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no, refusing to have painfull overstimulation is not “denying pleasure”. Just bc u can cum many times doesnt mean she can. Let people have sex their way.
It doesn't sound like he meant it in a harmful way, it's natural to want to masturbate if you're horny, and he wanted to involve you in the moment after you said you weren't up for sex. However, if you were not in the mood for anything sexual (which is totally understandable, you were sick), then communicating that and leaving the room is the way to stay true to yourself. You're feeling rubbish because you went against your own wishes and “gave in” due to the perceived pressure of the situation. This can be fixed by being honest to yourself and communicating. Just saying “hey I'm sorry but I'm not feeling very sexual today because of being sick, I'm going to let you enjoy yourself and go in the other room ok?” would let you stay true to your wants and needs and communicate to him that you are not rejecting him but simply right now you are not in the headspace to be sexual.
That’s crazy, this is all oddly cool. What about the woman’s part, what’s in them that matches food? There’s a question I never thought I’d ask, can’t help but be curious.
I'm not certain what you're asking about, here. Are you unfair that women can achieve orgasm more frequently than men? File a complaint with evolution; it'll respond in a couple of million years. Seriously, take the W, man! Be fucking PROUD that you can make your woman come multiple times!!!
Of course that’s ok. You own your sexuality and don’t have to conform to anything else
Any chance she wants you to do it so that she can ask for a MMF one and is trying to trick you into it
Well there is enough people in the world, who literally want nothing more out of their life than to be a father/mother and all their accomplishments in life are based on their need to be the best they can be to be capable of providing for a family. The guy just sounds like really wants to have a baby( he loves to babysit, perms talks about babies, even did so as a teen, if you read OP’s comments, it becomes clear that he just wants to have a baby. ) I know several men and women like that and knowing that their partner is infertile would literally end any relationship, regardless of duration.
Yikes. Well I guess in 2 weeks you’ll take a pregnancy test to know.
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Yah, you've trained your body and muscles to trigger an orgasm. You're tense. Practice breathing while you touch yourself and pay attention to the sensations and just relax. It can take like a half hour but once you understand the sensations you'll get better at it.
OP has stated his boundaries. It's amazing how the idea of boundaries evaporates in this subreddit as soon as it's not a woman making them . . .
OP has stated his boundaries. It's amazing how the idea of boundaries evaporates in this subreddit as soon as it's not a woman making them . . .
I can only offer advice based upon my experience. With my girlfriend (now wife) I learned fairly early on that she had raw sex with previous partners. But with my past partners I did that same thing, so we were on even ground. Now at the time, my girlfriend/wife was on the birth control pill. I'm not sure from your original post whether that is the case. I will say, in my experience, that raw sex is really the only worthwhile sex there is. Whenever I even tried to use a condom, I was unsuccessful. The feeling of my bare penis inside a woman's bare vagina was 100 X's better. I was always able to get hard, stay hard, and reach orgasm. However, even if a woman (including my girlfriend/wife) told me she was on birth control I still always pulled out. Really, the only times I came inside was with my wife when we were trying to conceive. You seem very much like me in that you would take the withdrawal method seriously. No slip-ups. No 'just this one time … ' b*llsh*t. Therefore, you should fuck your girlfriend raw, but be resolute about always pulling out before you spooge.
Oh..what kind of material would be good. Ive only used silicone ones and those were really yucky to put in my mouth
So much constructive criticism.. very wow. Thanks for your input.
I love telling my lady how good she tastes. Yum.
I understand what you're saying but i would say we are good at communicating with each other. I made this post exactly because even after i told him what i wanted he just doesn't make the effort. We have been together for 2 years, sex was never a problem in the beginning, and I'm lucky to say he knows how to pleasure me. However, lately he's touching me for like 3 minutes and says he's tired. Like I said, Yes i don't think i should say things like “i want you to want me” that should just happen, i guess. That being said, everything i wrote here, I already told him. We just don't know how to make this work. However, thank you for your reply, i obviously don't think the problem is him, that's something we both have to overcome.
Well dayum! That is some next level freaky shit!
Can I just highlight that sometimes it may be due to low testosterone that causes a knock on effect. My husband is 30 and for years we couldn't figure out why he had ED. Yes his mood was low, he was gaining weight and his sex drive declined. He had all the above and this was because his testosterone was so low. I would definitely recommend asking the doctor to still check your testosterone levels just to rule it out because my husband has taken his first dose of TRT and already I can see a massive difference in his erections, drive performance, mood as well and motivation. He sleeps better too.
This harkens back to our animal ancestry. It is primal and triggers our instinctual sexual senses. It’s not for everybody but makes perfect sense if you look at it contextually from a base instinct POV! It is also something new or out of the norm which can trigger a dopamine response. If your ok with it at it turns him on all the better!
You’re not a bad person. You’re getting out of a situation where you can no longer grow and progress with the other person. It’s better to be happier with other people than to get married & divorced or worse, one of you cheats on the other. Bc nobody deserves that level of pain. I’ll keep you and her in my prayers. Good luck.
The question, should a man be labeled misogynistic for not wanting another man to put his dick inside his women seems quite simple. No. It's a proven fact that sex between a man and a women is emotional because a women is allowing the man to enter her private parts with his. Her being bisexual and doing “sex” with another woman isn't even really sex by definition. At the end of the day a line is crossed when a woman let's a different man enter her for sex other than the man she's with because it opens the flood gates for deep emotions to flow and for an emotional relationship to develop from the sexual one. Or more simply put, no, because women don't have dicks. Or game. Men do.
How about instead of him jerking off after you've had the sex part, why don't you jerk him off instead. That way, it's still part of the sex session. Or suck and jerk him. Have you tried this?
Have you ever had a single positive sexual experience before? I'm so sorry that those assholes took advantage of you.
She no longer sees you as a man. Take advantage of the current situation before you're replaced, and get back on your feet before the separation begins.
Nothing is 100%. Statistically there is a nonzero percent chance of getting pregnant. Meaning that the chances are very small but not zero. Your only guarantee is if you don’t have sex. And depending on your religion, that’s also not 100%. There is an appreciable amount of virgin births in mythology.
My bf and I started out as fwb, but he started doing boyfriend things. He took me to see my favorite bands that aren't actually his taste, bought two electric blankets because I get cold, makes dinner for me every night etc etc. Then the other night he stands me up for a girl he's had a crush on for 10 years because she was having a panic attack. I'm really lost about what to do
This is the answer here. OP, you left yourself wide open for a bunch of people to try their damndest to make you feel like the biggest loser in the universe by assuming that because you're not a 60 minute man she had an awful time and hates you. Whether that's true remains to be seen, but you're young and the lesson here is that regardless of the reasoning, she doesn't want to see you anymore. Take some time, do some stuff you like, don't let it get you too down on yourself, make sure to do some more foreplay, communicate, ask her what she likes and let her guide you. If she doesn't need her partner to be a mind reader she'll appreciate that and it goes a long way, moreso than being able to last long.
Alright, I’m going to be brutally honest. Do NOT do anything you see from porn. Like, cumming in 30 seconds and then pushing your fingers inside of her for a bit isn’t going to cut it. I’ve had good sex and terrible sex, and the thing that set it all apart was how attentive my partner was to me. My boyfriend and I haven’t had actual penetrative sex for the entire year we’ve been together and I’m honest to god having the best sex of my life. He kisses my neck, plays with my breasts, and then either rubs my clit, goes down on me or uses a vibrator. Sometimes all of the above. I swear, his mouth is magic. So yeah, I don’t blame her for ghosting you. Good sex usually comes from knowing the other person and their likes and dislikes. You need to focus on finding a relationship, not just random sex. That’s the way to get better. Otherwise, you’ll continue to have poor performance.
Lol
Nope, just fewer babies
I would rely on a condom, and for much of my life I did. When used consistently and correctly, condoms are highly effective. The likelihood of accidental pregnancy over the course of a year is around 2% with perfect use, and that's a degree of risk that I'm comfortable with. But it sounds like your partner is not comfortable with that level of risk, and wants a backup method. If you don't want to rely on pulling out as your backup method, you should explore other options.
It’s called compulsory heterosexuality.
This is a case by case basis irrelevant of the head
How old are you two?
All the same…if you've had the kids you want or really don't want any…vasectomy is the way to go…I had mine scheduled before my last kid was even born
You should probably start with being honest about the bitchy behaviour and tell her that you can't stand it and see where the talks go from there.
No form of birth control is 100% effective. Also, wearing a condom and taking some sort of contraceptive/having an implant as well doesn't increase the percentage of effectiveness.
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Nope.
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It was so fun😂
“I love the way you ride me.” “Your tits look so beautiful hanging like that.” “Come up here and kiss me, sexy girl.” “You taste so good.” “Good girl, you swallowed every drop.” “I can't resist grabbing your gorgeous ass.” “I want to see your beautiful pussy lips around my cock.”
Sounds like you both had an awesome time.
This is brilliant!
stretch marks-normal. scars-normal. most men won't care. we often fixate on our imperfections. but in the moment, they're not thinking about your scar or your stretch marks
So have him go to the doctor. But yes, he could be cheating. And if you say he isn't, you're mostly trying to convince yourself otherwise.
Is he on anti-depressants? Have there been any other medical changes or issues? Start there. Have him see his doctor for a full check-up including blood work. But yes, he could also be cheating on you.
What? Lol if your relationship is so fragile that it can't get over this dumb thing it's not a stable relationship at all. Yes it was awkward and unpleasant but anyone who thinks that's a big deal isn't ready for marriage.
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That sounds technical as shit. I'll just stick to “Push Harder”
They are not the same. That said, this sub is for seeking advice on your own sex life, not to poll opinions.
Stop paying attention to stupid things you are clearly overthinking it, us men dont care how pussy looks like we just want to eat the shit out of you. As long as your pussy does not smell you are fine.
By God I see what you mean. I wouldn’t say they all smell exactly like that but there is a definite sometimes-barely-perceptible warm bread-ish smell they have in common. Just a few weeks ago my friend and I were talking about how men’s skin can smell like bread when it’s warm. And the smell is more noticeable when the man/tortilla is warm, hence the microwave making the difference! Maybe it’s natural yeast that lives on skin?
I was already face palming until I read your edits. I’m sorry but he sounds horrible sexually. Watched other girls during head AND he doesn’t even give oral? My god
As far as I am concerned, old history matters less the older it is and the longer your current relationship is great. What you did was obviously pretty terrible, but you are the point where destroying a good relationship to atone for an old sin could very well be just for your own benefit and destroy him.
Part of what might explain some of the disparity is that women's arousal tends to be based more in being the object of desire (whereas for men, it's based more on doing the desiring). Watching women being desired and enjoying themselves sexually makes it easier to put yourself in their position.
And if you've got the right head shape, being bald is better than either option. Like, even if I had hair, I'd probably just keep shaving it. Jason Statham? Vin Diesel?
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When in reality, i know that there is nothing abnormal about not wanting to try it after seeing how violent it could be, and having that as an introduction to oral sex. What exactly was your introduction to oral sex? You seem to have developed a fear of it, so it must have been quite negative. What do you picture when you think of oral sex? Your comment puzzles me, because any sexual act can be violent. Oral sex can be violent, but so can PIV, or anal sex, or fingering. You can even kiss someone violently in a way that makes them feel gross and used. I am wondering why you are so afraid of oral sex in particular, more than other sex acts that can be equally violent, like PIV? And i don’t want to accidentally slip under all that misogyny and abuse I think the best way to avoid abuse is to pay attention to relationship cues and red flags. People who are abusive generally don't confine their abuse to the sexual realm. It isn't their interest in a particular sex act that marks them out as abusive; it's the unfair tactics they use to get what they want, sexually and otherwise, at the expense of others. And those tactics are recognizable. Your comments evince a lot of fear, not just of sex, but of relationships and men in general. I hope you will learn to trust your own judgment — by which I mean, trust that you will be able to distinguish healthy love from abuse. If you can trust your own intuitive alarm systems, you won't have to worry that anyone could be an abuser, that at any moment you could “accidentally slip” under their abuse if you're not constantly vigilant, that anyone could turn on you and post revenge porn or leak nudes. Only if you trust your own judgment can you trust your partners, inside the bedroom and out of it.
This sub is not for stuff like this, it's question and answer only. try r/sextips
Watch some pornos together 💭
Very low
Most of them are taken and the single ones I’m too far into friendship with them to see them otherwise and I think they would also feel the same. It’s like a sort of big brother little sister dynamic
Hi! Thanks for reading my post. I think we used plenty of lubricant, and we also had long foreplay sessions to make sure she is very ready. Yet she still felt discomfort. For the record, I did not feel any pain, just pure nervousness and anxiety. Thanks again for replying. Do you know what kind of doctor we should go to? Sex therapy or some others?
I dated a girl with a stinky vagina. I never gathered the courage to tell her, because I knew that she had good hygiene. I was afraid that this was just how it was for her, and so I was afraid of how that realization might hurt her confidence if it was true. I was with her for a few months so it is hard to buy into an infection that wasn't permanent.
I just finished The Best Part Of A Man
bruh chill
It sounds like bacterial vaginosis
Or just a simple sundress. They are soo pretty 🤗
Its human, would be weird if you don’t smell after working out, we all do.
You explained this very well in both responses! It's easy to feel smothered by a partner that does this but often hard to explain it properly sometimes.
You could join the mile high club
Erm… what? You seem utterly conflicted. The word slut is a pejorative and so I can’t help but think you are associating your virginity with a lack of desirability and thus it’s tanking your self esteem. How old are you? Emotionally, it seems like you’re under age. There’s plenty good reasons not to rush into sex. It can mess you up in the head (even more). Virginity should be given, not taken, and not thrown away like some price of garbage.
It will be ok 😉
I had more girls between age of 15 and 18 than I did between 19 and 40.got bad into drugs so I feel like I missed a big part of my life. But there's someone for everyone. You have to improve your attitude no one wants to be around anyone saying their lame and boring. Even if we are nerds some girls love that. You can find them but you have to try and you got to put yourself out there there's no love without loss. Don't take things personal and always try and see thing from other people's point of view. Worse mistake I made was simping for a real pretty girl when I got back out there, there are people out there that will abuse and use you but always follow your gut and listen to friends don't fall for the first girl, you will look for Red flags. Don't love bomb them or put them on a pedestal, you can buy them things don't look weak, don't text essays, you don't have to be cool to act cool. Not sure on your culture and local laws and ethics ect but a sex worker is a option, don't be shy tell them what you want or what you want to learn and get it out of the way. Anyway I feel ya but only you can change this no one is coming to you. I know its cliche but hit the gym, get a hair cut and new clothes put yourself out there feel fresh and confident and don't retreat after the first knock back.
This seems disingenuous. Maybe op is worried about her health. But it seems like the issue is that the smell is unpleasant
No I am not but I also value honesty especially with her. This is why I wanted to share this and get your opinions.
So then you had the answer you wanted already and didn't actually want input? Also the strongest men are ones who aren't afraid of looking feminine. Gender is a made up concept as are traits specific to gender.
Cum bucket? Hoe? These are just your made up terms. They don't say anything other than that you are trying to insult me. Obviously we have different values, the difference is that I'm not delusional enough to think that my values are somehow more meaningful than the values of others.
Did you use protection? Did you ejaculate inside of her. Cause this can be a y’all problem too. Not just a her problem. She might have a reaction to the prophylactic or your semen. Pineapples for both of you maybe restorative but do a little analysis of both of your chemistry separately as well as together.
This makes sense. Thank you for sharing this point.
Absolutely not. I want to get her off, and I'll devote as much time as she needs to give her oral – or to use her toy on her. But I get than orgasm is tough (or impossible) for many (most) women during PIV sex.
My previous wife took over ten years to tell me about her sexual past and likes (loves). Actually I was pissed off that we could have been enjoying these things for years. She kept them to herself thinking I would disapprove of her. She was wrong. I personally wouldn't keep it from partners if asked because that's something that I like to do.
It sounds like he lied to you because it isn’t safe for him to tell you the truth. One the trust is broken I don’t know how to get it back. Personally I would not be in a relationship with someone who disapproves of something I like. I would not give it up and I would not lie to her so it would not work.
Her comment is callous but part of me wonders if your lack of initiative to be proactive and get the medical and mental treatment that you need is actually at the root of her frustration. It sounds like she’s saying “doing something! Anything!”
Get it waxed. It lasts a ton longer than shaving
For real.. texting him to get his penis checked and then never talking to him again simply for a) feeling entitled to sex and b) being aggressive, kind of childish and manipulative about it and c) poor hygiene or disinterest towards his smelly (infected?) genitals and still wanting to push them into your mouth just yuck
any future partners’ sexual health and safety. LOL good one!
I feel like you guys probably have a different love language. Yours definitely seems like it's physical touch since the lack of sex is making her question her love for you. She might not see it this way. Also, stop talking to your fwb that you used to have. Just because you lack something in your relationship doesn't give you a free pass to cheat.
Can you describe specifically or have her describe to you what the pain feels like? Is it concentrated at the vestibule (opening of the vagina), is it throughout the vaginal canal? How was she treated for a yeast infection? Did you wait at least a few weeks after she finished being treated to have sex again? Has the yeast infection completely cleared up? Sex should not hurt for women. She may be dealing with a vaginal pain condition, a.k.a. vulvodynia. I have no idea of her condition, but if her symptoms and experiences align with vulvodynia, she needs to bring that up specifically with her gynecologist to discuss treatment. Vulvodynia is not a specific condition, rather an umbrella term for vaginal pain conditions, which can include vaginismis, vulvar vestibulitis, cyclic vulvitis. In the meantime, do not pressure her for sex. Really get her to understand firstly where her pain is coming from, know how describe it well, look into vulvodynia, and visit her gynecologist. That should be top priority. Again, pain during sex for women is NOT normal. Penetration is not the end all be all. Oral sex is just as fulfilling, and you can explore that in more ways while you wait for a diagnosis from her gynecologist. The whole “at first it was great and then it goes back to hurting”, if she has a chronic vaginal pain condition, could be explained by the overwhelmingly pleasureable feeling of having sex with a new partner for the first time. During these first few times, the pleasure could be so intense that her pain doesn't feel as obvious. It sounds far fetched, but sex endorphins are powerful, especially in new sexual experiences. That doesn't mean sex isn't good anymore after time, but the incredible excitment during the beginning may have died down as she grows more comfortable with her partners, and so now she is more aware of her pain.
This is absolutely a hundred percent normal. Stop worrying about it. Also holy shit at some of these replies. Yikes.
I think this is commonly referred to as ‘booksmart’ But thanks for the input 👍
Big time turn off for a woman to purposely withhold sex for an arbitrary amount of time. I’m in my middle 30s and I know what I want. I don’t have time to play around.
Eh, if you are so am I. I like he's she's and theys and have these thoughts all the time when I see a person I'm attracted to. I just don't stare or eye-hump them disrespectfully or harass them verbally, I notice they're attractive, I notice I want to do sexual things to them, and I move on with my day 😝 I would say if you're not making them feel uncomfortable or harassing them in any way then it's probably normal. We are animals, we just have self control
To all females out there would this bother you? Would it make you laugh out loud and insult me? Would it make you spread rumors about me to your coworkers and friends? Of course not, regardless of your size. Penis size is not that important, and even if it were, few people are as cruel as you fear. Good luck, enjoy yourself!
Cool story, needs more advice seeking. And dragons.
Lol she doesn't know either. She's not a girl whose done alot of masturbation or playing around down there. The little she's done has always used penetration she says
I used to joke with the ex wife i would jump start her period. It happens.
The basic rule for emotional self-preservation are that you only do things that you're glad to be doing, and then never have any regrets afterwards. That means knowing exactly why you're doing things (including but not limited to sexting – in fact it's general rule that you can apply to just about anything that you do in your life, and not just sex things either). Most people don't actively want to hurt other people, and I'm going to assume that you're in that category. That means a certain level of honesty with the guys whom you're sexting. Don't lead guys on with implied promises of things that you wouldn't be able to follow through with. As long as everyone involved is participating with a good level of understanding about what's involved, and what the limits are, then you'll be ok. Also, be aware that you're not the only person sexting, and this is something that the dudes you're sexting to well know. Some or many of them will be sexting with several people at once. Lastly, don't expect people to remember you on Reddit from one day to the next. There is so much volume on subreddits like these that it's virtually impossible – and it's not really the point here to establish lasting communication. If you want to refer to a previous post, you must provide a link to it, and even then most people won't take the time to read previous stuff.
My wife has a history that I won't repeat here even in anonymity. Suffice it to say, we had to find a way to have sex that didn't remind her of the past. Open and honest communication was vitally important when we were trying to figure this out. Having the difficult conversations is what I consider short-term pain for long-term gain. I always recommend having them sooner rather than later so you can stop worrying about them.
“There was no relief after they told you to check their comments and edit.” Not after the first comment, but yes after the second one, after OP answered my questions, can no one here fucking read?? “and, because he is a man.” Maybe because men do this kind of thing purposefully all the time? After OP's comments, I realised this is not the case, which I'm happy for, and even in my original comment I said several times it could be accidental, by saying I hope OP's version is the true one, because only she knows whether it is or not, not any of us. My comment came from a place of genuine concern, and I just can't believe you think I have a terrible mindset for being concerned it might not have been accidental. So fuck all of you who think my comment came from anything else than concern, because I've heard many experiences where this shit was not accidental, and was genuinely worried for OP. And I'm not the only one who was concerned, by the way.
I have actually found a woman stuck in a washer. Her finger got caught between the washer drum and the edge. Her finger was cut up badly and she was crying. Had to pry the drum and take her to the hospital. 0/10, would not recommend