An odd question to be sure. I'll explain my username anyways, in the off chance that someone reading this might actually be wondering. Schrodinger's Cat is a thought experiment to describe a bizarre phenomenon in quantum physics. A Dik-dik is a small species of antelope that live in Africa. In English, the name sounds like dick, which is slang for penis. A Mashup of these unrelated ideas shows that I am both well-educated and very immature at the same time. Apologies if you were annoyed by the over-explanation. I hope that this picture of boobies makes up for it.
Yes! Fear of abandonment… which is inhibiting me from doing anything romantic or couple-ly with new people. Is there a way to stop this? And thanks! I’ll check her out on youtube
OP, one of the things that I noticed in this post is this – you keep on talking about yourself, but you have no idea what your “bestfriend” is feeling. I'm not blaming you for your feelings and there is nothing wrong with what happened that night. But you gotta talk to him. You need to make it clear that nothing like that would happen again and that you do not see him that way. Know this – he clearly wants to have sex with you – move forward knowing that. The massage thing was just a pretense for that and I'm pretty sure you knew that too. You have nothing to feel guilty about. You are young. Just because you told people that you'd “never have sex with him” doesn't mean that you haave to stick to that.
i was dealing with a similar issue after losing my virginity, but i grabbed a sex toy and used it for clitoral stimulation—awakened potential for sexual pleasure! maybe try that out. also, maybe improve on foreplay?
Okay, good. Glad to hear it. Just something to consider if you have anal without a condom again.
An odd question to be sure. I'll explain my username anyways, in the off chance that someone reading this might actually be wondering. Schrodinger's Cat is a thought experiment to describe a bizarre phenomenon in quantum physics. A Dik-dik is a small species of antelope that live in Africa. In English, the name sounds like dick, which is slang for penis. A Mashup of these unrelated ideas shows that I am both well-educated and very immature at the same time. Apologies if you were annoyed by the over-explanation. I hope that this picture of boobies makes up for it.
Is this a troll? Lol you do realize that it’s literally even “worse” of a “sin” to do sodomy right lmao
I’ve never done this, but I think I’d be excited for f a guy asked
For getting on top, how about a queening stool? I also use Linerator sex wedge combo and they are perfect t for every other position
Last resort but I heard about Vyleesi. It’s an injection taken as needed that helps against hypoactive sexual desire disorder
The safest way is to use 1 of the other entrances that wont lead to problems in 9 months or use bc
I would advise taking some time to process what actually happened, and how you feel about it, before talking about it further with strangers.
Sounds like you know what you need already, try someone else.
Yes! Fear of abandonment… which is inhibiting me from doing anything romantic or couple-ly with new people. Is there a way to stop this? And thanks! I’ll check her out on youtube
OP, one of the things that I noticed in this post is this – you keep on talking about yourself, but you have no idea what your “bestfriend” is feeling. I'm not blaming you for your feelings and there is nothing wrong with what happened that night. But you gotta talk to him. You need to make it clear that nothing like that would happen again and that you do not see him that way. Know this – he clearly wants to have sex with you – move forward knowing that. The massage thing was just a pretense for that and I'm pretty sure you knew that too. You have nothing to feel guilty about. You are young. Just because you told people that you'd “never have sex with him” doesn't mean that you haave to stick to that.
where are you based out of ?
i was dealing with a similar issue after losing my virginity, but i grabbed a sex toy and used it for clitoral stimulation—awakened potential for sexual pleasure! maybe try that out. also, maybe improve on foreplay?