There are sensible men and stupid men out there, yours seem to be the latter. Don't waste more time with him, you'll do a favor to the both of you as he will learn that disrespecting a woman has consequences and you will be free to find a kind and mature partner.
Sounds like you have just have different needs and different sex drives. You can like someone and have incompatible sex needs. If it’s affecting you so much, you can talk to her about it and explain to her all the things you told us here and you guys can come to a middle ground. But if she’s not willing to and you feel like you need more, I think it’s time you guys figure out whether this will eventually lead to resentment and other things that’ll break your relationship up. Just because this is something you’re used to doesn’t mean that she’s supposed to act like every other girl you’ve been with also. Edit
I have tried but I don’t know what to do. She even jokes that she thinks she has sex trauma because of her parents controlling behaviours. I make her feel attractive, constantly reassure her about her body, have spent considerable time doing things like massaging her before sex, but the issue is that she’s never orgasmed even from masturbation. When that’s the case what can I do? I was thinking of suggesting therapy, but I also don’t want to make her feel like she’s got a ‘problem’ to ‘solve’.
Anyone can argue for the opposite of the first lines you wrote, quite pathetic and one sided for you to think like that. Anyway, I’m not surprised you’re going into victim mode with the wife since you’re a woman as well. No one gets married to be in a sexless marriage I hope, not getting head at all isn’t something to shrug off like nothing. You decided to basically to not read the post from OP’s pov rather you assumed the wife’s pov instead. You’re invalidating his needs that he expressed to his wife making it seem like he’s wrong for communicating about getting head. You’re totally not acknowledging that his wife DECEIVED him w head in the beginning and he quoted HER OWN WORDS that she only did it in the beginning to impress him. You went off talking about maybe she doesn’t like the taste or smell??? You’re just as much of a horrible person for framing it negatively saying is he choosing bj’s over his marriage. He never wanted that to be the case! The man has sexual needs! Basically your sentiment is who cares about his needs, he should be fine with the fact that she deceived him and he should be happy in a bj-less marriage forever? The lowkey shaming and gaslighting in your comment says it all.
Tbf your sister had three kids from using the 'fail to pull out' method.
There are sensible men and stupid men out there, yours seem to be the latter. Don't waste more time with him, you'll do a favor to the both of you as he will learn that disrespecting a woman has consequences and you will be free to find a kind and mature partner.
Try cutting out the drinking and vaping.
You just need your test and free test levels checking.
Before/after childbirth makes a big tight/not tight difference. Both are fun!
Yep, he probably is just very nervous. I guess he likes you a lot and has performance issues because of that. Just take it slow.
I know my gf loves for me to wake her up that way. She also loves the thought of being raped that way.
You're worried about how much a cut will hurt. And it WILL hurt
Show him your feet and heels.
That's awesome, have fun with it!
It is not good, keep these info for you and your partner. Coworker is trying to get you.
Sounds like you have just have different needs and different sex drives. You can like someone and have incompatible sex needs. If it’s affecting you so much, you can talk to her about it and explain to her all the things you told us here and you guys can come to a middle ground. But if she’s not willing to and you feel like you need more, I think it’s time you guys figure out whether this will eventually lead to resentment and other things that’ll break your relationship up. Just because this is something you’re used to doesn’t mean that she’s supposed to act like every other girl you’ve been with also. Edit
I have tried but I don’t know what to do. She even jokes that she thinks she has sex trauma because of her parents controlling behaviours. I make her feel attractive, constantly reassure her about her body, have spent considerable time doing things like massaging her before sex, but the issue is that she’s never orgasmed even from masturbation. When that’s the case what can I do? I was thinking of suggesting therapy, but I also don’t want to make her feel like she’s got a ‘problem’ to ‘solve’.
Anyone can argue for the opposite of the first lines you wrote, quite pathetic and one sided for you to think like that. Anyway, I’m not surprised you’re going into victim mode with the wife since you’re a woman as well. No one gets married to be in a sexless marriage I hope, not getting head at all isn’t something to shrug off like nothing. You decided to basically to not read the post from OP’s pov rather you assumed the wife’s pov instead. You’re invalidating his needs that he expressed to his wife making it seem like he’s wrong for communicating about getting head. You’re totally not acknowledging that his wife DECEIVED him w head in the beginning and he quoted HER OWN WORDS that she only did it in the beginning to impress him. You went off talking about maybe she doesn’t like the taste or smell??? You’re just as much of a horrible person for framing it negatively saying is he choosing bj’s over his marriage. He never wanted that to be the case! The man has sexual needs! Basically your sentiment is who cares about his needs, he should be fine with the fact that she deceived him and he should be happy in a bj-less marriage forever? The lowkey shaming and gaslighting in your comment says it all.
Should just ignore that person and let them go on living their miserable, vanilla, boring sex lives.
Hard pass.