You can also potentially just move into change/solutions mode depending on the personalities involved. “I’m trying to find time in our schedule to have more intimate time together and sex. Can we plan on some night or some part of the weekend that we set aside for touching time together?” No recriminations. Just moving forward in a positive way, clearly asking for what you want.
I thought about it in a similar way as you have. I also considered myself pretty late, losing it at 22, and before that I used to agonize over it a lot. Afterward I was surprised at how little of an effect it had on my life. Like nothing changed anywhere other than in my own head. On one hand, it was relieving to feel like I never had to worry over that anymore. On the other, it felt really minor and insignificant in hindsight.
My gf is so self conscious about this and drives me crazy. She gets absolutely sopping wet and it’s so insanely hot to me. Idk how many times I’ve told her how much I like it and then it turns me on yet she always apologizes.
You can also potentially just move into change/solutions mode depending on the personalities involved. “I’m trying to find time in our schedule to have more intimate time together and sex. Can we plan on some night or some part of the weekend that we set aside for touching time together?” No recriminations. Just moving forward in a positive way, clearly asking for what you want.
I thought about it in a similar way as you have. I also considered myself pretty late, losing it at 22, and before that I used to agonize over it a lot. Afterward I was surprised at how little of an effect it had on my life. Like nothing changed anywhere other than in my own head. On one hand, it was relieving to feel like I never had to worry over that anymore. On the other, it felt really minor and insignificant in hindsight.
You askin hows I roll? Tooter hole.
My gf is so self conscious about this and drives me crazy. She gets absolutely sopping wet and it’s so insanely hot to me. Idk how many times I’ve told her how much I like it and then it turns me on yet she always apologizes.