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Actually it is pathway for emotional connection for me as well, but it's not enough for me to have sex, I also need the non-sexual physical touch and conversations where we connect, you know what I mean? For context: My husband and I have a great sex life that we are both happy with. Sex daily unless I'm on my period. But he just told me today that these days he don't want to be touched a lot. Like if I come and hold my arms around him, sit on him, kiss him, all those things that I usually do, he don't want that atm, he wants to be more in his own space. This is just really hard for me, since it's one of my important basic needs to feel loved and connected to him. He says that there's nothing wrong, and I shouldn't worry – which is hard, but I accept that. I just don't know how to cope with not getting my need met basically.
Maybe not “typical”… if done lightly and erotically, it is incredibly exciting (and preferred)… but more often than nit, it doesn’t happen… So maybe I would say, “biting your partners lips is not uncommon”…
Kind of confused here as to why you’re still having sex with this man when it clearly displeases you so? If you don’t love him, he doesn’t pleasure you, he doesn’t fulfil you and you don’t see that changing, then I would leave personally. Otherwise your only option is to explain it to him, but he prepared for him to not want to put in the effort because that’s a possibility too. If he is like that then he doesn’t deserve you but it will still hurt most likely.
Because she had already lost you… you broke up. What isn’t clicking??? You ended the relationship and by doing that she no longer had any loyalty to you. She was single and could do whatever she wanted. You don’t own her. Your mentality is so twisted 🤦🏾♀️
Without mutual libido you're just room mates. It's not going to change, menopause is just around the corner. Better off alone or a new girl. You can keep loving your former room mate as a friend if that doesn't scare new girls away. You're in your prime brother, find a girl who is also in her prime ~ 27-30 years old.
Yeah me and my male friends don't really discuss our sex lives at all, we're all in long-term relationships so I guess it's assumed? However when talking yo my friends who are women, they get super detailed, like borderline pornographic level of details lol. I also know that Fiancee discusses things with her friends too
Ok, I sorta figured as much tbh, since you’re kinda new at it 😊 I just want you to know that’s completely & totally normal. I myself am not really able to achieve an orgasm during actual intercourse as my clitoris is a little higher up & my orgasms are clitoral in nature. (Not sure about other women) Intercourse still feels good but I can’t orgasm from just that. I require clitoral touching, licking, or as you said, a toy. This is very normal I assure you. Also, I had sex for probably a good three years before I ever had an orgasm at all with any partner and it was via oral. So, don’t be afraid to tell your partner what you need or just to give yourself time to even figure that out for yourself alright. You will get a lot better at all that with time. I’m 49 now so I’ve had A LOT of practice 😂 both with partners and alone, so yeah I just wanted you to know that this is normal. It can take a while to feel comfortable enough. Ok well good luck! 😊
It is normal. There is nothing wrong with you. Penetration just doesn't do it for some women. For me it feels enjoyable, but it wont get me anywhere near an orgasm. You could try adding clit stimulation (either by fingers or a toy) to penetration and see if that makes any difference. But if it is just not for you that is ok too.
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You would be in the category of soft dom, or pleasure dom. No punishments, no theatrical berating, no for real berating, no humiliation. No whipping, no melted candle wax, no role play. Yes bondage (unless the partner vetoes it). Start by holding a conference and declaring that when you are vehement during foreplay and beyond, you're not being angry, just eager. Acknowledge their right to withdraw consent at any moment. The premise of D/s is that the sub aspires to defer. They aspire to consent to anything that is within their “hard limits” (BDSM terminology). They don't have to live up to that 100% (nobody's perfect), but the premise of their sub pledge is that they will usually defer to the dom, that withdrawal of consent will be infrequent. The D/s “dynamic” doesn't need to be “powered on” relentlessly, especially not when the dom never had this personality. You could work up to performing it more and more often. The sub would probably enjoy a little unpredictability in being pounced on. Back to domineering exuberance. Like, if she puts a hand where you don't want it, on occasion don't just nudge it off, or tell her to take it back. Shove it away. She has been assured in advance that such a thing is not done out of anger. Or, if you repeat a command because she didn't quite do what you wanted, you're not annoyed, and she needn't apologize, she should just heed the repeated command. Get used to commanding her, by instructing her to assume positions, and laying on hands to position her. Get her used to gliding into position at your nudge. I like having contrasting behaviors, although absolutely not in a Jekyll and Hyde way. Totally not into thuggishness. One contrast is, I used to always act sweet gentle romantic, like in kissing. With the new me, when I kiss, hug, and gaze, sometimes my mood is that sweet romantic, other times it is claiming possession and alerting to a session. They feel the two kisses. Thrust harder. For bondage, tie the wrists with a scarf, tying a slip knot around each wrist. They could free themselves if you have a heart attack, if you're in a certain age range.
I keep an eye out; though, it’s been a long time since I had to worry about that. There’s a difference in feeling, too, so I’d know unless I was blackout drunk; which I wouldn’t around someone I don’t trust.
For me good sex means enthusiasm, communication, attentiveness, learning about my body. Having “tricks” is not very important because that one thing might work for one person but not for me. There’s nothing worse than a sexual partner who insists their moves are the best despite me being like, “actually no that hurts.”
I’ve had this issue as well. In fact, with an ex I’d actually wear an internal condom to cut down on the wetness. Since then, I’ve learned you just need to be ok with it and if it gets to be too much, you have to be comfortable just getting up, cleaning up a bit, and then continue. Another thing – people, esp those with penises, tend to associate being really wet with being young, healthy, “not old or dried up” (which is offensive in its own way, I know). So, they may say they like it or want that. BUT, once they experience someone that actually gets really wet, they realize they don’t like it. That’s ok too, they just need to be upfront about it.
This is a very helpful response, thank you!! He has never openly talked about sex with other partners – more specifically likes, dislikes, preferences- and always says he appreciates how vocal I am about those things. I always ask him his opinion about things as well. Because of that, I think he has assumed his past partners have finished due to lack of communication. But, that is just me assuming. He has told me he is intimidated by my vibrator replacing him, and when he went on a trip, jokingly asked to take it with him so I wouldn’t use it. That’s why I don’t prefer using the vibrator with him – because I don’t want it to further validate his feelings. All this to say, I should ask why he feels that way- you’re right. I want him to feel the way I feel about our sex life.
You both are awful
Actually it is pathway for emotional connection for me as well, but it's not enough for me to have sex, I also need the non-sexual physical touch and conversations where we connect, you know what I mean? For context: My husband and I have a great sex life that we are both happy with. Sex daily unless I'm on my period. But he just told me today that these days he don't want to be touched a lot. Like if I come and hold my arms around him, sit on him, kiss him, all those things that I usually do, he don't want that atm, he wants to be more in his own space. This is just really hard for me, since it's one of my important basic needs to feel loved and connected to him. He says that there's nothing wrong, and I shouldn't worry – which is hard, but I accept that. I just don't know how to cope with not getting my need met basically.
Maybe not “typical”… if done lightly and erotically, it is incredibly exciting (and preferred)… but more often than nit, it doesn’t happen… So maybe I would say, “biting your partners lips is not uncommon”…
Kind of confused here as to why you’re still having sex with this man when it clearly displeases you so? If you don’t love him, he doesn’t pleasure you, he doesn’t fulfil you and you don’t see that changing, then I would leave personally. Otherwise your only option is to explain it to him, but he prepared for him to not want to put in the effort because that’s a possibility too. If he is like that then he doesn’t deserve you but it will still hurt most likely.
Because she had already lost you… you broke up. What isn’t clicking??? You ended the relationship and by doing that she no longer had any loyalty to you. She was single and could do whatever she wanted. You don’t own her. Your mentality is so twisted 🤦🏾♀️
It just sounds odd to me, as far as I know (and I might be wrong) in cuckolding and cuckqueening your partner has to be informed in some way, no?
everything you are telling us, you need to talk about with him.
I’m so worried about you, stranger. Take care of yourself.
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Without mutual libido you're just room mates. It's not going to change, menopause is just around the corner. Better off alone or a new girl. You can keep loving your former room mate as a friend if that doesn't scare new girls away. You're in your prime brother, find a girl who is also in her prime ~ 27-30 years old.
Yeah me and my male friends don't really discuss our sex lives at all, we're all in long-term relationships so I guess it's assumed? However when talking yo my friends who are women, they get super detailed, like borderline pornographic level of details lol. I also know that Fiancee discusses things with her friends too
Ok, I sorta figured as much tbh, since you’re kinda new at it 😊 I just want you to know that’s completely & totally normal. I myself am not really able to achieve an orgasm during actual intercourse as my clitoris is a little higher up & my orgasms are clitoral in nature. (Not sure about other women) Intercourse still feels good but I can’t orgasm from just that. I require clitoral touching, licking, or as you said, a toy. This is very normal I assure you. Also, I had sex for probably a good three years before I ever had an orgasm at all with any partner and it was via oral. So, don’t be afraid to tell your partner what you need or just to give yourself time to even figure that out for yourself alright. You will get a lot better at all that with time. I’m 49 now so I’ve had A LOT of practice 😂 both with partners and alone, so yeah I just wanted you to know that this is normal. It can take a while to feel comfortable enough. Ok well good luck! 😊
Absolutely do NOT give him a couple of years if he can't respect this very simple boundary.
It is normal. There is nothing wrong with you. Penetration just doesn't do it for some women. For me it feels enjoyable, but it wont get me anywhere near an orgasm. You could try adding clit stimulation (either by fingers or a toy) to penetration and see if that makes any difference. But if it is just not for you that is ok too.
Leave her. She’s not a girl you want to marry
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Why? Date whomever you're attracted to. Why does it need a label?
I only had sex 2 in my life and both lasted less than 30 seconds
My sister in Christ, if a girl made me come in a towel that would be the last she ever saw of me. I wish you all the best.
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You would be in the category of soft dom, or pleasure dom. No punishments, no theatrical berating, no for real berating, no humiliation. No whipping, no melted candle wax, no role play. Yes bondage (unless the partner vetoes it). Start by holding a conference and declaring that when you are vehement during foreplay and beyond, you're not being angry, just eager. Acknowledge their right to withdraw consent at any moment. The premise of D/s is that the sub aspires to defer. They aspire to consent to anything that is within their “hard limits” (BDSM terminology). They don't have to live up to that 100% (nobody's perfect), but the premise of their sub pledge is that they will usually defer to the dom, that withdrawal of consent will be infrequent. The D/s “dynamic” doesn't need to be “powered on” relentlessly, especially not when the dom never had this personality. You could work up to performing it more and more often. The sub would probably enjoy a little unpredictability in being pounced on. Back to domineering exuberance. Like, if she puts a hand where you don't want it, on occasion don't just nudge it off, or tell her to take it back. Shove it away. She has been assured in advance that such a thing is not done out of anger. Or, if you repeat a command because she didn't quite do what you wanted, you're not annoyed, and she needn't apologize, she should just heed the repeated command. Get used to commanding her, by instructing her to assume positions, and laying on hands to position her. Get her used to gliding into position at your nudge. I like having contrasting behaviors, although absolutely not in a Jekyll and Hyde way. Totally not into thuggishness. One contrast is, I used to always act sweet gentle romantic, like in kissing. With the new me, when I kiss, hug, and gaze, sometimes my mood is that sweet romantic, other times it is claiming possession and alerting to a session. They feel the two kisses. Thrust harder. For bondage, tie the wrists with a scarf, tying a slip knot around each wrist. They could free themselves if you have a heart attack, if you're in a certain age range.
I keep an eye out; though, it’s been a long time since I had to worry about that. There’s a difference in feeling, too, so I’d know unless I was blackout drunk; which I wouldn’t around someone I don’t trust.
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For me good sex means enthusiasm, communication, attentiveness, learning about my body. Having “tricks” is not very important because that one thing might work for one person but not for me. There’s nothing worse than a sexual partner who insists their moves are the best despite me being like, “actually no that hurts.”
I’ve had this issue as well. In fact, with an ex I’d actually wear an internal condom to cut down on the wetness. Since then, I’ve learned you just need to be ok with it and if it gets to be too much, you have to be comfortable just getting up, cleaning up a bit, and then continue. Another thing – people, esp those with penises, tend to associate being really wet with being young, healthy, “not old or dried up” (which is offensive in its own way, I know). So, they may say they like it or want that. BUT, once they experience someone that actually gets really wet, they realize they don’t like it. That’s ok too, they just need to be upfront about it.
i know i give good head and she didnt tell me its so i guess good
that’s interesting. I wondered if this might be the case. he suffers from pretty bad fatigue!
This is a very helpful response, thank you!! He has never openly talked about sex with other partners – more specifically likes, dislikes, preferences- and always says he appreciates how vocal I am about those things. I always ask him his opinion about things as well. Because of that, I think he has assumed his past partners have finished due to lack of communication. But, that is just me assuming. He has told me he is intimidated by my vibrator replacing him, and when he went on a trip, jokingly asked to take it with him so I wouldn’t use it. That’s why I don’t prefer using the vibrator with him – because I don’t want it to further validate his feelings. All this to say, I should ask why he feels that way- you’re right. I want him to feel the way I feel about our sex life.