You could put them in a specific drawer of a dresser, normally guests aren't going to be opening your dresser so it's a reasonable place to keep them without them being forgotten
I was actually surprised how loose it was!!! I didn't feel much with a condom on! And she was a mid teens girl! She wasn't a virgin even if she was a few years younger than me, but it wasn't like she had had tons of sex. But just goes to show, every vagina is different!
There’s an approach to topping and being dominate called gentle topping or being a pleasure Dom. I’m very similar to you, I’m a 6’5” teddy bear and darn it, I want to spoon and go down on my partner. I’ve ended up with several women recently who are very subby, even liking things kinda rough. So being firm and learning to take what I want from them. Want to eat her out? Hold her down firmly on your way there. Put her in the position you want. Want to just make out for a while? Put the size difference to work to gently get firmly hold her in place, or tease her, and say “I’m going to hold you and kiss you until I’m ready to fuck you.” And it can totally be sweet and snuggly but you establish that you’re in charge. In fact I had almost the exact scenario of a partner saying to me, “I’ll do whatever you want” and my ADHD brain froze, so I defaulted to “I need to spoon you, now!” We proceeded to snuggle and cuddle until that spooning cuddle turned into a spooning fuck. This has taken me a lot of work to find ways to integrate the dominate top with my gentle snuggly teddy bear default. A lot of work and partners with lots of trust. It’s been a really rewarding process tho. I’ve gotten way better at expressing what I want and need and trusting that my partner wants to give that to me. I’ve also learned that part of being a generous lover is to learn how to give my partner what they need, which means that sometimes this teddy bear has to get firm, hungry, in charge, and growly.
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Honestly, nobody in your family or friends circle did make a comment about this and warn you, OP? I'm 42 and when I see 19 yo's, sorry, but they are just kids in my eyes. Hope the 19 yo's here don't take offense in it, but that age gap is huge.
First time I got spitroasted, I literally came within 2 mins… I spent 2 year's training with dildos. Getting stuffed with 2 cocks, makes my legs trembling. Even to this day. Point is, you were part of it. Unless she has fantasies of fucking bulls while you being cucked, then you've probably had a BIGpart too. Be happy for her and let her fuck more guys. your sex life will thank you for it.
‘it’ll come out on its own during the after sex pee’ kind of thing? Some will come out when you pee, some won't, but there isn't anything you really need to do about it. Other than his coming inside you, there won't be much of a difference.
No one can answer if a celibacy pact was good or not, but the thing that people can for sure say is that you need to be more selective about the people you sleep. You said you had gotten out of an toxic relationship, so it was a big mistake to interact with another toxic person (someone who doesn’t respect your protection boundaries)
I met my lover on Feeld 🥰
So I should stop being friendly? Am I giving a wrong impression to him? Don't you think he's just friendly?
You could put them in a specific drawer of a dresser, normally guests aren't going to be opening your dresser so it's a reasonable place to keep them without them being forgotten
It's gross we have tried it. It smells and it's messy. I can wait a few day thanks.
Yeah! This! He literally could not care less. I'm pissed just reading about the shit he did. How fucking selfish, he doesn't give a fuck about op.
I was actually surprised how loose it was!!! I didn't feel much with a condom on! And she was a mid teens girl! She wasn't a virgin even if she was a few years younger than me, but it wasn't like she had had tons of sex. But just goes to show, every vagina is different!
Stop watching porn
Nope. It’s different but awesome!
There’s an approach to topping and being dominate called gentle topping or being a pleasure Dom. I’m very similar to you, I’m a 6’5” teddy bear and darn it, I want to spoon and go down on my partner. I’ve ended up with several women recently who are very subby, even liking things kinda rough. So being firm and learning to take what I want from them. Want to eat her out? Hold her down firmly on your way there. Put her in the position you want. Want to just make out for a while? Put the size difference to work to gently get firmly hold her in place, or tease her, and say “I’m going to hold you and kiss you until I’m ready to fuck you.” And it can totally be sweet and snuggly but you establish that you’re in charge. In fact I had almost the exact scenario of a partner saying to me, “I’ll do whatever you want” and my ADHD brain froze, so I defaulted to “I need to spoon you, now!” We proceeded to snuggle and cuddle until that spooning cuddle turned into a spooning fuck. This has taken me a lot of work to find ways to integrate the dominate top with my gentle snuggly teddy bear default. A lot of work and partners with lots of trust. It’s been a really rewarding process tho. I’ve gotten way better at expressing what I want and need and trusting that my partner wants to give that to me. I’ve also learned that part of being a generous lover is to learn how to give my partner what they need, which means that sometimes this teddy bear has to get firm, hungry, in charge, and growly.
Sure the wife won't mind🙆🏼♂️
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Honestly, nobody in your family or friends circle did make a comment about this and warn you, OP? I'm 42 and when I see 19 yo's, sorry, but they are just kids in my eyes. Hope the 19 yo's here don't take offense in it, but that age gap is huge.
When grown adult men date teenage girls, they tend to be creeps. Ditch him.
First time I got spitroasted, I literally came within 2 mins… I spent 2 year's training with dildos. Getting stuffed with 2 cocks, makes my legs trembling. Even to this day. Point is, you were part of it. Unless she has fantasies of fucking bulls while you being cucked, then you've probably had a BIGpart too. Be happy for her and let her fuck more guys. your sex life will thank you for it.
Get tested and get him tested and see his results. What does exclusivity matter if you dont know he’s starting off clean. Trust….but verify.
‘it’ll come out on its own during the after sex pee’ kind of thing? Some will come out when you pee, some won't, but there isn't anything you really need to do about it. Other than his coming inside you, there won't be much of a difference.
I live for pheromones 😍
No one can answer if a celibacy pact was good or not, but the thing that people can for sure say is that you need to be more selective about the people you sleep. You said you had gotten out of an toxic relationship, so it was a big mistake to interact with another toxic person (someone who doesn’t respect your protection boundaries)