your counterpart in life. Something like this takes a lot of love and support, and I hope you and your wife get to enjoy all the accolades that come with something like that, for a very very long time. Best of luck, friend,
Anal toy was great. Stipulations was a amazing. The toy was rubbing against my p spot and it made me felt crazy. Wife's idea. 👌
Nah, it's a perfectly standard take.
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It amplifies pleasure on my willy
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ca depend de l'origine de la femme . Moi cest rose voir rouge
Jesus dude…….what u doing with tht thing…?Prospecting petrol?😂😂😂
This is the energy I hope my man has about me lol
Do any of these sexual orientation types get married?
Oh wow, and interesting that your inner foreskin is just as absorptive
Mustn’t be a good look for the industry when the most famous porn star of the day is trash talking it.
Find someone else to have sex with. My ex had a gf and would come home smelling like her and not wanting to give me any attention, so I went out and got what I wanted and needed
If he is long then you can go for up and down.. otherwise try to grind forwards and backwards.
Maybe.
She doesn't masturbate, she doesn't watch porn and doesn't have any ideas what she wants to try. I always ask her if she wants to try something or what she wants to do and she always answers: I don't know or i don't have a idea.
Handjobs are objectively better than blowjobs 🤷🏾♂️
There's someone for everyone. The pandemic really fucked up dating in general.
Agree with this direct approach. OP, no more you talking *at* your wife. You need to hold a Q&A chat with her where you ask a question and wait for a direct answer. No moving to another topic. No going around in circles. No “I love you” responses or “I'm happy, really.” I'm a 50 y/old woman who's heard both women and and men tell me/confess their reasons for no sex. I suggest you get direct with your wife sooner than later and if she won't be honest, get clear on whether you can actually live in a sexless marriage *and* with a woman who deliberately refuses to tell you the truth. You don't have kids right now—take advantage of this fact.
The power of love!
To be honest, about 95% of my comments are pretty unnecessary.
i think you're taking things a bit too seriously, it would probably only become a serious issue if he like love loved it yknow? obsession kinda stuff. i know people like that but it sounds like that's not him, so should be fine
Yes, yes they do. In my experience however it's a significantly older crowd. Like 40+
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Are you exclusive with the old man
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Lol it's just nuts, who gives a rats how big they are. You're being silly as hell being upset about this,
It really depends on what he likes. Everybody's different, some guys like it fast and sloppy, some (like me) like it slow and sensual. If he's like me, then check out a channel called Fellucia Blow (just google it, it's on most porn sites), it will give you some great pointers.