If OP is a virgin she may not know that foreplay is essential to making sure that sex isn't painful. OP, women need foreplay so that they are aroused, not only for their enjoyment but for lubrication which keeps sex from being uncomfortable. A skilled lover wants their partner comfortable, not just jump right in without any preamble.
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IUDs are more effective than tubal ligation at pregnancy prevention. Personally, I have let my partner finish in my hundreds of times over the last 7 years I’ve had one and not a single scare. THAT SAID it all comes down to what you are comfortable with. There is nothing wrong with saying no if you are too anxious about the possibility of pregnancy!
When you say inside the vagina, do you mean around the vulva as well, like on the clit, or just inside?
If OP is a virgin she may not know that foreplay is essential to making sure that sex isn't painful. OP, women need foreplay so that they are aroused, not only for their enjoyment but for lubrication which keeps sex from being uncomfortable. A skilled lover wants their partner comfortable, not just jump right in without any preamble.
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IUDs are more effective than tubal ligation at pregnancy prevention. Personally, I have let my partner finish in my hundreds of times over the last 7 years I’ve had one and not a single scare. THAT SAID it all comes down to what you are comfortable with. There is nothing wrong with saying no if you are too anxious about the possibility of pregnancy!