damn that's sad. maybe you could help him last longer? edging over the course of a month made me go from lasting 5 minutes to 10 minutes PIV. could also have him try a strap on (i know that might sound weird lol and he might be opposed but if the alternative is breaking up, or worsening, my otherwise happy marriage id be down)
Oh definitely want to tread lightly. Our relationship is my priority. That being said, he is probably one of the most gentle, non jealous unless necessary people I’ve met. I know for a fact that he has 0 desire to sleep with another woman as we’ve talked about that before and he’s made it a point that he only wants me. I urge him all the time to name celebrities he finds attractive and he can hardly do that lol. But the concern is there, I get it.
This might sound weird but we guys sometimes need the girl's to be active, approach US instead of playing the waiting game. Just go to the guy you find interesting and talk. More often then youd think this can escalate to a proper friendship. And then if you want the slop just initiate a friends with benefits situation..
It’s not that you have kids. It’s that you are older. They have a fantasy of being “taught” by an older caring sexual mother figure. Or they think we have low self esteem and are desperate for validation… probably both…
It's happened to me with my wife before – usually because I'm stressed or down, so despite her best efforts it just ain't gonna happen. Same with jacking off too, I start but if a thought comes into my head I don't like it just kills the moment. I wouldn't worry about it really. Usually I just offer my wife some reassurance and focus on pleasuring her, and then see if it comes back. Try and focus on relaxing before, if you're happy your dick is happy too!
I tell my girl I really don’t care but she gets insecure about it and has to always wax it. Hopefully one day, she can be secure enough to not let it bother her
It's totally different to the real deal. But it works quite good especially in connection with someone else's toy over long distances. The app allows video chat during the act
Weak males like you cannot fathom anyone treating women like human beings and us reciprocating. I’m sorry fir whatever happened to you to make you so miserable in life, and I am also sorry for the inevitable crash that will happen once your brain matures fully and you realize incel culture is cringey as fuck. I genuinely wish you good luck!
It wasn’t a past relationship who sent my nudes. But I don’t feel comfortable with ever giving people videos of a sex time. It’s not just them who could send it years down the line, it’s hackers too
You need to talk ! Be honest ! Let him be honest ! If you love each other you will find a solution together. And if he really really loves you then he will understand your needs.
I would ask right away ‘why would you keep that’ and tell them ‘of course it’s a problem’ and if they disagreed then we probably wouldn’t be together much longer
My wife squirts fromG spot stimulation. I can induce it at will. We use a couple of thick towels. Cleanup takes 10 seconds to toss the towels into the hamper.
It's pretty common. But you can try stimulating the frenulum with your tongue or give blowjob the opposite way so his frenulum kind of brushes against your palate if your tongue gets too tired.
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This is disrespectful, and in bad taste, but it’s neither bullying nor harassment.
Go for it girl 👧
damn that's sad. maybe you could help him last longer? edging over the course of a month made me go from lasting 5 minutes to 10 minutes PIV. could also have him try a strap on (i know that might sound weird lol and he might be opposed but if the alternative is breaking up, or worsening, my otherwise happy marriage id be down)
Oh definitely want to tread lightly. Our relationship is my priority. That being said, he is probably one of the most gentle, non jealous unless necessary people I’ve met. I know for a fact that he has 0 desire to sleep with another woman as we’ve talked about that before and he’s made it a point that he only wants me. I urge him all the time to name celebrities he finds attractive and he can hardly do that lol. But the concern is there, I get it.
Never thought of that. If I have the opportunity again I'll try a larger one.
This might sound weird but we guys sometimes need the girl's to be active, approach US instead of playing the waiting game. Just go to the guy you find interesting and talk. More often then youd think this can escalate to a proper friendship. And then if you want the slop just initiate a friends with benefits situation..
It’s not that you have kids. It’s that you are older. They have a fantasy of being “taught” by an older caring sexual mother figure. Or they think we have low self esteem and are desperate for validation… probably both…
It's happened to me with my wife before – usually because I'm stressed or down, so despite her best efforts it just ain't gonna happen. Same with jacking off too, I start but if a thought comes into my head I don't like it just kills the moment. I wouldn't worry about it really. Usually I just offer my wife some reassurance and focus on pleasuring her, and then see if it comes back. Try and focus on relaxing before, if you're happy your dick is happy too!
You’re only 22 years old. Youre better off moving on tbh
Lol that's one way of putting it! I have anxiety though
I tell my girl I really don’t care but she gets insecure about it and has to always wax it. Hopefully one day, she can be secure enough to not let it bother her
Why?
It's totally different to the real deal. But it works quite good especially in connection with someone else's toy over long distances. The app allows video chat during the act
Weak males like you cannot fathom anyone treating women like human beings and us reciprocating. I’m sorry fir whatever happened to you to make you so miserable in life, and I am also sorry for the inevitable crash that will happen once your brain matures fully and you realize incel culture is cringey as fuck. I genuinely wish you good luck!
It wasn’t a past relationship who sent my nudes. But I don’t feel comfortable with ever giving people videos of a sex time. It’s not just them who could send it years down the line, it’s hackers too
You need to talk ! Be honest ! Let him be honest ! If you love each other you will find a solution together. And if he really really loves you then he will understand your needs.
I would ask right away ‘why would you keep that’ and tell them ‘of course it’s a problem’ and if they disagreed then we probably wouldn’t be together much longer
My wife squirts fromG spot stimulation. I can induce it at will. We use a couple of thick towels. Cleanup takes 10 seconds to toss the towels into the hamper.
It's pretty common. But you can try stimulating the frenulum with your tongue or give blowjob the opposite way so his frenulum kind of brushes against your palate if your tongue gets too tired.
so then she’s just being mean to you to be mean. Definitely time to end it.
Yeah or smoke weed before and it may help 🤷🏽♀️
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Do you guys have sex regularly? If he wants to have sex, why don't you guys just do it before you go to bed?
Ok maybe he does so 😂
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She's good now she was young and lucky
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This is a sad situation. Sex is important stuff. A man that does not want sex is kinda an oddity.
as a male i can tell you that not wearing a bra works always. you can play that trick again, it would definitely work . Have fun
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