Some people love Toyotas and others Kias.. Some people like steak and others lobsters.. Different tastes for different people.. Do it if it makes you feel good and sexy… So it if your partner likes it… I personally love it.. It clearly tells me that my SO went to the effort to tease me… Also, you could wear it under clothes when you go out and let it show a bit.. Then there is the anticipation all evening.. Knowing it's on… That you get to see it later and rip them off.. Or just fuck with them on..
Everything you communicated is 100% normal (and Iβve had to communicate the same things to my partner when we first started having sex. Changing the rhythm, where to touch heck weβve been together ten years and sometimes heβs not in the exact spot I want him to beβ¦he doesnβt care if I say move lower or up etc. he just does what I ask. And it doesnβt even sound like youβre criticizing him so I donβt know why heβs taking this as anything unusual. Personally, I wouldnβt like having sex with someone who made comments like that. Comparing to past encounters is such a turn off. And I am completely convinced his prior encounters faked it, or maybe they were young and didnβt know what they needed or truly wanted. I know it took me years to truly figure out what I wanted sexually.
I'd recommend taking a look at r/hotwifelifestyle While you should definitely be ready to have a conversation about him having sex with other women, this isn't necessarily a guaranteed request. He might be interested in either a Stag and Vixen dynamic, or the similar Hotwife dynamic. Stags don't necessarily want to fuck other women, but love letting their women fuck other men. If you don't feel ready, then don't do it. If you want to entertain his kink without the implications or risks, you can buy a realistic dildo and role play for him. Give it a name and pretend it's some random guy you picked up from the bar, and fuck yourself silly with it while he watches.
Iβve been with men who donβt make me cum for like months Lmao thatβs not a huge deal for me usually sex the first few times are weird anyways you donβt know the other person you gotta learn it. If heβs this way for months though yea heβs gotta go.
I'm 25 and lost my virginity at lls 17. I've only had this problem recently and thought it was solely due to the brand or type of durex condom. This happened with the extra security durex. Before unrolling it as you say, it's like there's a lot of space left over at the beginning, in the bubble area, and I think that it is that space that catches air and generates wrinkles. I think that's why I thought it's too big for me. I will change brands and I will take into account your advice not to unroll it completely. Many thanks!
remember it may bleed, and its supposed to hurt a little but not to much. the pleasure should be there. if you're nervous about not knowing what to do, play along with what he does, as you would do for kissing. good luck ! im sure you'll have a great time:)
But most women my age have had tons of sex and hookups, go ask your average woman in her early 20s and she would of already had threesomes and tons of hookups. Most women are also bisexual so your competing with women for pussy as well
Women enjoy my βdirty areaβ because it is much easier to wash and clean than a vagina. Men βleakβ or βejaculateβ and having discharge come from the penis may be a sign of STIs, so completely different buddy. Sorry I donβt like having my tongue in a womanβs vagina that squirts discharge in my face. Not sure how thatβs βselfish -π€β
what did I do wrong π₯Ί Could it be that he needs a little time to reconnect with you emotionally after an intense day of work and parenting before he can get horny? It's usually the mother who needs that, but it's quite normal for the mother to be spontaneously horny and the father to need some time and nonsexual connection to feel sexual desire. Just a little more unusual than the other way around.
I will try again, to talk about my kinks without freaking people out. I sometimes have a few fantasies that are super taboo. They almost always have the same result as far as what happens to me after the my taboo is brought to light. Every thing is fantasy in my mind. One is I have a little bit of a crush on my step daughter 18f. She has to be the most beautiful woman I've ever seen. Sometimes I have the fantasy that she has a desire to get it on with me. So, she does, usually orally. Then my partner comes in during the activity. She has a meltdown and then forces her daughter to finish me up and then they proceed to bust my balls violently. To the point of major damage. Of course that's my kind of kink and I feel that I deserve to be punished for my lustful thoughts on my step daughter. I had not masterbated to her until she turned 18.. because I felt that would open doors that I'm not gonna open. So, if you have any fantasy that gives off shame, I encourage you to talk to a therapist or find a way to work through that shame and create a rule or boundaries that give you strict requirements to be allowed to go there in your mind.
Lol you don't look dumb at all. It's so ridiculous that we women always take it on as if we are the problem. Us caring isn't the problem. Getting attached isn't the problem. Having sex “too quickly” isn't the problem. Wanting respect isn't the problem. Wanting a connection or commitment isn't the problem! Sometimes people just suck. Sometimes they're still figuring out who they are. Sometimes they have no emotional intelligence. Sometimes they're terrified of vulnerability. None of that is on you. So stop taking it on.
Step 1: Date Step 2 : Make a connection Step 3: Physical intimacy will follow β But if you want to come off less creepy. Probably don't call people sluts. Probably don't devalue sex workers. Probably don't talk about sleeping with drunken women.
Just try it. You'll figure it out pretty quickly. You're not going to harm yourself unless you do something pretty dramatic. Though, you will want to make sure your fingernails are taken care of well. You don't want to scratch yourself.
cut your nails, wash your hands. get prepped (cumming beforehand helps) or use lube. also keep in mind you might not derive any actual pleasure out of it, some women don't feel anything strong from doing it themselves
It doesnβt βmeanβ anything. Guys who begin with missionary donβt, like, connect with you more or something (I mean, youβre referring to them in the past tense so itβs not like theyβre still with you). Starting with doggy doesnβt mean heβs more disconnected. Maybe he just likes the visual. Take it as a compliment. He probably thinks you have a nice ass. He can slap your ass better in that position, too. Itβs a win-win without any deeper implications.
If they work similarly to COVID tests, then you're going to increase your false positive rate, which could be problematic. If you have insurance, getting testing done at a doctor's office is much less of a hassle.
That's the entire point of christianity. Easier to control people when you convince them they are evil unless they follow you. Previous comment suggests they aren't religious though so I'm curious where the purity crap came from
You're a woman so it's extremely easy. Just download a dating app and tell whoever looks like your type that you wanna hang out. If they don't seem like a creep irl then invite them over.
Give her a hug when she arrives and then keep touching her in non sexual ways like brushing her hair out of her eyes, putting your hand on her arm when you are talking etc. if she doesnβt flinch and move away, just steadily escalate, have her sit down on the sofa and start kissing her, try her neck first as most women love that, take it slow and seduce her, foreplay is Core Play for women the slow build up gets us very excited, unless she speeds proceedings up herself.
Simply stop hanging out with him in situations where this is possible and enforce boundaries. Find someone to date to properly channel sexual explorations before this friendship is fucked.
Id avoid the bar situation. Odds are higher you may end up with a non-sti/std partner. There are many groups for people swinging, or looking for thirds.
There need to be gender identifiers on these comments. I'm pretty sure I have read anything but male responses so far. π€£
Wish someone made my squirtπ lucky girl she is
Dare her to squirt harder
Tell him you are going to return the favor and see how long that lasts!
Yeah nerves will kill a hard-on. He's probably dealing with more mental than physical issues. But he finds Viagra it'll fix everything lol.
A fwb is going to be hard d to find that isnβt going to ghost and leave even dating apps are set up like that now
Walmart does sell personal vibrators I believe. I recall seeing them near the condoms and tampons
I always loved Jamie Farr as The Sheik in the movie “Cannonball Run”. “Ladies, there is only so much water in the fountain!”
Depends on the girl something you two should discuss before hand
This, but taking his hand and guiding, with voiceover.
Some people love Toyotas and others Kias.. Some people like steak and others lobsters.. Different tastes for different people.. Do it if it makes you feel good and sexy… So it if your partner likes it… I personally love it.. It clearly tells me that my SO went to the effort to tease me… Also, you could wear it under clothes when you go out and let it show a bit.. Then there is the anticipation all evening.. Knowing it's on… That you get to see it later and rip them off.. Or just fuck with them on..
Everything you communicated is 100% normal (and Iβve had to communicate the same things to my partner when we first started having sex. Changing the rhythm, where to touch heck weβve been together ten years and sometimes heβs not in the exact spot I want him to beβ¦he doesnβt care if I say move lower or up etc. he just does what I ask. And it doesnβt even sound like youβre criticizing him so I donβt know why heβs taking this as anything unusual. Personally, I wouldnβt like having sex with someone who made comments like that. Comparing to past encounters is such a turn off. And I am completely convinced his prior encounters faked it, or maybe they were young and didnβt know what they needed or truly wanted. I know it took me years to truly figure out what I wanted sexually.
Well she said there was a “slow decline” in the sex life so I'd say fair to assume that it was satisfying at one point
I'd recommend taking a look at r/hotwifelifestyle While you should definitely be ready to have a conversation about him having sex with other women, this isn't necessarily a guaranteed request. He might be interested in either a Stag and Vixen dynamic, or the similar Hotwife dynamic. Stags don't necessarily want to fuck other women, but love letting their women fuck other men. If you don't feel ready, then don't do it. If you want to entertain his kink without the implications or risks, you can buy a realistic dildo and role play for him. Give it a name and pretend it's some random guy you picked up from the bar, and fuck yourself silly with it while he watches.
If there's a lack of intimacy before a wedding that same wedding is sure to put a bullet in whatever remains.
Iβve been with men who donβt make me cum for like months Lmao thatβs not a huge deal for me usually sex the first few times are weird anyways you donβt know the other person you gotta learn it. If heβs this way for months though yea heβs gotta go.
I'm 25 and lost my virginity at lls 17. I've only had this problem recently and thought it was solely due to the brand or type of durex condom. This happened with the extra security durex. Before unrolling it as you say, it's like there's a lot of space left over at the beginning, in the bubble area, and I think that it is that space that catches air and generates wrinkles. I think that's why I thought it's too big for me. I will change brands and I will take into account your advice not to unroll it completely. Many thanks!
Initiative, Enthusiasm, Wetness, Sensitivity, then… Tightness.
remember it may bleed, and its supposed to hurt a little but not to much. the pleasure should be there. if you're nervous about not knowing what to do, play along with what he does, as you would do for kissing. good luck ! im sure you'll have a great time:)
Poor guy doesn't realise he's allowed to have consent and boundaries. He needs support
But most women my age have had tons of sex and hookups, go ask your average woman in her early 20s and she would of already had threesomes and tons of hookups. Most women are also bisexual so your competing with women for pussy as well
Women enjoy my βdirty areaβ because it is much easier to wash and clean than a vagina. Men βleakβ or βejaculateβ and having discharge come from the penis may be a sign of STIs, so completely different buddy. Sorry I donβt like having my tongue in a womanβs vagina that squirts discharge in my face. Not sure how thatβs βselfish -π€β
You don't deserve pussy
what did I do wrong π₯Ί Could it be that he needs a little time to reconnect with you emotionally after an intense day of work and parenting before he can get horny? It's usually the mother who needs that, but it's quite normal for the mother to be spontaneously horny and the father to need some time and nonsexual connection to feel sexual desire. Just a little more unusual than the other way around.
I will try again, to talk about my kinks without freaking people out. I sometimes have a few fantasies that are super taboo. They almost always have the same result as far as what happens to me after the my taboo is brought to light. Every thing is fantasy in my mind. One is I have a little bit of a crush on my step daughter 18f. She has to be the most beautiful woman I've ever seen. Sometimes I have the fantasy that she has a desire to get it on with me. So, she does, usually orally. Then my partner comes in during the activity. She has a meltdown and then forces her daughter to finish me up and then they proceed to bust my balls violently. To the point of major damage. Of course that's my kind of kink and I feel that I deserve to be punished for my lustful thoughts on my step daughter. I had not masterbated to her until she turned 18.. because I felt that would open doors that I'm not gonna open. So, if you have any fantasy that gives off shame, I encourage you to talk to a therapist or find a way to work through that shame and create a rule or boundaries that give you strict requirements to be allowed to go there in your mind.
Lol you don't look dumb at all. It's so ridiculous that we women always take it on as if we are the problem. Us caring isn't the problem. Getting attached isn't the problem. Having sex “too quickly” isn't the problem. Wanting respect isn't the problem. Wanting a connection or commitment isn't the problem! Sometimes people just suck. Sometimes they're still figuring out who they are. Sometimes they have no emotional intelligence. Sometimes they're terrified of vulnerability. None of that is on you. So stop taking it on.
Me that's situation i take a risk and get one night stand hehe.
We have dinner together almost every night, it typically ends with us both falling asleep on the couch watching Netflix
I agree.
Step 1: Date Step 2 : Make a connection Step 3: Physical intimacy will follow β But if you want to come off less creepy. Probably don't call people sluts. Probably don't devalue sex workers. Probably don't talk about sleeping with drunken women.
Have a dick that points and curves straight up like a banana, how can I get this to work for me?
Just try it. You'll figure it out pretty quickly. You're not going to harm yourself unless you do something pretty dramatic. Though, you will want to make sure your fingernails are taken care of well. You don't want to scratch yourself.
cut your nails, wash your hands. get prepped (cumming beforehand helps) or use lube. also keep in mind you might not derive any actual pleasure out of it, some women don't feel anything strong from doing it themselves
It doesnβt βmeanβ anything. Guys who begin with missionary donβt, like, connect with you more or something (I mean, youβre referring to them in the past tense so itβs not like theyβre still with you). Starting with doggy doesnβt mean heβs more disconnected. Maybe he just likes the visual. Take it as a compliment. He probably thinks you have a nice ass. He can slap your ass better in that position, too. Itβs a win-win without any deeper implications.
If they work similarly to COVID tests, then you're going to increase your false positive rate, which could be problematic. If you have insurance, getting testing done at a doctor's office is much less of a hassle.
No way! That one is painful most the time unless you are free to move your body.
and non divisible into 80%.. maybe they allowed a 20% margin of error?
That's the entire point of christianity. Easier to control people when you convince them they are evil unless they follow you. Previous comment suggests they aren't religious though so I'm curious where the purity crap came from
JFC, NOOOOO!!! She does not sound like a friend. At least not a friend to you.
You're a woman so it's extremely easy. Just download a dating app and tell whoever looks like your type that you wanna hang out. If they don't seem like a creep irl then invite them over.
It's fun
Give her a hug when she arrives and then keep touching her in non sexual ways like brushing her hair out of her eyes, putting your hand on her arm when you are talking etc. if she doesnβt flinch and move away, just steadily escalate, have her sit down on the sofa and start kissing her, try her neck first as most women love that, take it slow and seduce her, foreplay is Core Play for women the slow build up gets us very excited, unless she speeds proceedings up herself.
Simply stop hanging out with him in situations where this is possible and enforce boundaries. Find someone to date to properly channel sexual explorations before this friendship is fucked.
Two things: You are getting self fulfilling ED. Psyching yourself out. Ever see Shallow Hal?
Id avoid the bar situation. Odds are higher you may end up with a non-sti/std partner. There are many groups for people swinging, or looking for thirds.