“Sex” doesn't have to be limited to penetration. She might need more time to “warm up to it”. Try letting her be on top….just lay your penis flat against your belly and let her ride it like a banana float. No penetration, but certainly pleasurable for you and her both. Whenever she feels ready to dip the tip, then I'm sure you'll be in a position to accommodate.
What you're talking about is hot and cold cognition. The way we think and reason can change based on our mental state, and arousal. By arousal, this could mean, fear, anger, or sexual.
Ok sorry about the cheeky-ness lol but my point was when guys ask this question they don't even realize that they're looking for reassurance themselves, and when you consider the fact that most men are conditioned to not show vulnerability at all. It means quite a lot when they ask this, I'm sure you don't know dudes who walk around giving just anyone the opportunity to completely crush them
How is any of this your business to care one way or the other? If you have a problem with a female friend of your exploring her own sexuality then you have 2 options. 1.). Tell her that’s TMI for your friendship with her or 2.) End your friendship. But you don’t have any right to sit back in your judgment and determine how you should feel about this, when her actions never affected you.
“Sex” doesn't have to be limited to penetration. She might need more time to “warm up to it”. Try letting her be on top….just lay your penis flat against your belly and let her ride it like a banana float. No penetration, but certainly pleasurable for you and her both. Whenever she feels ready to dip the tip, then I'm sure you'll be in a position to accommodate.
What you're talking about is hot and cold cognition. The way we think and reason can change based on our mental state, and arousal. By arousal, this could mean, fear, anger, or sexual.
Ok sorry about the cheeky-ness lol but my point was when guys ask this question they don't even realize that they're looking for reassurance themselves, and when you consider the fact that most men are conditioned to not show vulnerability at all. It means quite a lot when they ask this, I'm sure you don't know dudes who walk around giving just anyone the opportunity to completely crush them
Thank you. Someone understands what I'm asking! Genuinely helpful thank you
How is any of this your business to care one way or the other? If you have a problem with a female friend of your exploring her own sexuality then you have 2 options. 1.). Tell her that’s TMI for your friendship with her or 2.) End your friendship. But you don’t have any right to sit back in your judgment and determine how you should feel about this, when her actions never affected you.