Totally normal. Just establish a signal on the night before. Have her wear a specific piece of clothing or color to indicate consent. Consent is so hot.
I have an IUD and I'm as angry as the next person who values women's access to healthcare. But respectfully, I want to point out some math. You said you two haven't had sex in 9 months. The RvW leaked draft came out at the start of May, with the official repeal being June 24th. If she has voiced this concern since it was first leaked, that was 8 months ago. When it became official at the end of June, that was ~5 months ago. So the question is: how long has she voiced her concern about RvW in relation to her having sex with you? If it's just been for the past 5 months, I wonder why you haven't had sex in 9. What I'm trying to get at is that this definitely warrants a deeper conversation because her reply may not be the true cause for her feelings. Keep in mind she might not even be purposefully hiding something from you (maybe she experienced some kind of trauma, who knows, it's dangerous to make assumptions). Please see if she is open to an honest conversation where the two of you can openly express your feelings while trying not to get caught up in emotions or blame. Best of luck to you two to try and find a resolution that works for both of you.
Totally normal. Just establish a signal on the night before. Have her wear a specific piece of clothing or color to indicate consent. Consent is so hot.
I have an IUD and I'm as angry as the next person who values women's access to healthcare. But respectfully, I want to point out some math. You said you two haven't had sex in 9 months. The RvW leaked draft came out at the start of May, with the official repeal being June 24th. If she has voiced this concern since it was first leaked, that was 8 months ago. When it became official at the end of June, that was ~5 months ago. So the question is: how long has she voiced her concern about RvW in relation to her having sex with you? If it's just been for the past 5 months, I wonder why you haven't had sex in 9. What I'm trying to get at is that this definitely warrants a deeper conversation because her reply may not be the true cause for her feelings. Keep in mind she might not even be purposefully hiding something from you (maybe she experienced some kind of trauma, who knows, it's dangerous to make assumptions). Please see if she is open to an honest conversation where the two of you can openly express your feelings while trying not to get caught up in emotions or blame. Best of luck to you two to try and find a resolution that works for both of you.
Just beat your meat it will grow
For sure! I felt compelled to comment since the OP expressed concern for delicacy. ๐
“I need to call the old man in the boat.”
Stop using โpost nut clarity as an excuse for using people