Your main assumption about me misleading or faking is wrong, but nonetheless you're making some good points. It is true that I'm the one pointing fingers and blaming, because my expectations are not met, and I feel like they're the bare minimum already
Squirting is honestly highly overrated but I'm sure you will have an orgasm from sex one of these days you just have to find out what works for you. Experiment.
Ridiculous how much this woman has to justify not shaving/shaving technique and divert all the people who are going to give her unwanted advice about hair removal. Some women don’t want to shave their nether regions and that’s fine people!
It can be normal for vaginal penetration to feel like nothing but I don't think a dildo is a good test of that. There's a lot of variation in their quality, firmness, shape, etc, plus they're cold. They don't feel like the real thing at all.
Don’t suck it up. Your feelings are valid and you deserve to be happy. You are very right that you need to discover what you like and what you don’t. It’s left over patriarchy shit that makes you feel like you cannot leave. But you are young and realistically this relationship may not last the test of time, especially because you are young. If you and he are meant to be you will grow back together in time, but you have to do what’s best for you. You deserve to live your best life while you are young. The worst mistake is to think the first one you choose is the last. He isn’t and that’s ok.
That very much might be something to talk to your doctor about. You only get one set of fingers, and hypermobility (I think thats what that's called?) can bring problems.
I guess it depends. It's rare, but possible to still be satisfied and/or orgasm from “boring sex”. If neither of those things are happening then no sex is better.
Your main assumption about me misleading or faking is wrong, but nonetheless you're making some good points. It is true that I'm the one pointing fingers and blaming, because my expectations are not met, and I feel like they're the bare minimum already
Read through this: my size condoms
I do the same to my hookups. Makes it way more likely theyll be down anytime i hit them up
He wasn’t
Seeking opinions like this is prohibited under group rule 8. It is also not seeking advice on your personal sex life, which vilates rule #5.
Lmao. I like breast too. It was hard.
Squirting is honestly highly overrated but I'm sure you will have an orgasm from sex one of these days you just have to find out what works for you. Experiment.
Ridiculous how much this woman has to justify not shaving/shaving technique and divert all the people who are going to give her unwanted advice about hair removal. Some women don’t want to shave their nether regions and that’s fine people!
It can be normal for vaginal penetration to feel like nothing but I don't think a dildo is a good test of that. There's a lot of variation in their quality, firmness, shape, etc, plus they're cold. They don't feel like the real thing at all.
Don’t suck it up. Your feelings are valid and you deserve to be happy. You are very right that you need to discover what you like and what you don’t. It’s left over patriarchy shit that makes you feel like you cannot leave. But you are young and realistically this relationship may not last the test of time, especially because you are young. If you and he are meant to be you will grow back together in time, but you have to do what’s best for you. You deserve to live your best life while you are young. The worst mistake is to think the first one you choose is the last. He isn’t and that’s ok.
23:)
That very much might be something to talk to your doctor about. You only get one set of fingers, and hypermobility (I think thats what that's called?) can bring problems.
I guess it depends. It's rare, but possible to still be satisfied and/or orgasm from “boring sex”. If neither of those things are happening then no sex is better.
Why is it aggravating? Don’t make her feel bad that she can’t do it, it’ll just make it harder for her to relax and let go