Op, it’s performance anxiety since you are both each others first. I would try some lube on her vaginal opening while also asking her pressure wise, on her clit, as you rub to really warm her up. I’m telling you lube will help her a lot more and also relaxing her as well by rubbing her clit. But decided ask her if the touching and pressure feel good. Let her be vocal. Trust me. At her age she’s nervous to say what feels good and should could be nervous, but you two will have amazing sex overtime once she learns to get comfy at addressing her touch and pressure points down there. Also if you’re not fully sure, look up the female anatomy where the clit is as it’s vital.
Go join him in the shower.
So this is why that comment kind of leaves me in limbo and is off putting
Op, it’s performance anxiety since you are both each others first. I would try some lube on her vaginal opening while also asking her pressure wise, on her clit, as you rub to really warm her up. I’m telling you lube will help her a lot more and also relaxing her as well by rubbing her clit. But decided ask her if the touching and pressure feel good. Let her be vocal. Trust me. At her age she’s nervous to say what feels good and should could be nervous, but you two will have amazing sex overtime once she learns to get comfy at addressing her touch and pressure points down there. Also if you’re not fully sure, look up the female anatomy where the clit is as it’s vital.
You will need to experiment. Try positions that focus on front wall of thr vagina. Like hips up on pillow.
Don't be subtle; guys are idiots Source: am guy… am idiot.