Honestly just be straight forward. “It’s really hard to make me come can we use a vibrator?” That’s what was said to me and I was like “yeah of course” We want to be able to make you feel good ourselves but want you to feel good first and foremost.
I do tell her what I want. It just doesn’t happen much. It seemed like she got offended when I mentioned we should have more foreplay instead of 5 minutes of kissing, me licking and sucking her nipples then her saying “come here” which is my cue to start fucking her.
If he's great at oral that covers a lot of ground. Though, maybe get on top of and grind on him where you control more and length is less relevant. In any position be mindful of your hip position to give the best angles. Overall sounds like he's self aware and puts in a great effort and you're enjoying yourself so just make it clear you're having a great time and keep good communications rolling.
Honestly just be straight forward. “It’s really hard to make me come can we use a vibrator?” That’s what was said to me and I was like “yeah of course” We want to be able to make you feel good ourselves but want you to feel good first and foremost.
Everyone masturbates so no judgement whatsoever. I'd just think it was funny that it was visible
I do tell her what I want. It just doesn’t happen much. It seemed like she got offended when I mentioned we should have more foreplay instead of 5 minutes of kissing, me licking and sucking her nipples then her saying “come here” which is my cue to start fucking her.
If he's great at oral that covers a lot of ground. Though, maybe get on top of and grind on him where you control more and length is less relevant. In any position be mindful of your hip position to give the best angles. Overall sounds like he's self aware and puts in a great effort and you're enjoying yourself so just make it clear you're having a great time and keep good communications rolling.