Donāt start with a lot of pressure. Just a little bit of pressure and make sure your tongue isnāt pointy. Use the flat part first and then slowly use more pressure.
Next time you feel like you have to puke, donāt pull back and let it go all over him. Maybe heāll understand at that point. He most likely has a porn addiction and learned that shoving his entire dick down your throat is normal. Itās NOT! Set your boundaries and if he canāt deal with it, find someone else who will respect you. Thereās plenty of guys out there who will.
Did I say it would be ok for her to feel he was ādisgustingā if he asked for FFM after a MFM? Pretty sure I didnāt. This isnāt about their genders, itās about saying one person having sex with a third partner is ok but the other partner wanting to have sex with a different third person is disgusting. But go off š¤·āāļø I would say the same thing if it were two women or two men. Itās the hypocrisy of āI can fuck someone else, but if you want to do that then I canāt even look at you the sameā.
Iām ashamed to say, I do have sex on my period and itās not a fetish for either of us. We just donāt go without sex for more than a day. Therefore a week break is impossible. It can be a messy affair, have a towel, a condom and tissues ready
This is a risk u should be willing to take if u wanna got to the back door and tbh I wouldnāt care prolly would do immediately jump in a shower but I wouldnāt mind. Prolly will forget sbt it the next day lol
Height has nothing to do with strength. Give it a go, talk about it. Tell him what your needs are and let him tell about his. I know someone that is 5'4 and is absolutly stronger.
Firstly, I'm so sorry you experienced what you had in your childhood. Secondly, nothing is wrong with you. Bodies come in all different shapes and sizes. It's an extremely shameful comment made by your partner. No amount of “nice remarks” balance that out. I'm glad you have a happy relationship outside of this comment but perhaps the anger would subside if you explained how hurtful that comment was to you.
Iām betting Iām similar to your husband. Sometimes I like being dominant, other times I like her to run the show (so to speak). What I mean by that is I want to know she wants it and let her tell me if this or that is OK. It doesnāt help that my āthingā is women orgasming. I go from 2 to 11 in libido when the woman gets off so I almost always try to take care of her first. I have no idea why Iām like this but I just really really get turned on by women getting off. That makes it challenging for me to dominate and use a partner when they ask. I care far more about them getting off than me. Plus it feels weirdly non consensual to demand a blowjob or whatever. Hereās what I would recommend. Make it a role play situation where he gets to act out a part that requires him to be dominant. Cop/criminal or whatever floats your boat. Show and tell him how much youāre enjoying it and when youāre all done tell him you want to do that again. Do it a few times and ātrainā him that itās something youād like regularly.
My ex boyfriend somehow used to find the right spot every time, snd would thrust 3 of his fingers in while also fingering my ass and slightly pressing the side that attaches to my V. Worked every time!!
My wife and I have a larger gap than you two. In public felt a little odd at first as everyone assumes she was my daughter. What mattered is us and we quickly got over everyone else's judgement. Been together for over 5 years and married for 2 1/2. For reference, 55M and 31F so 24 years apart.
I wanted sex after I put my dog down. Sometimes it helps people grieve, youāre allowed to feel how you feel. She likely had good intentions and didnāt deserve to be yelled at, but youāre valid in not wanting intimacy while mourning. Sorry for your loss.
What do you mean by that because my gf doesn't use birth control so there has to be at least some cleanup
Donāt start with a lot of pressure. Just a little bit of pressure and make sure your tongue isnāt pointy. Use the flat part first and then slowly use more pressure.
Next time you feel like you have to puke, donāt pull back and let it go all over him. Maybe heāll understand at that point. He most likely has a porn addiction and learned that shoving his entire dick down your throat is normal. Itās NOT! Set your boundaries and if he canāt deal with it, find someone else who will respect you. Thereās plenty of guys out there who will.
Just donāt say it Even if you only associate it a little bit with your dad, itās weird
Did I say it would be ok for her to feel he was ādisgustingā if he asked for FFM after a MFM? Pretty sure I didnāt. This isnāt about their genders, itās about saying one person having sex with a third partner is ok but the other partner wanting to have sex with a different third person is disgusting. But go off š¤·āāļø I would say the same thing if it were two women or two men. Itās the hypocrisy of āI can fuck someone else, but if you want to do that then I canāt even look at you the sameā.
Iām ashamed to say, I do have sex on my period and itās not a fetish for either of us. We just donāt go without sex for more than a day. Therefore a week break is impossible. It can be a messy affair, have a towel, a condom and tissues ready
Make it a point to have an Orgasm not too long before going to sleep. That helps me anyway, whether its from sex and self induced it's a bonus.
This is a risk u should be willing to take if u wanna got to the back door and tbh I wouldnāt care prolly would do immediately jump in a shower but I wouldnāt mind. Prolly will forget sbt it the next day lol
But it sounds likr you were up front with it….
r/prostateplay is a good place for help
Height has nothing to do with strength. Give it a go, talk about it. Tell him what your needs are and let him tell about his. I know someone that is 5'4 and is absolutly stronger.
Firstly, I'm so sorry you experienced what you had in your childhood. Secondly, nothing is wrong with you. Bodies come in all different shapes and sizes. It's an extremely shameful comment made by your partner. No amount of “nice remarks” balance that out. I'm glad you have a happy relationship outside of this comment but perhaps the anger would subside if you explained how hurtful that comment was to you.
Iām betting Iām similar to your husband. Sometimes I like being dominant, other times I like her to run the show (so to speak). What I mean by that is I want to know she wants it and let her tell me if this or that is OK. It doesnāt help that my āthingā is women orgasming. I go from 2 to 11 in libido when the woman gets off so I almost always try to take care of her first. I have no idea why Iām like this but I just really really get turned on by women getting off. That makes it challenging for me to dominate and use a partner when they ask. I care far more about them getting off than me. Plus it feels weirdly non consensual to demand a blowjob or whatever. Hereās what I would recommend. Make it a role play situation where he gets to act out a part that requires him to be dominant. Cop/criminal or whatever floats your boat. Show and tell him how much youāre enjoying it and when youāre all done tell him you want to do that again. Do it a few times and ātrainā him that itās something youād like regularly.
My ex boyfriend somehow used to find the right spot every time, snd would thrust 3 of his fingers in while also fingering my ass and slightly pressing the side that attaches to my V. Worked every time!!
I think he's manipulating you and that he and his friend are using you for sex.
I think he's manipulating you and that he and his friend are using you for sex.
My wife and I have a larger gap than you two. In public felt a little odd at first as everyone assumes she was my daughter. What mattered is us and we quickly got over everyone else's judgement. Been together for over 5 years and married for 2 1/2. For reference, 55M and 31F so 24 years apart.
it's like a sneeze that comes from your crotch. except instead of sneezing your crotch turns into electrified honey
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I wanted sex after I put my dog down. Sometimes it helps people grieve, youāre allowed to feel how you feel. She likely had good intentions and didnāt deserve to be yelled at, but youāre valid in not wanting intimacy while mourning. Sorry for your loss.
Imdont think your being toxic at all, it's very rational to be uncomfortable with a number like that. I personally would as well.
Hope this isnāt a catfish for your sake, and if itās not I bet she eats you alive. Report back so we know your safe.