I do occasionally deal with this, it has nothing to do with attractiveness, or that you're doing it “wrong”, for me there's just no “build up”, like it feels great, but no impending orgasm feeling, and it just stays that way no matter what the “action” is.
You havenβt lived until the person youβre with will lick every inch of you vagina, nipples bum hole and all. Purely because they fucking adore every bit of your body and have a natural raw attraction mmmmm itβs to die for
Yeast infections smell exactly like Pizza Hut breadsticks to me. Itβs sucks knowing itβs actually a problem rather than a surprise order of stix between her legs.
To answer your first point. She doesnβt say anything until after. When I tell her that she either continues making the noises she was or she does them a little louder. She seems hesitant to, Iβve asked her about it and it just grinds down to self consciousness. We werenβt always living on our own so typically weβd fuck when someone was somewhere in the house. Only recently have I started making enough money to not have roommates. So I feel like she just hasnβt gotten used to it. As for the second point. Youβre right. She says Iβm great at it and I do everything exactly right for her. But by stars aligned I mean it as such: she has to be shaved, completely wet, not feeling bloated or βugly,β not somewhat stimulated already, etc. There is nothing I can do to set perfect conditions, the conditions are already pre-set before anything happens. Iβve tried asking to mix things up. As far as that goes is some new position. Picking her up, against a wall, on the couch. However she is a very vanilla person so getting her to do anything courageous that doesnβt go against her self consciousness would typically come from me. βWeβve had a long drive, can you suck my dick on our way home?β βI got some toys for you.β Sheβs very much into being submissive and wants me to make the choices for her, however I donβt just do things without running them by her first because I donβt want to hurt her or make her do something that wouldnβt make her feel comfortable.
oh trust me, i donβt do any hookups (or anything with men at all for that matter since my last ex) and honestly i think iβm just too insecure for anything. i feel like just trying to get me to finish would just be embarrassing on my end
God, she does not love you as you do to her. You deeply fall in love with her, that's so sad to see she wants threesome. Leave her as you can, or she will leave you eventually and your heart will be broken even more shattered
Yeah I guess that might also be the case. There are many things you can come up with without sounding creepy though, he could have made an effort (admitting he was ok with the picture and liked it in the first place)
Its really hard to stop from cumming when is time. You can have a talk with him and ask him to continue fucking after cumming, just be extra dirty and sexy usually for me that keeps me going for a second and third load with out stoping. And also practice edging with him, that will make him last longer and to control when he cums
You saw the red flag for what it was. Congratulations, and I mean that sincerely. Many men cannot see red flags. You dodged a bullet, IMO. The right sex partner will get to know you and will be okay with dry spells and inexperience. She obviously is not. She is going to end up with guys who are experienced and who have had sex recently but who may be selfish. She probably is not going to text you back. But if she does, tell her that you thought it over and need someone who is not judgmental, that you would not be judgmental of issues a woman has, and she is not the right one for you. In other words, reject HER.
Yes, this… have had some instances where my wife and I were flirting and stuff during the day (we work together) and couldn't wait to get home and ended up having sex at work.. lol.
Then the damage began since you are contemplating about not sharing the great experience with him. The thought of lying and deceit has began. You think you are immune but you are already demonstrating what a cheater usually does.
Having an erection doesnβt always means a guy wants to have sex. For me personally, sex can be quite exhausting if it turns into an hour + session and sometimes youβre just not in the mood for that. Especially if you just wake up and have other things to do in the morning as well.
It's your choice. As a guy in this situation I would prefer to know the boundaries set at the sart instead of exploring and potentially crossing them or at least making the girl feel unconfortable.
Rape. Let's say it with all it's letters. I would also say that the entire picture should be analyse by a court room. But it definitely sounds as something that deserves to be examined by lawyers.
I can't stress this enough: There is no such thing as accidental anal. As a man, you are immediately able to tell the difference whether you're knocking at the V-door or at the backdoor
Iβve never said anything and heβs never asked. I donβt really think thatβs important. I said enough so that we went slow and he was sure to check in with me at each new step so that I was comfortable with everything. I think thatβs important with any new partner anyway.
Wait a minute…. You are a Gamer Girlβ€β€ Well, just this one thing alone makes you super attractive for me.. Screw others, i am yoursπ
I do occasionally deal with this, it has nothing to do with attractiveness, or that you're doing it “wrong”, for me there's just no “build up”, like it feels great, but no impending orgasm feeling, and it just stays that way no matter what the “action” is.
You havenβt lived until the person youβre with will lick every inch of you vagina, nipples bum hole and all. Purely because they fucking adore every bit of your body and have a natural raw attraction mmmmm itβs to die for
You understand it well, itβs his insecurity. What does he want less interesting sex , so his ego wonβt get bruised ?
Yeast infections smell exactly like Pizza Hut breadsticks to me. Itβs sucks knowing itβs actually a problem rather than a surprise order of stix between her legs.
such a beta move
A significant chunk of the submissions on this subreddit are fantasies or people trying to spread their kinks / fetishes.
To answer your first point. She doesnβt say anything until after. When I tell her that she either continues making the noises she was or she does them a little louder. She seems hesitant to, Iβve asked her about it and it just grinds down to self consciousness. We werenβt always living on our own so typically weβd fuck when someone was somewhere in the house. Only recently have I started making enough money to not have roommates. So I feel like she just hasnβt gotten used to it. As for the second point. Youβre right. She says Iβm great at it and I do everything exactly right for her. But by stars aligned I mean it as such: she has to be shaved, completely wet, not feeling bloated or βugly,β not somewhat stimulated already, etc. There is nothing I can do to set perfect conditions, the conditions are already pre-set before anything happens. Iβve tried asking to mix things up. As far as that goes is some new position. Picking her up, against a wall, on the couch. However she is a very vanilla person so getting her to do anything courageous that doesnβt go against her self consciousness would typically come from me. βWeβve had a long drive, can you suck my dick on our way home?β βI got some toys for you.β Sheβs very much into being submissive and wants me to make the choices for her, however I donβt just do things without running them by her first because I donβt want to hurt her or make her do something that wouldnβt make her feel comfortable.
oh trust me, i donβt do any hookups (or anything with men at all for that matter since my last ex) and honestly i think iβm just too insecure for anything. i feel like just trying to get me to finish would just be embarrassing on my end
God, she does not love you as you do to her. You deeply fall in love with her, that's so sad to see she wants threesome. Leave her as you can, or she will leave you eventually and your heart will be broken even more shattered
You vagina is designed to fit a baby's head. It is just a question of relaxation.
π
Yeah I guess that might also be the case. There are many things you can come up with without sounding creepy though, he could have made an effort (admitting he was ok with the picture and liked it in the first place)
Its really hard to stop from cumming when is time. You can have a talk with him and ask him to continue fucking after cumming, just be extra dirty and sexy usually for me that keeps me going for a second and third load with out stoping. And also practice edging with him, that will make him last longer and to control when he cums
You saw the red flag for what it was. Congratulations, and I mean that sincerely. Many men cannot see red flags. You dodged a bullet, IMO. The right sex partner will get to know you and will be okay with dry spells and inexperience. She obviously is not. She is going to end up with guys who are experienced and who have had sex recently but who may be selfish. She probably is not going to text you back. But if she does, tell her that you thought it over and need someone who is not judgmental, that you would not be judgmental of issues a woman has, and she is not the right one for you. In other words, reject HER.
Yes, this… have had some instances where my wife and I were flirting and stuff during the day (we work together) and couldn't wait to get home and ended up having sex at work.. lol.
Then the damage began since you are contemplating about not sharing the great experience with him. The thought of lying and deceit has began. You think you are immune but you are already demonstrating what a cheater usually does.
My answer to “do you want a blowjob?” Would be “can I go down on you first?” Because me licking her gets me harder than anything….
Having an erection doesnβt always means a guy wants to have sex. For me personally, sex can be quite exhausting if it turns into an hour + session and sometimes youβre just not in the mood for that. Especially if you just wake up and have other things to do in the morning as well.
Wear a gas mask next time, she will love it, I promise
It's your choice. As a guy in this situation I would prefer to know the boundaries set at the sart instead of exploring and potentially crossing them or at least making the girl feel unconfortable.
Way to gooo
what?? β never heard of this.
Rape. Let's say it with all it's letters. I would also say that the entire picture should be analyse by a court room. But it definitely sounds as something that deserves to be examined by lawyers.
I can't stress this enough: There is no such thing as accidental anal. As a man, you are immediately able to tell the difference whether you're knocking at the V-door or at the backdoor
Iβve never said anything and heβs never asked. I donβt really think thatβs important. I said enough so that we went slow and he was sure to check in with me at each new step so that I was comfortable with everything. I think thatβs important with any new partner anyway.
Alright that is an amazing document π
So your both bigger, whatβs the deal
Stop using a vibrator as often. Iβm makes it hard to cum from βnon vibrator useβ or use a low low setting