It's common though. I did the same thing years ago. At worst she has an STD or could be pregnant. She did what she did and you weren't able to stop her. You can tell her that she put you in a difficult decision and express your disappointment and fears, but she's a big girl and I responsible for her own consequences.
As someone whose parents said exactly this from when the relationship was over a decade before they ended it- it was horrifying to be raised in such a loveless relationship. It shouldn't be the last avenue.
There’s a saying that goes something like “the best time to plant a tree was 10 years ago, the second best time is today” Dating isn’t easy but there’s lots of good advice to be found, you’ll be fine
Ask her to put her hair in a ponytail, hold her ponytail during. That’s my fav. And be sure to let her know when she’s doing something right. We can’t read mind and are looking to our man’s body language or verbal cues to know what we should keep doing, or if we need to change something up.
I think I have Nord for my phone and it seems to work okay…. not sure if the only options are paid, though, as I've subscribed for years and can't remember what's free anymore XD
I haven't slept with him yet. He showed me a picture. We shared nudes with each other. I've communicated with him a zillion times. In fact, he tried really hard to satisfy me in bed but he just couldn't. I have told him to lose weight so that we can do different positions and his stamina would increase but still he doesn't go to the gym as seriously as i want him to go. The main reason i got attracted to other guy is that he works out, and that is bloody hot to me. He has this really amazing pumped body which makes me go crazy. I've been unsatisfied with my present partner for 2 years because I belong to a certain religion and i can only marry in the same religion. My present boyfriend is of the same religion so that's why I'm sticking with him. It's tough to find a guy who is of the same religion. My current relationship is a very healthy relationship minus the sex part. But sex is important to me.
She’s not bad in bed: she’s rather not up to your expectations of what sex should be like. I think one important thing is that you make sure you are not shaming her in anyway for not doing something that you like. It would be like you calling someone bad at eating durian because they don’t like it. Rather, get to the root of the problem with her. Ask her what part of the things you suggested grossed her out. Start from the side of trying to find out reasons, rather than forcing things on her.
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Wow thanks for the info!
What a mix breed
It's common though. I did the same thing years ago. At worst she has an STD or could be pregnant. She did what she did and you weren't able to stop her. You can tell her that she put you in a difficult decision and express your disappointment and fears, but she's a big girl and I responsible for her own consequences.
As someone whose parents said exactly this from when the relationship was over a decade before they ended it- it was horrifying to be raised in such a loveless relationship. It shouldn't be the last avenue.
Just tell him what you want and keep frustration out of your tone.
No problem, I’m glad it was at least a little helpful! It sounds like you’re on the right track, hang in there 🙂
There’s a saying that goes something like “the best time to plant a tree was 10 years ago, the second best time is today” Dating isn’t easy but there’s lots of good advice to be found, you’ll be fine
Ask her to put her hair in a ponytail, hold her ponytail during. That’s my fav. And be sure to let her know when she’s doing something right. We can’t read mind and are looking to our man’s body language or verbal cues to know what we should keep doing, or if we need to change something up.
I think I have Nord for my phone and it seems to work okay…. not sure if the only options are paid, though, as I've subscribed for years and can't remember what's free anymore XD
idk kinda seems like her attitude is putting off anyone serious. “oh the guys on bumble look boring & aren’t attractive!”
Here in Spain you got to the university the year you turn 18
I haven't slept with him yet. He showed me a picture. We shared nudes with each other. I've communicated with him a zillion times. In fact, he tried really hard to satisfy me in bed but he just couldn't. I have told him to lose weight so that we can do different positions and his stamina would increase but still he doesn't go to the gym as seriously as i want him to go. The main reason i got attracted to other guy is that he works out, and that is bloody hot to me. He has this really amazing pumped body which makes me go crazy. I've been unsatisfied with my present partner for 2 years because I belong to a certain religion and i can only marry in the same religion. My present boyfriend is of the same religion so that's why I'm sticking with him. It's tough to find a guy who is of the same religion. My current relationship is a very healthy relationship minus the sex part. But sex is important to me.
Because blokes hate the nickname “2 stroke”.
She’s not bad in bed: she’s rather not up to your expectations of what sex should be like. I think one important thing is that you make sure you are not shaming her in anyway for not doing something that you like. It would be like you calling someone bad at eating durian because they don’t like it. Rather, get to the root of the problem with her. Ask her what part of the things you suggested grossed her out. Start from the side of trying to find out reasons, rather than forcing things on her.