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Agreed! It is so sexy. I’m definitely a more take charge personal in my work life, so I love being submissive in bed. More partnership in the relationship.
Thank you for the good idea, I will have to think though how I can make it seem that I didn't just trick her into an embarrassing situation
The hydraulics work better in younger guys. The interest level remains the same.
It's decent advice for first timers worried about it. It's also reflective of a lot of people's ever present concern with anal.
There are things that are discussed as a couple, and if what you talked about has no solution, you don't have to move on, you will always feel frustrated or angry and that will not do you any good in the future, neither you nor to your partner.
Are the kids little?
This whole situation is bad. Get out.
Sorry guy, she’s not into creeps.
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Flipping the bean – which is also the name of a mobile food vendor in Launceston, Tasmania. It's deliberately cheeky.
Lips or hamburger buns it's all the same to me. Thanks for making another woman self conscious
Theres a lot of bacteria there and you can get sick of its not washed well, unclean
He sounds rather rude and inconsiderate. For someone who has supposedly been with so many women, he should know better than to make comments like that. You deserve better and you're not overreacting. Honestly, I wouldn't waste your time with them.
Body shaming doesn’t become ok when it’s revenge See also: slurs, misgendering, etc.
I just got married three years ago for second time and she doesn’t give head she has twice for like thirty seconds says it’s not her thing she doesn’t like giving oral I could care less I used to not like blow job’s didn’t do a thing for me and my first wife only gave head about once a year when I got her drunk on Tequila but now that I’m older I like getting head now really enjoy a good one but it’s not gonna come from my wife no big deal life goes on buy a stroker sucking machine lol yeah they make them
You don’t want it for her you want it for you.
Welcome to adult life darling! It will onpy get more wierd.
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LoL me too. I think I'll sin right now.
Have you seen a ball sack? Whenever I feel bad about my fairy I just think of ball sacks and think I’m thankful I don’t have that between my legs
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Okay, time out. I'm tired of people saying this in this sub. Once men and women have achieved total social parity, then we can talk about “what if the genders were reversed hmmmmm???” But for now, there are inherent power dynamics linked to gender, and pulling out that question is, nine times out of ten, just a gotcha. If the genders were reversed, we would be recommending something slightly different, most likely. Not because men can't be abused, or because women can't be rapists, but because men and women experience sex and sexual situations differently.
Don't give him head, but masturbate in front of him instead
I’d hear myself too much to focus on the sensation to be loud. With penetration there is normally other sound that cover my sound (at least in my head)!
Is there any risk of me passing on to someone else without me ever getting a breakout? Hypothetically could I get it without even knowing (no symptoms)?
The pill is not 99% effectieve though, not even when taken perfectly. All actual methods of birth control (not like the pulling out stuff) are somewhere between 90 and 98% effective I think. Even getting tubes tied isn't a 100% guarantee.
No. Although people that workout have a higher libido, but not extraversion
Try r/nonmonogamy
Hope you’re ready to be a daddy!
Nice, how would we go about this? Would we get an L shaped ruler with sliders on it and multiply both measureslments?
glad i’m gay
There's a thing called Kinsey scale. 0 is fully straight and 6 is fully gay. You're obviously not at 0. It's ok that you're into girls the vast majority of time and into only a few select guys. Maybe you're demisexual when it comes to guys ( need to bond with them before experiencing sexual attraction). I think what's important is to find what you want exactly. You want to actually date him or just friends with benefit? If you date him, you want to be monogamous or open relationship? If he only wants monogamous relationship, will you regret never having kissed or slept with a girl? If you do date him then cheat on him with a girl or end up dating him while it's convenient then break up when a girl shows interest, you'd be an asshole. But if you're honest from the start about what you want, then it's good.
Honest question, why is it my responsibility for someone else’s decisions?
Make sure to also remind him to clean his ass well, my first time eating a man ass made me feel like a toilet!
I think “what does pleasurable sex look like to you” is an underrated question and can provide insight into which acts they’re interested in but also the emotional side of sex and how connection and intimacy contributes to their pleasure. People can be wildly different in the reasons they enjoy and value sex
You make a very good point here
Tell her exactly what you are thinking. Personally, I give oral sex before ejaculating inside. I would not eat my own cum, ever. If I ever dated someone who was really into that she would definitely need to douche and bathe before getting oral from me. If she gets offended then she isn't the one for you. Best of luck.
This was a year ago
I don't see any hope for this marriage. Get yourself a good divorce lawyer.
I'm pretty sure she lied to me cause she didn't want me to think she was a whore. Which is shitty to say. She was 20 when we met. Says she dealt with trauma that way but won't really say what the trauma is.?
There are definitely women out there into this, you just gotta find them!
4 hrs? Troll
I truely don't understand these women , all you were doing was communicating what you desired , that's not bugging her. Women are always crapping on about how their man won't communicate, and then when you do … They try to make you out to be some sex pest. Damn , I'm the one asking if I can get his cock in my mouth in this house. Sometimes he's tired or has too much going on in his head and that's just life . But if you can't check in with your partner without being shamed for it , then there's issues that need to be addressed, not ignored.
Desire is normal and almost everyone has it. Action on the other hand is what breaks people's trust. Same thing, some fantasies are just that, fantasies and not things people really want to experience in their lives. In this case, I'd ask you if you can get the spice you are looking for from some other means with your partner (kinks, fetishes, roleplay, etc…) seems like you might want something more than what you are doing in bed and that's totally normal. Same deal, have you asked him if feels like he has missed out or is this just an assumption? If an assumption, and on your part because of your fantasies have you thought about what going on a break would mean. Most likely you will never come off of it, will break up, and your relationship will end. You might fuck some random guys, hopefully most of them are good, is it worth trading your relationship for a hopefully? Because honestly, most people are pretty mediocre at sex. How long does it take for a new partner to figure out what you enjoy? Fantasy hook-ups are never as good in real life. Beyond that, opening a relationship comes from a place of a ROCK solid relationship, not from trying to patch up a whole. Open relationships will rip open any weaknessess in your relationship and lay them bare. What if he starts fucking someone else and loves it A LOT more than he ever did fucking you? What if he wants to keep doing it forever and never closing the relationship again? How will you feel? How will he feel knowing your having sex with other people? Jealous? How will he react if he knew you were fucking someone better than him? Those are all things you need to soul search before opening a relationship to know if its going to work. No one wants to have sex with someone else, only to make their current partner irrevocably jealous.
Yeah, it’s something done a lot in porn movies. Tell him to quit it. You don’t like it and it’s spoiling sex for you.
It's actually quote common and I think your worries are your hang ups tbh. I am a bi guy that has enjoyed a lot of MFM with the Mrs over the years, she finds it quite a turn on in much the same way that guys find 2 women hot.
In most cases i prefer the average. Big dicks are more as a trophy to look at. If he is to long you only work on his tip, if he is to thick your jaw get tired super quickly
He might want you to initiate but doesn’t feel he’s in a safe space to mention it.
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There are lots of women who don't necessarily enjoy penetrative sex. You're honestly an ideal for a lot of women. Just look up vaginismus.
Why is that a red flag? If the women consent to it then who cares
He might just not want kids… With her.
Sounds like “Stag & Vixen”. Like cuckold but without the humiliation and the partner gets gratification from watching their other half getting sexual gratification from other people.
You have defined your boundary, and communicated that to the whole world here in Reddit. Excellent first step, we compliment you. Now you need to communicate this with him, and expect him to respect it. If he doesn't respect it, you have a choice to make.
Try to do some role play or dirty talk
You are not entitled to peoples past. People can let you in, if they trust you.
The fact that he is calling you names means you have made right decision of no second date.
Abusive partner. Get out of this asap
Wow, the audacity. I’m sorry about your pain, but what kind of pain and complications do you think your wife had to go through (and likely will be dealing with for the rest of her life) after 4 pregnancies and child birth? You are a grown man and you agreed to the procedure. Saying that you have “finally forgiven your wife” is so fucking disrespectful. Instead of trying to blame your wife, why don’t you grow up and accept the consequences of your own choices. It’s not her fault.
Long term
Loving how everyone sees you were pressured into doing something, suffered, and then it's OK because XYZ. Oh and some good republican “whataboutism”. I'm sorry your SO dismissed your feelings and I understand why you'd resent her after being pressured into something you're not comfortable with. Other people's pain does not diminish yours. We all get to suffer and feel.
Ooo let’s all downvote rather than have an actual discussions. I don’t know nor care what downvote even means 😂🤦♂️
She probably doesn’t wanna mix it up. At work she likely plays a character, and she obviously will have to pay attention to other guys. You being there could make that awkward for her. You can support from afar there is no need for you to visit unless she wants you to.
That’s a good idea. When we were looking at toys, he indicated which size was good for him
The guy is big too. 😉
“Just do a surgery” is the most insane fucking thing I've ever heard. Take 5 seconds to think about what you're saying.
Well is she really has an addiction, I doubt it sounds more likely that she really loves to fuck and for a comment that op says that she went to therapy and she hated it and that's why she dropped it. The op husband is not a rehabilitation center and he can't help her is she doesn't do anything to help herself and for what op tells she is only getting fucked. Maybe the best case is for them to divorce then for op to have treatment and see what the future holds, op is young and I assume the husband is near her age too so if this relationship fails they have time.
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Underrated comment :joy:
I was thinking the same thing. He’s very defensive in most of the comments on this thread.
You have to read the fine print on what's is allowed for the refund. As that varies from store to store.
I (21f) have grown up in a christian household since i was a kid and they teach you sex is wrong. For a long time i believed it until i got with my now bf and we eventually had sex, my parents found out and were very mad. I was 18 at the time and they made me swear i wouldn’t have sex anymore so i thought i cant be honest with them and thats their fault bc they arent open about sex so just keep it to yourself, dont feel guilty about having sex with someone you care about and want to have sex with and enjoy it
First, I'm sorry you are having this issue. I highly recommend getting into counseling that will help get off the meds. My ex had similar issues, took similar meds, moved to Wellbutrin which was slightly better but still had issues. Things never went back to normal until she delt with the deeper issues that caused the depression and stopped the medication. To be clear: Do NOT stop your medication without speaking to your doctor. Counseling does help but you have to be willing to invest and open up in difficult areas. I hope you feel better but you should feel proud of your courage to start the discussion as you are doing here. Best of luck.
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I also when awake like to take a shower with my gf, then make sure she is very satisfied 😁😁, morning sex is one of the best things I find, it's great for stimulation gets the blood flowing and on a natural high for the day, always look forward when I get home, that's when the fun really starts
I don't judge you or her. I hope the two of you are happier than you've ever been with anyone else and stay that way forever. It just wasn't for me regardless of how much fun it was in the moment.
LOTS of foreplay. try asking her what she may like neck kissing, maybe fingering her. communicate with her
I mean yes? Some people are just naturals. If you can read your partners micro reactions, body language, and you listen well overall (outside of the bedroom, as well as in it), then yeah, pretty much.
Thank you for explaining what you meant. I can’t imagine how that got down voted lol.
There is obviously a deeper issue,maybe you feel sex is how you feel excepted,there are deeper issues here.
Defently talk to him,if your needs arent being met and its important to you,you will never be happy and it will be just time wasted
Chop my weenis
Well understandable if he doesn’t want a vasectomy, but it’s so easy to where condoms so it’s really on him
Take some responsibility for yourself. You made a choice. The relationship didn't work out. People are allowed to change their mind. You did not get “taken advantage of.” Stop posing as a victim when there are real victims out there.
I would normally do this, but I'd like to incorporate the fun throughout the day simply because we don't get to interrupt daily life with sex while the kids are all around us. I'd like to try and get a bit of the freedom we used to have to fuck each other whenever we felt like it, even if we were busy with something else. But it indeed might prove impractical to do this, so we'll keep this in the back of our minds and adjust our expectations if we need to.
Is it normal? Well I mean, sheesh sister, he made you cum 2 times with foreplay beforehand. If he isn’t hurting you let the guy cum too.
Your wife could do the finances while wearing lingerie. You could let her pick out something sexy to wear while you do dusting and whatnot. Like maybe jeans and no shirt. Easily added sexual tension gg
My wife usually goes for the bigger ones.
The problem is people marry people they are not actually compatible with. And people change once they get married because now they have their partner trapped. So they stop putting in effort. I stayed in a dead bedroom over 20 years. Staying didn’t do me ANY favors. It wrecked my self esteem and I did very unhealthy things to numb myself and cope with having a bad partner.
Did you read the story? It's a boundary that she has stated repeatedly to him. Clearly he does not respect it. My husband has told me about things he doesn't like and I just don't do them anymore. It's not hard to remember and it really is that simple.
Don't worry, you'll get it when you grow up
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Try a different “quiz” or checklist. Any suggestions?
Suppose that’s the obvious answer. Maybe I’m overthinking it, hard to say. ‘Preciate the input
Go to couples counseling. There are online services. Reddit will not be able to assist you with this.
If he doesn't want to wear a male condom, would he be open to using the FC2 female condom? I liked using them a lot more than male condoms because the material allows heat passage and thus you can still feel the full warmth when inside.
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Have him but a copy of she comes first. Basically teach him how to get you to orgasm (oral sex) before PIV so his lasting no time is less of a concern.
We all have fetishes. There's nothing wrong with it. Yours is fairly tame compared to others out there. Look online, there are plenty of dating sites dedicated to this type of thing and you'll find a supportive community in many places as well. I was into that as well. My ex and I even had a maids outfit for me. It was fun while we tried it together, but it didn't last. I have no regrets in trying it. Just be true to yourself, and go have safe fun.
Yeah I feel like I'm leaving out some key detail that is obvious to me. Maybe. But I really appreciate the people who say it's a terrible idea. It might actually be a terrible idea!
I can't relate but I can offer support. First, that stinks. Sorry you're going through this. Sex should be enjoyable the entire time which includes the after glow. It sounds like something medical is going on and highly recommend seeing a doctor immediately. Seeing a counselor is also not a bad idea. There could also be something emotional going on and if not, no harm done. Best of luck.
Maybe she wants to be more naughty, but feels guilty about it. She could be slowly testing the waters and your/her reaction.
Practice safe sex. OP I would suggest don't have sex at your home again in order to prevent your bro from noticing.
Fuck purity culture. Good luck on your journey to freedom and individual sovereignty.
Okay a lot of people here don’t seem to understand Christian guilt surrounding sex. Women can be so sexually repressed and the judgment that families can have towards sexually active individuals is out right awful. I’d try therapy and actively communicate with him how you are ready but struggling with things not involving him personally. Sex isn’t everything, but it’s a big thing. Its meant to feel really good and make you both happy! It won’t feel like this forever but sorting it out while you’re in a healthy, consensual relationship is a plus
Go get checked again and start using condoms
I mean obviously what you are doing now is not working. Just be upfront and honest. Atleast if you show that you are disabled, then the girls who are interested know you are disabled and wanna get to know you despite being a quad instead of basically lying to girls that you ablebodied.
Not even casual sex now. There’s a girl I really like and we are still in early stages and I am afraid of having a conversation with her
Douse with methylate spirits!! It will sting a bit but should clear up any sti, if you still get irritations repeat several times
lmao okay so u wanna hoe around, but is afraid that your gf would find other (and better) partner, so you wanna have a way to be able to fuck around while making sure she won't get w anyone better and prioritize them over you? Y'all better break up, this sounds like a recipe for STD for me. Just break up for christ's sake
Thank you kind internet stranger. Really helpful for you to share some of your reflections.
There is sperm in precum, you can't always rely on your cycle and you deffo can't rely on the man. Go and get on some bc, or use condoms, or stop having sex. Or get ready to be a mummy
Exactly how I felt during this cycle. Thought it was because I'm barely getting used to my 30's
A lesson of life: you never can get the perfect package. That's life.
Some people don’t know about this!
Did you read the whole post? It sounds like he is hurting her during sex and does not seem to be thinking about what she finds enjoyable
I’m a doctor and it doesn’t work like that where I work at, I guess it depends on where OP lives.
Thank you for your kind words. I’m at peace with my past, but it’s just so bewildering to me. I’m 25 now, and I could never imagine dating someone younger than 23 or 24. Any younger than that, and you really start to see the difference in life experience and worldliness. Predators will be predators though, I guess.
girl this is NOT what i needed to hear LMFAOOO
So should I feel okay? I think we both felt really insecure because we never saw it coming… i think just the mood was like that and we jumped into it. 😭 I guess I need to communicate it before we have next sex, won’t we?
Wtf are you on 😂 I’m a woman. Idk why you’re acting like I said vaginas suck, I’m saying this dude’s masturbation habits suck because he’s gripping his dick so hard that he needs that tight grip/aggressive movement to be able to finish, he cant just cum from normal sex alone. It’s literally a problem in my opinion if a man is gripping so tight that he loses normal sensitivity. You don’t have good reading comprehension if you think it saying she is the problem lol
I 30F still have a real hard time with orgasm I dont like masturbating either I like sex* though and thats enough If she doesnt mind not orgasming stop pressure her to Might be also that she wants to cum but she feels pressure to cum which makes it much harder to cum *sex here = foreplay cant penetration because issues
i get the same feeling but it’s literally just overstimulation like ur used to cumming w a pillow so that’s rlly little stim but using fingers tends to be rougher w the friction from the texture of the fingers. i honestly haven’t found a way around this yet but honestly don’t stress abt it cus most ppl can’t cum during sex. work towards him giving u an orgasm first before he does it during sex
Just out of curiosity, how big are you?
Don’t worry too much and trim it if it’s an issue for next time.
You can even get him to use a little bit of tattoo numbing cream just on his penis head (then cover with condom until numb) 15min before sex (only need a tiny bit,like a quater of your little pinky nail) then make sure he wipes it off before sex because u don't want to become numb either. He will last so much longer and he will pump you harder because he's trying to cum…good luck!
Play in places where the liquid would be appreciated such as the outside, the water, the beach, the desert, not everything has to be done in the bed.
First of all, well done for recognising that the roadblock to this in in your mind and for recognising the root of the roadblock. If you'll forgive me the exploration, but aside from your issues worrying he'll think negatively of you, might there also be something in the way you describe him as a “sweetheart”? There is a phenomenon that is usually written about for the male mind, but there have been plenty of examples of women who have this thought process too – where they cannot see “nice”, or “gentle” people in any way that is dominant, erotic or sexy. Might you have him so far pegged as a sweetheart in your mind, that you just can't see him in a way that can act out what you have been talking about? Theory and practise are two different things, after all – but forgive me if that is reaching too far. To overcome this is simple in theory, but it requires commitment – you need to actively tell yourself that your husband is NOT your ex who thought negatively about your kinks. Just reverse the genders and imagine how you'd feel if he worried you'd be just like an ex of his who, for example, was a real gold-digger. His fears would be understandable, but I'm sure that, if you had never given him any indication that you were like that, that it would hurt a bit to be blamed for something someone ELSE had done. Try to keep that in your mind – yes PAST partner(s) have reacted badly to your kink level but, based on your erotic conversations and texts, you have NO indication that he will react this way so…take baby steps. Next time you are in bed together, throw in ONE thing you'd like to try, even if it's just asking him to call you a sexy name or something, or throw in a spank or two. Open your mind up slowly to the realisation that he is on the same page as you with this and then be sure to engage in aftercare once things are done to re-enforce that it hasn't changed his opinions of you.
Dude get her a satisfyer and use it while you finger her etc. She's gonna cum really fast promise, bonus points If you play with her nipples as well
✨ Call Miss Cleo 🔮
I finish quick when I know their enjoying it. I’ll cum at the same time as them most the time but only if it’s obvious they’re cumming. Once I was with a girl who was silent and showed no emotion when orgasming but the eyes rolled back and she got tight as hell (so I know she did cum) but because there was no build up for me it didn’t get me there. Took me forever with her
No they don't, stop projecting.
Just dont pressure him and give him time. Its not that easy to control your penis and lust. Let him stop when it becomes too intense, maybe let hin pull put and oral or finger you. He has to be very comfortable and in control. If that doesnt help at all there are numbning cremes, sprays and condoms. Try them. Sex it not all about Penetration and you shouldnt expect from him to able to make you come just by PIV. If you need more foreplay, ask him to do it. Maybe even let him make you cum before he even enters. And then just let him rest inside you, let him ger comfortable, piv can be very arousing and the penis gets desensitized the longer hes exposed to it. To give him time to adjust to the feeling
Who opened up the marriage
Be a man and just grope and suck it while massaging her clit. If she says don't, you say”you don't have a say in it”, grab by her hair. Tie her hands and go down on her. Be a man. Don't be a lousy guy without testosterone. Go do exercise, maybe she'll love it after she finds you more attractive. Get fit bsdk
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I think it’s mild too but I don’t think he’s ever heard of it before which might be off putting or make me look weird
The problem is I’m quite overweight. I lost 6 stone 2 years ago but put it all back on again. Not to make excuses but my genetics seem to be complete garbage. I don’t even eat that much and I’m still really overweight. I can’t be bothered to lose weight again because I literally had to starve myself. The only thing I’m focusing on is buying new clothes and eating less so I naturally lose weight without noticing. I dress well and my haircuts are nice.
She hasn't moved on. If you don't want to be here rebound, move on
I put weight on her hip that's about it. Not my upper body. Only enough to feel connected
Ha ha. A Christian counselor out of work. Yes, of course, that's what it is. The other more plausible answers previously stated just don't work. I use another method, when seeing hoofprints in the sand I think of horses before unicorns.
— Be sure to agree on what birth control you will use. — Be sure to have some lubrication available. Water based. — Do lots of foreplay to get yourself, especially your vagina, excited and ready. Pussy licking is always a good way to do this. — Ask him to go slow during the initial penetration, once it's complete and there's not to much pain he can increase the tempo.
Can't imagine any guy not wanting to make his girl come. I could imagine being young and not really knowing my way around, but if there's a will there should be a way, with some communication
That sucks and yeha people do have it worse. I’m one of the people who has been raped by their SO and it is extremely traumatic. If you love someone you don’t do something they have said no to and you sure as shit don’t hold them down. If you have to restrain someone to do something you shouldn’t do it. That is considered rape. By your logic- rape is only rape if 3-4 men rape a minor girl. Okay then so your cousin being raped by one man isn’t rape. But it is, right? Because the fact that other people have been in a worse rape situation doesnt negate the fact that your cousin also was? You are extremely fucked up in the head and you would think given you’ve lost someone to it you would be a lot more sympathetic. SA by a partner has the same mental effect on the person and it has unique challenges bc your trust is being violated and you have to keep seeing them. I really feel sorry for your partner. America isn’t the only one who considers it rape and 95% of people can see that it is rape. So it’s very obvious you’re the one in the wrong.
My SO does not lay his entire weight on me. Generally, he will put my legs up over his arms so my pelvis is slightly elevated and then with his arms propped and my legs bent over them, he’ll slide in.
Yeah i think theres kind of strict rules in my country about how to run such places so it should be alright. I'll consider it. The thought atleast gets me on
My doctor said they are using hormones as well so not an option according to him.
I have friends with herpes, all for dropping the stigma! just,, I have been decieved and possibly had my health put at risk :/
My wife recently asked for this and who am I not to reward a good girl?
Lol, what? No but I like more orgasms and welcome them. If one of us is not in the mood for sex we don't have sex, but it doesn't have to do with masturbation.
In my opinion he was testing the waters to see if you enjoyed ass play or not,honestly theres not a man out there that dosent think ass play is the biggest turn on being that its gotta the whole forbidden hole rumor for years.im also 38 and it was defently not a acciedent
I have been injured twice during sexual activity. Never got angry just lost any sexual drive. He is absolutely overreacting. Obviously the bleeding can be very stressful but to treat you like that is terrible. The only think i don't understand is why you refused to apologise again?
Fiber supplements help a lot!
Thank you again for the reassurance! Have a wonderful day!
Go to a pride rally with a “Free Hugs” T-Shirt! and sign! I bet you'd get a lot 🙂
A standard condom can fit around someone's head (not the penis one). If you can fit it in, he's not too big for a condom. Very common excuse though. This is a little disingenuous. The ring of the condom is designed to fit snug around your girth, so if you're girthy, some condoms will literally feel like they're cutting off the circulation to your dick. Call it a humble brag or whatever, but this is the problem that I had with random condoms you get out of a bowl or from the store, they would peel off or be super uncomfortable. I then bought Skyn standard size and they too were super uncomfortable, so I bought Skyn large and I've been using those for years now because they fit perfectly. Feels like you're speaking from personal experience, but different sized condoms aren't made JUST so guys can feel better about themselves.
They all taste different. If its freshly washed (like right out of the shower) then it just tastes like skin. If not then it'll be a tad musky with a bit of an acidic taste but nothing bad
You mean a criminal who's no longer in your life took pics and vids without asking?
Guy sounds like a POS. Run!
I can only masturbate by rubbing myself against something, like a pillow. Is anyone else like this or has been through this? Yeah, I used to use a pillow and squeeze it between my legs. Eventually I wanted to be able to orgasm during sex so I decided to wean off my old method. I added a bullet vibe to my pillow routine between my vulva and the pillow. Once I could orgasm with the pillow + vibe together, I flipped onto my back and started experimenting with opening my legs a tiny bit. Eventually I would orgasm with the vibe and my legs more open, no pillow. Then I could orgasm from oral sex.
r/dirtyr4r
Neither necessary nor important, but I like to tell her about it from time to time. Or that I'm thinking hard about her while she's away.
Hi Make 18. You no get sexdate. Sexdate only get you.
This is all about communication. My wife of 17 yrs HATES cum anywhere on her (breasts; bottom; face etc). The best thing I can think of is pick an “area” that she may allow (my thought is if you do doggie; and cum on her bottom). Start slow is the key. Tell her how much you would be turned on by it. This may work :shrug: or may not.. Really depends. Good luck!
Leave him , he doesn’t want a threesome for any reason that is healthy , he just wants to fuck another woman in front of you and it all be ok becuase it’s his ‘dreams’ . If he is talking about leaving you if you don’t want a threesome , it means he doesn’t care about your or your feelings and finds a fantasy more important than your relationship. Leave this man child , don’t have a threesome you don’t want . You deserve so much better . I made the mistake of having a threesome I wasn’t 100% up for before , worst experience of my life , I felt rejected , used , and unworthy , all because my bf wanted to shove his cock in someone else’s hole . It’s not worth it .
Those aren't speed bumps either…
I'd interpret the smiling as you being happy to be doing what you're doing with me. Maybe they want to pornstar contorted look of agony+pleasure?
1000% this. Don't waste your time. If you ever do a threesome, make sure you want to do it. There is no benefit otherwise.
Better to use it and have it turn out to not have been needed than not use and wish you did.
I'm the opposite situation. My wife refuses to let me go down on her, but she gets wet just when I ask her for a blowjob. She absolutely loves sucking my cock and swallowing. But she's an outright NO on me giving her oral. But as others had mentioned: We did communicate about WHY she doesn't want me to give it to her, so at least I do know the Why. Reasoning is legit, and double-legit also because she said “No”. Married almost 20 years and haven't eaten her out Once. But we have an awesome life together **and awesome Sex Life!
Tell him it’s your dream to be in a monogamous relationship, then dump that man child.
I was excited initially too. I hate that I relate to this. Spontaneous sex doesn’t occur on things you own that aren’t protected nor does it happen on places you don’t own and might be held liable for. It’s not horrible to go to the bedroom where the mattress cover is, just know you’re going to storms a lot of time there.
Okay. Keep fighting the tide. Good luck.
Why are you giving random prostitutes at a parlor your phone number
My wife and I had started discussing our new years resolution a few weeks and one of our resolution was to spice things up in our bedroom. We've been married for close to 19 years so this respark is needed and long overdue. I had a few ideas to share with her but she floored me when she went first and suggested a scenario that was CNC. It was fairly extreme and we'd have to be extremely careful with her fantasy. Safewords and lots of trust would be needed. It's something we're still working out and though I've agreed to it ummmm I'm the one who's very hesitant about spicing things up. Can't lie
“Odds are good, but the good are odd” now that’s a good quote
Oh that is intense lol
Um, if there is even a tiny question in your mind that maybe the sheets need to be washed….. They need to be washed. Wash them. Fuck I had a girlfriend once that washed them every day.
I've never been married and I'll be 50 in June I always wanted to get married and have kids and a family but Soo far it hasn't panned out for me yet
cant go wrong with prostate massagers also vibrators and vibrating cock rings
Again, ur regurgitating a script You know – especially if youre gen-z – you not doing those things isn’t really gonna make you stand out lmao ; many don’t either. I don’t know why u keep talking about bodycount and single-parenting as if it’s something the gods hand down to women as soon they turn 30?
So you wanna fuck young women on your dates but are worried that your dates may have fucked a bunch of other people. Very hypocritical. Here is a clue. Get a personality and try to friend someone, learn to be a friend. Have something to give instead of get laid. If you just wanna fuck…get a prostitute because with the shit I just read that’s about all your gonna get. Good the fuck luck.
I go all in. 100kg.
How do I check that, blood inspection or something else?
Or is just ignorant, there's a difference
Aside from this whole charade I really feel the need to put this into context. With absolutely no proof, or known previous suspicion, he jumped immediately to the assumption that you not only cheated, you kept some other dudes creampie in you for your boyfriend to then find. This goes past bad knowledge of women’s anatomy even though he’s also guaranteed too old for that. If I were in your position I would seriously reconsider my relationship with this person who obviously doesn’t trust you. He didn’t even wonder if something was wrong, like if you had a yeast infection or something.
That is an ironic statement coming from someone that is typing on a device that was made by someone making slave-level wages.
You're not wrong for wanting one. But I think it's going to cause issues for the relationship based on the descriptions of your BF. It adds on to you have some unique issues going on with not being able to use a vibe with PIV. Something you might want to check is I believe Liberator sells some sex pillows/furniture that have wand mounts. Overall, you may have some incompatibility issues that might not easily be resolved. And I don't think anyone is wrong for doing or not doing something. But you may be better off with a partner that's a real toy kink. Which I'll admit as a male with one, is kind of rare.
A lot of parents are abusive or religious or neglectful or absent. My parents didn’t teach me pretty much anything a parent is supposed to teach a kid. I’m 32 and I’m still coming across stuff that people will say “you didn’t know that?! People learn that in kindergarten?!”
Yes, she doesn't want to have sex with me, we haven't done it for a month now. That is what I would be more focused on figuring out. Has anything changed? Are either of you putting effort in? Helping each other out, going on a date with just you two? Dressing up a little? Making each other feel important? It is easy to get in a rut in a relationship, and it takes work to get out. Once you get the ball rolling, it can become more of a regular thing.
Very fair.
Sorry has to be an innie,smooth( so it doesn't ti kle my nose, and have a bo scent
What changed and why?
It should never stop. If it does there are issues be it physical, mental etc. Communication and sex are the 2 ingredients for “marriage glue” it's what keeps it all together.
Lack of sensation is a health issue – it's not anything you're doing wrong here.
this
All you need to do is Google about the prevalence of STDs in over 55/retirement communities to realize that the idea sex is for young people is just not true.
I’ll tell him to shower before we do it haha
Everyone’s funky sometimes 🤷♂️
Either say something or move on