Tell him he's so big he has stretched you out, and you've come to be so turned on by him that you are finally able to relax and lubricate to take all of him much easier.
So you expect him to tell you his thoughts and feelings but won't start with yours? Being treated nicely is one thing but being emotionally distant is a bad sign. Being sexually distant is another bad sign. Not a fan of long distance relationships either but you do you. The pullout method isn't 100% any time of the month, even on your period. His hesitation seems solely based on pregnancy risk but due to age it could be performance anxiety, erectile dysfunction, or something else you won't know until he tells you.
Oh, my mind went somewhere else I guess. My bad. No I am not lol.
There are pretty good explanations in the comments but yes it does happen to me as well lol.
Tell him he's so big he has stretched you out, and you've come to be so turned on by him that you are finally able to relax and lubricate to take all of him much easier.
That's one very ignorant paragraph there champ.
So you expect him to tell you his thoughts and feelings but won't start with yours? Being treated nicely is one thing but being emotionally distant is a bad sign. Being sexually distant is another bad sign. Not a fan of long distance relationships either but you do you. The pullout method isn't 100% any time of the month, even on your period. His hesitation seems solely based on pregnancy risk but due to age it could be performance anxiety, erectile dysfunction, or something else you won't know until he tells you.