Thank you for the explanation. The context it's very silly, it's just to know what should I brag about it to a guy who jokingly brags about his big d Lol
Also don’t forget that hardly anybody your age actually vocalises their desires and there’s probably a lot of people who think that you are gorgeous or sexy but too are shy to say anything
Talking it out seems level headed and mature and caring. Turning up your nose and telling someone their reaction is less valid than yours, and not willing to talk it out for either person in this situation where both people seemed uncomfortable for a valid reason solves no problems is selfish lacking in empathy and contributes to a less positive outcome for the couple.
I mean it depends, I’d want to have a partner with a similar amount sexual experience/past partners as me. We discover new things together that weren’t explored or weren’t explored enough in previous relationship. I know this was the case in previous relationships I’ve had, we’ve had the same body count +-2. I’m not saying that you can’t find that in relationships with people with super high body counts, but I really like that bond of discovery. Like to me, PiV is a great experience, but each time afterwards it isn’t as special to me as the first time. I don’t know, maybe it’s just how I’m wired, or it’s my lizard brain. Then again, my first sexual experience wasn’t dogshit, which probably greatly contributed to my perspective.
This isn’t the comment who has a long term relationship. I’m on 17 years and honestly your feelings fluctuate. Anyone who says otherwise is lying. That said, if you wake up saying “this is terrible” than it needs to change if possible. But sometimes that is also just life too. No relationship is all honeymoon and no struggle.
I’d let it go man. You’re hung up on a guy that hasn’t reached out in months? Who never saw you as more than a fuck buddy anyway? This is what you signed up for. There are so many people who share your kinks. You’ll find good sex again. Let this guy who repeatedly ghosts you find someone else too.
As long as it rubber and not too tight not much issues, if it’s metal there is more risk
I'll take Top 10 Sentences You Can't Recover From, Alex
Thank you for the explanation. The context it's very silly, it's just to know what should I brag about it to a guy who jokingly brags about his big d Lol
Also don’t forget that hardly anybody your age actually vocalises their desires and there’s probably a lot of people who think that you are gorgeous or sexy but too are shy to say anything
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Try asking her. This is a personal opinion and none of us can give you anything that necessarily applies to your partner.
Talking it out seems level headed and mature and caring. Turning up your nose and telling someone their reaction is less valid than yours, and not willing to talk it out for either person in this situation where both people seemed uncomfortable for a valid reason solves no problems is selfish lacking in empathy and contributes to a less positive outcome for the couple.
I wish more women had this kind of attitude and knew they deserve better. You go girl!đź‘Ť
I mean it depends, I’d want to have a partner with a similar amount sexual experience/past partners as me. We discover new things together that weren’t explored or weren’t explored enough in previous relationship. I know this was the case in previous relationships I’ve had, we’ve had the same body count +-2. I’m not saying that you can’t find that in relationships with people with super high body counts, but I really like that bond of discovery. Like to me, PiV is a great experience, but each time afterwards it isn’t as special to me as the first time. I don’t know, maybe it’s just how I’m wired, or it’s my lizard brain. Then again, my first sexual experience wasn’t dogshit, which probably greatly contributed to my perspective.
This isn’t the comment who has a long term relationship. I’m on 17 years and honestly your feelings fluctuate. Anyone who says otherwise is lying. That said, if you wake up saying “this is terrible” than it needs to change if possible. But sometimes that is also just life too. No relationship is all honeymoon and no struggle.
I suffered from pelvic floor disorder, physical therapy fixed it, but look into that maybe
I’d let it go man. You’re hung up on a guy that hasn’t reached out in months? Who never saw you as more than a fuck buddy anyway? This is what you signed up for. There are so many people who share your kinks. You’ll find good sex again. Let this guy who repeatedly ghosts you find someone else too.
The age difference is very likely to be too large but you're really inflating that word