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When I queef , my husband and I just act like it didn’t happen or we laugh . It’s normal and it’s nothing to be embarrassed about , but let your gf bring it up first .
I have been in this situation. Women have much more physical capacity for sex than men, we can't nor will we physically fulfill them. Make it emotional. First, boundaries, take care of yourself go back to the gym and plan time for yourself. Next, work smarter not harder. You are not a human dildo, sex can happen a lot of different ways and if she has time and desire let her up her game. Make her, please don't take this the wrong way, work for it. Your only strength is in your ability to control yourself. Be kinky and have fun!
Oil based lubes in general start to dissolve latex condoms, as long as you avoid that combo, you should be fine. Either water based lube, or non-latex condoms, or some other alternative. If you’re super worried about it, most big name brands have a line of condoms that have pre-applied spermicidal lube. Trojan for sure carries ones like that.
Take them off. Let her enjoy the view.
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thanks i will give it some more time
He sound selfish. A real man is more interested in pleasing you before himself.
It's possible that your boobs were looking a little fuller that day due to where you were in your menstrual cycle. That happens to my wife too. Everyone is being absurdly harsh on your boyfriend, he didn't even say your boobs weren't big enough or that he didn't like them, he just said they looked bigger that day and though a little careless he's not this evil monster people here want to make him. Reddit loves making couples split.
First things first you have a right to express your boundaries; your likes and dislikes. His response to you communicating that you aren’t comfortable with him cumming on you is not cool. But it did have curious… where would you prefer he finished? I read a post here a couple weeks back from a guy who’s gf is disgusted by his cum and expressed how repulsive she finds it. Naturally, this started to make him feel shame and embarrassment of his own bodily fluids and an inevitable part of sex. I’m wondering if your bf relates to that in any way? If you enjoy the sex with him otherwise, and enjoy being intimate with him- the only thing I would suggest is avoiding using language that could make him feel like his cum is dirty or gross. Ask him to cum where you are most comfortable.
You can't stop the feeling stop the girl
Or he might not ever feel comfortable at all & shouldn't be forced to do things he won't enjoy.
Some guys like the sensation of a blowjob, but think anyone who takes cum in their mouth and doesn't spit out the cum must be a really dirty whore. Totally screwed up thinking, I know – but that thinking does exist. Being a “cocksucker” used to be one of the dirtiest things to be called.
…why not just open the relationship? That would be an easy solution.
yeah probably should ask him what he meant
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You used the fact that he is already a Dad, by accidental pregnancy, as a reason to trust him?!! Clearly, he doesn't know what he is talking about. This is not safe. Not at all. Tell him to wear a condom every time. You may have already been exposed to STDs. You should get tested.
Isn't necessarily the “first sign” or a sign at all, it could mean a bunch of things, but in this case just seems like she lost interest
This is a common side effect of antidepressants. Talk to your doctor.
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I think you should ask. I've given head to and swallowed around 20 guys and they all loved it, but I can only give you my experience.
I'm not banned on any other accounts.
I don't really know the best answer to this. Personally I don't like porn in my relationship, and we don't watch it (for a multitude of reasons, from feeling bad after jerking off, to not liking the industry). I think the most 'okay' porn I'd be willing to consume would be written, or audio, not visual.
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My hubby likes to watch me get off so if he’s too tired then I just recruit his help to either play with me while I use a vibe or he gets to use the vibe while I rub on him and use a glass dildo. I’m happy and he gets to save his energy for another day.
Ok. He's my ex so I'll let him deal with his issues, though.
All the people here defending the girl are hypocrites. If a dude would jerk off to random girls on Instagram he would be creepy and disgusting. He also would be cheating. But if a girl does that, OP is the Problem for sure. Those people on reddit are crazy. Don't listen to them.
That's horrible, and they're ignorant bad people. I hope you find peace.
If he’s like me then he’s automatically thinking “shit she’s done this before” and that can have a psychological effect on some of us dudes. Been married for 6 years and my wife is very sexual with high libido, admittedly there are times she’s riding my cock and I have thought about her past with other men.
I just use wanking as a gender-neutral term. I'm not a native speaker, so I have no idea if that's actually how British and Irish people use it, but I like it.
It's always a concern sure. But I always use a condom. I'll only fuck without one if we've both been tested and came out clean
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He's taking advantage of you. Honestly the age difference should have set off an alarm for you.
It's not immature to feel disturbed by seeing someone eat their own semen. Everyone's got their boundaries. I wouldn't really want to see that. You can't insist that people serenely accept whatever anyone does as long as it's in a sexual environment.
Let me guess: she used to do this but now that she is comfortably married it's a no-go. You are being way too nice to her.
I'm not comfortable even seeing myself naked, maybe lack of confidence
No, I haven't. Doctor is going to give me laxative right now and wait 30 mins.
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I feel like we are the same person. 😂. Especially when I was younger. I started being sexually active at 15 and my bf at the time always had to loosen me up before sex, and he was about a tad above average. I was not a victim of SA but I did start masterbating at a young age. I struggle a lot with hypersexuality and being bipolar does not help whatsoever. Now I’m 36. I had never EVER came from oral until I met my current bf. I think it has a lot to do with his peen just hits all the right spots and opened up Pandora’s box. I’d gotten use to using a vibrator so that can kind of gets you spoiled to that particular sensation. I started masterbating with just my fingers sometimes and that helped. Once I was able to of course. It was a process. Lol I most definitely do not think it’s you, or him necessarily. I struggled with the same embarrassment and feelings of being “broken” some how. It’s not you at all. Everyone’s body works differently. One thing I used to do with a past bf is get myself right on the edge then he would come in with his tongue and send me over. There’s nothing that says you have to or are supposed to come from every type of sexual stimulation. Reassure yourself and him that it’s not an issue with either one of you and sometimes it takes some time to completely figure things out with a partner.
Your post has been automatically removed because it appears to be asking if some aspect of someone else's or your own sexuality or body is normal or not. We get a lot of questions here that are about really basic stuff that ought to be taught in schools but that unfortunately isn't. Variance is the norm in human sexuality. It's more meaningful to ask questions like: is this safe? Is this consensual? Is this mutually pleasurable? There are a lot of great resources for this, including scarleteen and go ask alice. You may also find relevant information with a search of /r/sex or in our FAQ. If you feel like your question is more complicated or will be a topic for thoughtful discussion, please message the moderators so that we can restore your post. I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
Oops its a typo….lol
If they are really close to having an orgasm and they say they’re about to and don’t stop and you suddenly switch up the pressure or speed. Huge mood killer
What did you have before 34? Relationships, love, feelings, affection for a girl? Believe me, at 30, life is just beginning. There are many free girls without children, interesting and attractive. Start reading books on the psychology of relationships, go to the gym and become interesting for girls. Travel the world and get to know each other. and you will find your baby.
You came on here using your own anecdotal experience to justify a 10 year gap. Don't act aghast when the same is used against you.
Not to me, it didn’t. And trust me — I was all in for at least 18 of 20 years.
My new bff is a Libra. I’m a cancer! Libra girls are so cool compared to libra men lol. I’ve only met libra women recently. Their vibe is completely different!
The psychosis men experience paired with sleep is fucking terrifying and insane
If you're just worried about your initiation coming off as masculine, there are a lot of ways to initiate sex that are distinctly not masculine. Like no one would ever say it's masculine to rub your ass against his crotch while you're spooning, to tease him with your breasts until he can't take it, or spread your legs and giving him the “come here” finger, or to just whisper in his ear that you need him inside you. If anything, those are ways to make him feel more masculine while you're initiating. But also, if those ways feel unnatural to you, he seems to be into you for who you are; just go for it!
I started buying it pretty earlier on in the relationship. At first it was low budget…. I went to Victoria's secret with her and would buy her a couple of panties from the bin that I liked. Apparently that was bold for a 21 year old and she liked the concept.
The only way to know what kind of ice cream flavour you like is to try them all.
My wife and I do this. We meet woman on tinder and take them on dates and have the occasional threesome. The easiest way to start sex is with some open communication. Start by asking about “hard no's”. Here everyone can say what they don't want to happen in a threesome. Next, talk about some fantasy play, what yall WOULD like to experience. Then yall can start with the soft slow stuff and work your way up to what ever you want. Definitely meet up with them and really look at their relationship. If they look to have a happy, healthy relationship, consider going the next step.
Oh fuck yeah! Thank you!! I'll have to person by person import all of them into the app but it's still so cool
That s a bit narrow minded
Why are you storing it?
That's exactly my question. I need concrete examples
What I think they wanted to explain is that in their case, this was a thing they didn't know they enjoyed until I happened. Once they experienced it, they saw it as an obvious improvement to bedroom life and if they liked it, other people would like it as well, obviously. But in reality, what they see as “the good word” is not actually universal. They either hadn't developed the forethought about it to realize that others may feel differently or they had not run into an experience where they introduced it and were given a negative response yet. I said all of that to say the reason you're frustrated is exactly the point. People are doing these things and not talking about them first, which is the problem.
If you both agree and understand the risk you’re taking then, you certainly wouldn’t be the first couple to do this. Have a discussion before hand about what she would want to do if she did become pregnant. Have a discussion about your exclusivity to each other. And as an added layer talk to her about communicating where she is in her cycle with you. Is it regular? Be ok with using condoms again during her fertile window (around ovulation).
Dude it is not 1940! I love how you just assume cooking and cleaning is the woman's JOB.
You’re a thoughtful, intelligent, sexy woman. I’m sure you will navigate this to your mutual pleasure
I’ve tried to seduce/initiate and he will reject me. I’m always the one spicing it up with lingerie, I want him to make effort. I don’t always want to be the one to make effort. I just feel like he’s being selfish and lazy when it comes to sec with me. Even when we do have sex, it’s all about his pleasure. No foreplay no fingering no head all him. When he’s done he doesn’t finish me
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mental disorders. crazy people fuck like mad. normal people bust and end says the bp2, mdd with cptsd, adhd, ocd and hypersexuality
Never be sorry. Use your partner like a well used toy.
No I haven't but it's my fantasy haha maybe one day….hopefully soon lol haha
Tell him to put a few drops of water-based lube in the head of the condom before putting it on, it helps. Condoms reduce the feeling for vaginal sex but I’ve found that I personally prefer them for anal. I’ve been fixed for twenty years but I keep a stash handy for the random times I feel like wearing them or if anal is on the table.
“Better”, for me at least, is learning about new desires and kinks, allowing myself to be more vulnerable, taking more risks, feeling COMPLETELY comfortable and safe, being with the only person in the world who knows me almost as well as I know myself… I had that dulce de leche 1 year in too. Then I got another slice in year 2. Year 3 and 4 were a bit rocky road due to my prioritization of work over home. The pandemic hit and it got really tough. Then we had a heart-to-heart and started communicating better. For the last year it has been better and better every single day. It sounds like you’ve got a good head on your shoulders. You’ll do just fine. 🙂
Sex is fun. If you have fun doing something, you want to do it again. Things are only addictions when your need for it outweighs your safety.
Anything less than an update with “my ex-boyfriend” will be a disappointment and reflect a huge lack of self-esteem
“Accident” seems unlikely but it has happened to me. I was younger and didn't know what I was doing but I still did. Some people like you to ask first, others get annoyed if you ask, they just want you to do it. Personally, I think it's always good to communicate about what you're okay with, especially when it comes to the butt.