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You aren't seeking advice. You're just telling us the shit that happened to you. We are an advice subreddit. You need to read our rules. If we have to remove multiple posts by you for rule breaking, we will probably ban you.
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I never had an orgasm from oral until I met my fiancé and he was able to do it the second time we had sex. I was 50
So this happened two years ago, and you've posted about it several times before. I guess my main question is… What do you want to hear in this thread? That we know something you don't? That he's a liar? Whatever it is you want to hear, why do you want to hear it? Will it give you license to make some kind of decision you, for some reason, haven't yet made? Why not just make that decision and cut all this worrying out? Frankly, you're never gonna know how he got it. He apparently hasn't given you credible reason to doubt what he's telling you, yet it sounds like you're looking for a reason anyway.
Thank you you sound so sweet☺️ the more I think about it I honestly think it was their insecurities maybe. Yeah avarage age in the us is about 1718 where I live tho it’s around 16.5 so we’re even earlier lol
Honestly sexting is just spicing up a overall bland sentence with some descriptive or detailed lore around it for the most part For example. “I Kissed your thighs” sounds bland but if you gave it details like “placed my hand on your inner thigh, kneeled down, peaking over your (blank) looking into your eyes and kissing your thigh.” Sounds more interesting. “But as for how to sext” there's a couple starting points and ways to lead you to the direction you may want. First Identify whether you are the leader or the responder or is a feed (text for text) If your male likes to take control you are the responder. If your male is more submissive you're the leader. Responder: it's pretty much a hypeman, you may not need say as much but when you do make sure it leaps your partner over the fence. Leader: prepare to mentally stimulate yourself ( a lot of typing) Ways: I like to thinks there's 2 ways to sexting 1) General writing, any action you would do in person just say it in a more appealing way. 2) It's more common now, which is using gifs. A lot of people aren't as imaginative and need a visual push to feel the desire as while texting. Overall hopes everything works out!
I was joking, that's a lot of benadryl. Just stick to weed and dildos
The only downside is trying to find someone to fuck when I horney lol, other than that not really
Maybe consider the birth control shot which you only need once every 3 months. Plan B should absolutely not be a primary form of birth control.
Trying to have an in depth discussion about the volume of his ejaculation and hoping that he isn’t embarrassed are two antithetical desires.
bro1: you did it? bro2: yeah bro1: nice (aproving nod) bro2: nice (reply nod)
Delete this, what the fuck is wrong with you.
get her intimate wash and use spray before having sex.
I am seriously sorry about your situation. But am I understanding correctly… You've been dating this guy for two years, yet the ex did this only the past two months!?! That is hella patient man to wait that long to do revenge porn (A year and ten months). By no means is revenge porn legal, but you don't sound like you're being 100% truthful about the story or to your bf…? Just saying.
“Listen babe, some men only have a big dick and make that the foundation of their self-esteem. I indulged his need to be praised for his dick at the time but my sexual pleasure and overall happiness are much more complex. You fulfill BOTH those needs way more than he ever could. I enjoyed myself at the time but I would take you and your dick over him everytime. What he did was pathetic and small but I can't make you get over it. Only you can choose to get over it. All I want is to be your woman.”
A girl that will enthusiastically slut it out like that for her man is obviously into it Lots of people do experimental shit all the time, but there's a thing called sexual compatibility: she's saying that sex with her current BF is at the top of her experiences. Just because she was more submissive to her previous partner does not mean her current partner isnt ideal. Like, imagine if youe were asked to be more dominant with your previous ex, more than you were normally comfortable with; you do it because it turns on your partner more, and it becomes more fun as a result. It's not because they “unlocked” some secret part of you, it's just a performative act that you dont mind doing because it makes the moment more fun. Then, you meet your current partner, whom you feel 100% sexually satisfied with so you DON'T need to be performative. Once again, im not going to blame him if they cant recover from this: i just think its more of an indicator of how easily we conflate submissiveness/dominance kinks with actual desire, probably due to certain toxic aspects of our heteronormative society. Like how men tend to conflate size with sexual ability, even though it's always been about the compatibility.
Well that's good to hear. But I'm just saying, literally anybody can develop butt problems, no matter how careful they are. My own issues were completely unrelated to anal play.
Ok so lots of comments about legal action etc. But this is advice on how to help your man. You need to reassure him that what you said was out hot talk in the moment. Then you need to explain in detail why you prefer him. I know that he's not going to believe it. But you have to keep reassuring him. He's hurt because he is thinking how can he measure up. You have to let him know that he is exceeds your ex for these reasons. It can be a long road to heal the damage that has been done, but it's worth it because a man who can get over that is husband material and will please you for the rest of your life. Sit down be open and honest. And make sure you let him know how amazing he makes you feel.
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It’s possible that your relationship is over, unfortunately no one wants to admit it but as a guy if you are not comfortable with your significant other sleeping with other people and then that happens it becomes a tattoo in your head. We have this egotism of thinking we are the only ones that have to satisfy our partner and if that gets taken away from us or we see her being pleasured by someone else (past or present) and we are not “open” to it? It’s a mindfuck. It is very detrimental usually you cannot recover from it. It will be like, you knowing that your boyfriend was head over heels in love with another woman, that emotional connection is a direct “threat” to your relationship whether it is perceived or real. But these are generalisations and every situation is different, I think maybe you taking the initiative and trying to “act” rather than “talk” maybe a good way of going about things, show him you love him, all the best your ex is a piece of shit.
That can definitely make a difference. If she has excess weight down there, she could have a yeast infection in the folds of skin around her legs or the fupa (fat upper pubic area). This can lead to some very bad odors.
Understood, like others said i would take some pain medication (Tylenol, Advil), ice it if that feels good and try to keep pressure off the are (but also im not a doctor). I’m really sorry this happened to you. If it still hurts I would really recommend talking to someone like your parents or maybe even your school nurse. Everyone just wants to help you
I wasn't talking about that comment lmao I literally replied to a different comment
Lol, correct. I actually love TWINE but there are some pretty big holes and a surprising amount of really good twists. It’s second only to GE for the PB era.
oh jeez i really hope this doesnt happen to me, im sorry to hear it took so long to unpack it all, hoping now youre doing better
My pleasure
Seriously? Stealthing is sexual assault. Change that with another form of sexual assault like rape and then who's actually ruining the moment?
I always thought if one of COVID symptoms was permanent penis shrinkage we would have all stayed home and been done with that in 3 weeks
Unfortunately there's nothing you can do. You said it yourself – she has to want to get herself in the mood. There are a lot of ways she could do this a couple times a month to give you a more robust experience in between the maintenance sex. But she wont talk about it, so there no way for you to do anything more. It's not about you; she's not into sex and doesn't want to work on it. She has a great relationship from her point of view! You have to decide how long you are willing to live like this and either accept it or be willing to rock the boat and explain to her that your sex life is not working for YOU. It's not about blame or making anyone feel bad; it's about being a in a mature relationship where you can communicate your needs effectively and your partner will be receptive. Soulmates should be able to talk to each other.
Could you tell us the names of these romance novels, please?
Im not saying all bi women are like this but the ones on reddit say that they are more visually/sexually attracted to women
Not true at all, stop generalising
Dude. You're gonna be such an ass if you're wrong. You really have no proof. Go get a DNA test and then proceed after that.
Ignore the hateful comments, you are perfectly allowed to be frustrated.
Do not marry someone who you are not sexually satisfied with. DO NOT!!! It doesnt matter how much you love them ir how perfect they are in every other way. Being the only initiator and getting turned down constantly will eat away at your self esteem. And the longer you stay, the harder it will be to leave, and the worse the relationship will become. I know it sucks. You saw a certain life with this person. But that life you saw is now gone. It’s not coming back. You are going to have to accept that the options are keep on with this as is it now (actually it will get worse) or break up. Only you can say if this will be what you need in your life. I needed more. I waited way to long before leaving. And went down a dark path before I did.
Don't be the kind of person who participates in betrayal and heartbeak of another person.
What the fuck did I just read…. HONEY. If I'm fucking you, you don't need to ask for consent to do anything else unless it's to choke me. He's in the heat of things and doing what turns him on. So crazy that this made you upset, honestly I fucking laughed. Does he need to ask to grab your breast, finger you, kiss your neck, spank you, kiss your ass cheek while he's fucking you? If you said no to any of those then being upset about him shoving a finger in your ass is dumb. Grow up.
This is not for relationship advice. Try r/teenagers, op.
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