OP have y'all tried toys? My first rec would be a sheath, that way he'd still get to feel something and then possibly keep going, but another fun one would be just getting you off with a rabbit or dildo plus wand, then doing the do after you've already came. Hell, even a strap would work pretty well, if he's willing. I know guys can have a lot of hangups around toys, so if you go this route, just keep helping him understand that toys are teammates, not competition.
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OP have y'all tried toys? My first rec would be a sheath, that way he'd still get to feel something and then possibly keep going, but another fun one would be just getting you off with a rabbit or dildo plus wand, then doing the do after you've already came. Hell, even a strap would work pretty well, if he's willing. I know guys can have a lot of hangups around toys, so if you go this route, just keep helping him understand that toys are teammates, not competition.