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I certainly wouldn’t assume that he’s having sex with anyone else, but I can understand how, after this many years of using condoms, he might prefer sex without a barrier. Don’t get me wrong, it makes a lot of practical sense why folks in a long distance relationship would use condoms as the primary form of BC. Yet, outside of the utility of it as a barrier for both pregnancy and STD purposes, I’ve never met anybody who prefers the feel of condoms to being able to have sex without them. Bottomline, though, instead of becoming paranoid about this, have a conversation with him, and ask why this seemingly sudden change in desire. And meanwhile, hold your ground on insisting on using it if it’s the only form of BC you have. Maybe you two need to revisit the BC issue and find something else besides condoms.
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You most definitely have that GluckGluck5000 then. I have only had like one woman manage this (maybe 2-3) and I have had way too many partners.🤣
You don’t. You don’t have the sex.
I certainly wouldn’t assume that he’s having sex with anyone else, but I can understand how, after this many years of using condoms, he might prefer sex without a barrier. Don’t get me wrong, it makes a lot of practical sense why folks in a long distance relationship would use condoms as the primary form of BC. Yet, outside of the utility of it as a barrier for both pregnancy and STD purposes, I’ve never met anybody who prefers the feel of condoms to being able to have sex without them. Bottomline, though, instead of becoming paranoid about this, have a conversation with him, and ask why this seemingly sudden change in desire. And meanwhile, hold your ground on insisting on using it if it’s the only form of BC you have. Maybe you two need to revisit the BC issue and find something else besides condoms.