Am I in the minority that I would just put my hand down her shirt and if she says “no” then don't do it? I've experienced that most women like it, so I'm confused at the amount of “it's her fault” comments.
Oh don’t do that…we are piling on the OPs boyfriend. Not trying to figure out how to make him a better lover and resolve their relational issues. His to fix. He went there. 😉
Yes but watching violent content vs getting off to it is completely different things. An extreme analogy is – Imagine you are watching a true crime documentary on some paedophile vs actually owning CP content. They are completely different ballparks.
Porn is fantasy. Nothing she watches is a problem, as long as it's legal and not exploiting others. She did nothing wrong here, she didn't cheat or even flirt with your brother – it was an accident. If it also triggered a desire to fantasize about family porn, then what of it? That doesn't mean she actually wants to do it, or that she did anything inappropriate. It's a fantasy.
So he wants you to fuck other people so he has an excuse to fuck other people.
Am I in the minority that I would just put my hand down her shirt and if she says “no” then don't do it? I've experienced that most women like it, so I'm confused at the amount of “it's her fault” comments.
Oh don’t do that…we are piling on the OPs boyfriend. Not trying to figure out how to make him a better lover and resolve their relational issues. His to fix. He went there. 😉
Yes but watching violent content vs getting off to it is completely different things. An extreme analogy is – Imagine you are watching a true crime documentary on some paedophile vs actually owning CP content. They are completely different ballparks.
Porn is fantasy. Nothing she watches is a problem, as long as it's legal and not exploiting others. She did nothing wrong here, she didn't cheat or even flirt with your brother – it was an accident. If it also triggered a desire to fantasize about family porn, then what of it? That doesn't mean she actually wants to do it, or that she did anything inappropriate. It's a fantasy.
You can get it, and it doesn't matter how many time it was off your penis, you have to put a new one
That's kinda sweet. Probably means eye contact and the connection with you is what does it in the end.
Thats a gross way of thinking should prob try to change that one.
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What a wholesome thread. Love it!