Very true. If touch is her primary language, and that kind of intimacy is an important way for her to connect and feel love, it may be something the two can explore together and end up even stronger. That said, she has a long history of acting very immature about it to put it lightly. She doesn't seem very good at having a calm discussion about conflict. It may not be easy to change that. OP will need to set boundaries for what type of conversations he's willing to have when discussing sex (like no shit flipping), and it sounds like he will need to end up enforcing them at least a time or two. Make it clear that she can't be disrespectful when talking about it. No yelling, namecalling, any of that, and be prepared to remove yourself if it does happen. Then try again.
I never use lube for anal.. it dries out and itโs easy to put too much. But foreplay is needed.. Start with a nice buttock massage Then have her use a vibrator or wand on her clit Rimming for a few minutes so it is nice and wet I recommend start laying on your sides not on all fours first. Let her guide you in Then wait for a min.. till sheโs ready .. Then follow her lead.. she may like it soft and gentle to start and then speed up but itโs upto her. Been having anal for over 10 years with my partner as she prefers it. Everyone is different but for me those are the key steps. Good luck and enjoy
Woman here: Lots of sexist judgement in here. Ouf! Man or woman, body count does mean shit. What is important is that she is with you (and only you) and that you both are healthy. STDs are possible with 1 partner so always get a health check and share your results.
Get bed straps, and watch some dom pornos for good ideas on how to talk dirty
The idea of disappointing people like that makes me feel sick ๐
Very true. If touch is her primary language, and that kind of intimacy is an important way for her to connect and feel love, it may be something the two can explore together and end up even stronger. That said, she has a long history of acting very immature about it to put it lightly. She doesn't seem very good at having a calm discussion about conflict. It may not be easy to change that. OP will need to set boundaries for what type of conversations he's willing to have when discussing sex (like no shit flipping), and it sounds like he will need to end up enforcing them at least a time or two. Make it clear that she can't be disrespectful when talking about it. No yelling, namecalling, any of that, and be prepared to remove yourself if it does happen. Then try again.
I love them they keep it harder, makes his orgasms better and he lasts longer with it too! Everyone should try them atleast once in their life ๐
I never use lube for anal.. it dries out and itโs easy to put too much. But foreplay is needed.. Start with a nice buttock massage Then have her use a vibrator or wand on her clit Rimming for a few minutes so it is nice and wet I recommend start laying on your sides not on all fours first. Let her guide you in Then wait for a min.. till sheโs ready .. Then follow her lead.. she may like it soft and gentle to start and then speed up but itโs upto her. Been having anal for over 10 years with my partner as she prefers it. Everyone is different but for me those are the key steps. Good luck and enjoy
Woman here: Lots of sexist judgement in here. Ouf! Man or woman, body count does mean shit. What is important is that she is with you (and only you) and that you both are healthy. STDs are possible with 1 partner so always get a health check and share your results.