He wasn't doing drugs or hooking up with multiple random people but getting retested is definitely something I plan to do! I live in a country where there is so much stigma attached to sex and getting tested for STIs before sex is practically unheard of. But will definitely get tested on both ends if i ever decided to engage in sexual relations with someome again. Thanks! This was helpful.
I used to be the exact same. I really had to focus on the current moment and trying not to stop people. I just tried going longer and longer without stopping someone and finally I broke the habit, and just thought about the current pleasure.
Why compare? It’s different. She’s a fantasy, like a good book/movie/game/comic. It’s important to have a good fantasy or imagination. That doesn’t mean he wants that from you.
He wasn't doing drugs or hooking up with multiple random people but getting retested is definitely something I plan to do! I live in a country where there is so much stigma attached to sex and getting tested for STIs before sex is practically unheard of. But will definitely get tested on both ends if i ever decided to engage in sexual relations with someome again. Thanks! This was helpful.
I used to be the exact same. I really had to focus on the current moment and trying not to stop people. I just tried going longer and longer without stopping someone and finally I broke the habit, and just thought about the current pleasure.
Why compare? It’s different. She’s a fantasy, like a good book/movie/game/comic. It’s important to have a good fantasy or imagination. That doesn’t mean he wants that from you.