I'd wager he thinks about making sure he's hard in that position since he has had issues before, as well as making you finish knowing it only happens in that position. It puts a lot of pressure on him and in turn he can't get those thoughts out of his mind. I think if he's fine in other positions, then he doesn't have ED. (I'm no doctor/expert on ED though).
Thank you! I feel like you really understand the difficult mentality behind what I'm experiencing. I'll try to work on clearing my mind and just focusing on the feeling.
Speaking from experience, she means that you have to mentally get her there first even if you’re physically doing everything right. Take her out for dinner and make her wear her favorite dress/ outfit. Compliment the way her dress looks on her and how well her hair looks. Take her out to eat and ask about her day, talk about the things she’s looking forward to the following week. Be mentally present as well as physically. Personally, the emotional, mental, and spiritual connection with my partner is so strong that just thinking about getting physical turns me on immediately.
I'd say leave him if he fails to put in any effort. As long as you've talked to him about it and given him the chance to change, and he has ignored you, I'd leave
If I’m focused on making her feel good I can sometimes last quite a while. If I’m focused on me it can vary depending on position, what she’s doing and a variety of others factors but is often not that long. If we are in sync and what she wants is the same as what I want I’m a three pump chump…
You didn't really answer the question so I'm assuming that's a no.
I'd wager he thinks about making sure he's hard in that position since he has had issues before, as well as making you finish knowing it only happens in that position. It puts a lot of pressure on him and in turn he can't get those thoughts out of his mind. I think if he's fine in other positions, then he doesn't have ED. (I'm no doctor/expert on ED though).
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Thank you! I feel like you really understand the difficult mentality behind what I'm experiencing. I'll try to work on clearing my mind and just focusing on the feeling.
I don't know how my folks did it. Four kids in five years in a small apartment.
Speaking from experience, she means that you have to mentally get her there first even if you’re physically doing everything right. Take her out for dinner and make her wear her favorite dress/ outfit. Compliment the way her dress looks on her and how well her hair looks. Take her out to eat and ask about her day, talk about the things she’s looking forward to the following week. Be mentally present as well as physically. Personally, the emotional, mental, and spiritual connection with my partner is so strong that just thinking about getting physical turns me on immediately.
Mr. Miyagi style
I'd say leave him if he fails to put in any effort. As long as you've talked to him about it and given him the chance to change, and he has ignored you, I'd leave
If I’m focused on making her feel good I can sometimes last quite a while. If I’m focused on me it can vary depending on position, what she’s doing and a variety of others factors but is often not that long. If we are in sync and what she wants is the same as what I want I’m a three pump chump…
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Demn thats exp gained wisdom ryt there guys.