A good foreplay is very important. Also the vagina only produces the liquid to a certain extent. And because of too much stimulation it tends to become dry but we sometimes don’t realise that which leads to soreness. Use lubes always it will keep it wet and smooth and you can go on for hours.
Like someone else said, you're in for it keeping his confidence. There's cock rings with sleeve portions and full sleeves… Thanks to the magic of Reddit, this sub exists: https://www.reddit.com/r/PenisSleeve/ A visit to a competent sex shop can help you look around for fun stuff, and just toss one in the bag. Staff are trained to discuss items in detail and very professionally. Visit a couple of times, get unrelated stuff, say 'hi' to the staff and then work your way to the toys.
Actually, phrasing it as being a “role” sounds like it could work. I might have to try and talk to him more about roleplay, because it’s something we’ve done in the past, but it’s always me pretending lol. I think maybe he’s just nervous about whether or not he’ll be good at being dominant. Like he knows it’s something I want, but he hasn’t really done it before, so he doesn’t want to disappoint me. I’ll bring up the roleplay suggestion the next time we talk about it! Thanks for the advice
The epididymis holds mature sperm prior to ejaculation. I’m not exactly sure about swelling, but it seems reasonable. If you feel pain, then you should consult a doctor. No harm in that.
Thank god I’m from a different generation! i grew up in the 80’s so no online anything. I would find it terribly confusing and impossible to navigate this new reality. I am sorry this happened to you but unfortunately I would imagine it’s pretty common as sexual attraction includes more than just looks and is impossible to ascertain without being face to face. I will say you dodged bullett if this guy was that shallow and rude!
First of all, you both enjoy it, so don’t overthink why. Many people are into dominance/submission, bondage/pain, degrading/humiliation, etc, and that doesn’t make them bad people as long as it’s done safely and consensually. Second, he almost certainly won’t think less of you, he is clearly into it and almost certainly appreciates and admires your enthusiasm for an activity that most men can’t get enough of (oral generally, but also throatfucking specifically).
Well she used to babysit me growing up. I called her aunty until I was about 10. I remember sleeping in her bed when I was really young.(under 3 or 4) I always had an attraction to her before I understood what sex was. To this day she is the ideal women to me. She was in her 40s, about 5.6”5.7” brown hair, brown eyes, glasses, mombod, and Thicker at the hips. She was angry with me. Said she would tell my mom and sent me off. But she never said anything. It got weird after that. Lol
Eh, we’re all adults. Don’t tell me to do what I want if it isn’t what you mean. Especially, when I know you want me to do what you want, yet I don’t know what that thing is. We should use our words. I think some people are missing the expectation of mind reading at play here. It’s not obvious what anyone means by that because everyone is different. Not everyone is into spanking, domination, etc. It’s easier to just ask for what you want.
I’ve brought it up before. That made her shut down too. I’m not entirely sure why but I suspect she thinks we don’t need it. But that’s just my best guess given what I know about her
You should read “Come As You Are” by Emily Nagoski. It’s all about healthier paradigms for how we think about arrousal and different libido types. Helped my wife and I a lot.
This happens to me pretty much every first time with a new woman. It's not ED. It's nerves. My suggestion is to start simple. Like, start with handjobs, then go over to oral a couple of times and then you go to penetration. Also avoid porn at literally all costs.
A good foreplay is very important. Also the vagina only produces the liquid to a certain extent. And because of too much stimulation it tends to become dry but we sometimes don’t realise that which leads to soreness. Use lubes always it will keep it wet and smooth and you can go on for hours.
Like someone else said, you're in for it keeping his confidence. There's cock rings with sleeve portions and full sleeves… Thanks to the magic of Reddit, this sub exists: https://www.reddit.com/r/PenisSleeve/ A visit to a competent sex shop can help you look around for fun stuff, and just toss one in the bag. Staff are trained to discuss items in detail and very professionally. Visit a couple of times, get unrelated stuff, say 'hi' to the staff and then work your way to the toys.
Actually, phrasing it as being a “role” sounds like it could work. I might have to try and talk to him more about roleplay, because it’s something we’ve done in the past, but it’s always me pretending lol. I think maybe he’s just nervous about whether or not he’ll be good at being dominant. Like he knows it’s something I want, but he hasn’t really done it before, so he doesn’t want to disappoint me. I’ll bring up the roleplay suggestion the next time we talk about it! Thanks for the advice
No clue but I bet she pisses/farts it out when she runs to the bathroom after the deed lol
I doubt he was in the kink scene. We are pretty hardcore on consent and protection
The epididymis holds mature sperm prior to ejaculation. I’m not exactly sure about swelling, but it seems reasonable. If you feel pain, then you should consult a doctor. No harm in that.
Thank god I’m from a different generation! i grew up in the 80’s so no online anything. I would find it terribly confusing and impossible to navigate this new reality. I am sorry this happened to you but unfortunately I would imagine it’s pretty common as sexual attraction includes more than just looks and is impossible to ascertain without being face to face. I will say you dodged bullett if this guy was that shallow and rude!
First of all, you both enjoy it, so don’t overthink why. Many people are into dominance/submission, bondage/pain, degrading/humiliation, etc, and that doesn’t make them bad people as long as it’s done safely and consensually. Second, he almost certainly won’t think less of you, he is clearly into it and almost certainly appreciates and admires your enthusiasm for an activity that most men can’t get enough of (oral generally, but also throatfucking specifically).
Well she used to babysit me growing up. I called her aunty until I was about 10. I remember sleeping in her bed when I was really young.(under 3 or 4) I always had an attraction to her before I understood what sex was. To this day she is the ideal women to me. She was in her 40s, about 5.6”5.7” brown hair, brown eyes, glasses, mombod, and Thicker at the hips. She was angry with me. Said she would tell my mom and sent me off. But she never said anything. It got weird after that. Lol
Eh, we’re all adults. Don’t tell me to do what I want if it isn’t what you mean. Especially, when I know you want me to do what you want, yet I don’t know what that thing is. We should use our words. I think some people are missing the expectation of mind reading at play here. It’s not obvious what anyone means by that because everyone is different. Not everyone is into spanking, domination, etc. It’s easier to just ask for what you want.
He probably watches a lot on anal porn where there is no mess. He was not ready for reality
You want faster? I can go faster. You want harder? I can go harder. You want deeper? I can get philosophical.
Doesn't matter what color you are as long as your enjoying everything. I certainly wouldn't be turned off. More the opposite
Ummm. I enjoy getting my pussy slapped. But you're right on the money with the rest of the list.
I’ve brought it up before. That made her shut down too. I’m not entirely sure why but I suspect she thinks we don’t need it. But that’s just my best guess given what I know about her
You should read “Come As You Are” by Emily Nagoski. It’s all about healthier paradigms for how we think about arrousal and different libido types. Helped my wife and I a lot.
What's the average age for womennwhen they reach that? Like 50?
Do you live in a populated area?
This happens to me pretty much every first time with a new woman. It's not ED. It's nerves. My suggestion is to start simple. Like, start with handjobs, then go over to oral a couple of times and then you go to penetration. Also avoid porn at literally all costs.
How else then are you going to live your life? Will it be lawless and void of meaning