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Yeah definitely not the odds I will take but it helps knowing that itβs probably unlikely.
Hope everything is okay. Your confusion is normal, don't be ashamed of how you feel. However, what happened is NOT okay. What matters most right now is that you know your worth. You deserve better. You deserve to be happy and you can find that in yourself. I don't believe what you are feeling is love. You are attached to what you know and the idea of love. I recommend by starting to focus on yourself, focus on loving yourself. When you love yourself you will realize that you deserve better, can do better and will wonder what you were thinking. Hate telling others what to do but in this case… you should definitely exit the relationship. You will one day get in a healthy relationship and see what love really is. Recommended read: “Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends On It” by Kamal Ravikant Much love,
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Thanks for the advice!
LEAVE HIM there is nothing you can do to change your anatomy and there is nothing to be changed it is completely normal for your vagina to he that way during sex. He should take it as a compliment!! Smh. But he is not a good guy love. You deserve better fr.
You could stop taking it and find out if the blood pressure falls.
and then you commit to carrying out This is where I'm making a mistake. I never carry out the response. And that's going to change.
Happend many times, After we had children. She engage in promises, accepts, I help her, put children asleep and she sleeps also. She even made me feel stupid for being so stubborn. What I found is that she can have a mood when she promised, but another situation at night. Things got better after 14 years.
Thanks for sharing your experience! I will keep your points in mind!
There is being honest and then there is being brutally honest. A simple “yes” would have been enough but OP took it way further.
5 timesβ¦. He knows you arenβt going to leave him so thereβs no reason to stop. Thereβs no consequences. It would be a good idea to find someone who respects you. This guy doesnβt t
Usually the only reason why a dude in a marriage is masturbating to that degree is that he's not getting the amount or quality of sex he desires. Why he hides it is usually because he knows how it makes you feel but he's not going to chop his nuts off so he still has a sex drive and with how easy it is nowadays to find stimuli, he has a solution to the lack of sex from you without cheating on you. So you can either work on providing him more or better sex yourself, you can look past the porn and masturbation if you can't bring yourself to fuck him more but also don't want him cheating on you, or you really crawl up his asshole preventing him from getting any other release at home until it drives home over the edge and he either fucks another woman or is finding some weird place to masturbate like the car. But it all depends on how you're going to proceed.
There is actually a quite entertaining netflix serie “How to build a sex room” that you might perceive as fun to watch together. It is not intimidating as a woman too watch and can be inspirational since they meet with all types of couples, incl a polyam. family. They go though all types of fetish.
And that is totally fine, but just make sure you let him know. It is hard for the other person to guess or assume how and what you're feeling when he tells you things. So please let him know, let him know that you want to believe him but you are having doubt sometimes, make it clear that it is not due to something that he did or did not do but rather it is just hard for you to do it right away. But re-assure him that he is doing enough and just fine the way he is to avoid any confusion or doubts on his end. Do tell him that you just need a little more convincing from time to time due to past fear and traumas. Tell him that it may be something that you cannot control, for now, but you are constantly working on yourself. Ask him for his support and understanding, tell him that you want to be better for yourself so that you can give more to your relationship and eventually become an even better partner for him. It is a two-way street after all, the more you improve yourself the better partner you become and hopefully it reciprocates throughout the relationship.
How do you tell if a man lost his virginity? Medically speaking.
Blue balls really are terrible.
Married too young, grew apart, and are better off as friends. The open relationship DID contribute to it failing but wasn't the only reason.
From a males perspective putting your hands on he's head isn't a bad move trust me. And like others have commented don't worry about the sounds your making only moan with pleasure when it feels right for you.
That night made me realize he's selfish in bed and he doesn't notice if I'm not enjoying it and then I just wasn't attracted to him after that. Yeah, it's hard to come back from that. And it's also hard to bring it up to talk about it earlier on. It's a difficult situation.
Upvoted for good music taste in username. Still think it's a shitty thing, but your house, your rules.
I'll admit I didn't handle my situation the best, when I got sick of sucking his dick I didn't set a firm enough boundary about it and ended up giving him a really unenthusiastic blowjob that I didn't enjoy at all. I told him I wasn't really feeling it but I'd do it a little and I just meant so he could get hard to have sex with me and he took it as it's ok to cum from it as long as it doesn't take a long time. That night made me realize he's selfish in bed and he doesn't notice if I'm not enjoying it and then I just wasn't attracted to him after that.
Hmm, I'd remove the gender from this and call it a pleasure fetish. Also, if yall do this, be aware of the bi-panic that may happen for her and encourage her to enjoy.
I guess you can be friends with guys and have sex with the ladies. Hopefully, at some time with some person, you'll experience an emotional connection and sexual attraction.
i thought that the bible was against pre-marital sex and gay sex?
I think that they can go and pound sand. You don't have to justify what you like. Ever. And even acting on those preferences does not require explanations as long as you stay within social conduct limits. You know, things like consent and not involving people not wanting to be directly involved. Among willing adult partners, drive over each other with hay balers for all i care. I have several kinks of my own. I like them. A lot. I don't involve people not willing and i do not care what people from sidelines think. I advise you to do the same.
You are not weird. I think saying what you said here should do the trick. Just don't put too much of a burden of expectation on him, that way he will just do as much as he comfortably can.
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Tell him to pull out and c\um then put it right back in and keep going, he should have no problem with that.
Think of the number of men you have slept with, get a ruler and mark out 5 or 5.5 inches and hand on heart how many or what % of men fell into that range? I would say less than 20%. A woman not being happy with a guy being 5 inches is not a size queen in my opinion
You're doing the Lord's work
I have the creeping suspicion I'm never going to have better sex than I did in a relationship from like 21 to 23 years old because the woman was just insatiable. I felt desired and sexy in a way most men are never going to. Breathless compliments during and after sex, active initiation, casual flirting. All of these made our time together feel sexually tense and emotionally stimulating in a way no one has been able to replicate.
Love Bellesa. They have cute little series sometimes, too in the “plus” subscription.
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It's unlikely her porn habit has anything to do with the frequency of your sex. It merits some open communication about frequency, her libido versus your own, and anything else you might be able to do to spice it up.
After my wife died, I figured out that desire is the antidote to despair. The worse I felt missing her, the more I wanted to intensely desire someone else. It didn't work out for me I think because I'm basically a hermit and didn't have anybody within my universe that I can focus on. Your universe is limited by the time and focus you need to place on your children. But I hope something works out organically for you. You can't just force that shit.
Maybe u call me on days your not up to it..and sit back and watch
You're being very generous with that word “many”. Do you actually know how many women have experienced that relative to the women who haven't?
I frankly disagree and the way she came onto him screams premeditated. Itβs gross and I would never accept that behavior from a partner, i also think itβs pretty disingenuous, since she didnβt say that, she said βI have a surprise for you. Itβs not just the fact that she was commando, itβs every aspect of this story together, that makes me come to that conclusion. Your stale attempt at playing devils advocate is old and uninteresting. If it was my partner I would have a serious talk about consent and expect an apology. Itβs not appropriate behavior.
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This. Nothing abnormal here. BUT, if he just wants to bang one out sometimes and not worry about you, that should be OK. As long as itβs not a majority of the time and you donβt feel neglected. Quickies are a thing and heβs not a selfish monster for wanting them. That being said, OPs needs are not excessive in any way.
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I usually like a 3-10 year gap personally. 5-8 probably being the sweet spot.
I usually like a 3-10 year gap personally. 5-8 probably being the sweet spot.
There's a lot of reasons why. Maybe they're a conservative Christian traditional couple and she feels like it's her “role” to please him and shes starting to get fed up. Maybe in the beginning sex was great until it wasn't. Or maybe she felt like there wasn't a lot of options and just married him as a better option than what she's encountered. Maybe she doesn't have a good sense of self worth and poor self esteem issues. We don't know.
If he thinks lying to you about something as important as your sexual health, what else does he think so casually about?