I couldn't have sex for about a year once because of medical reasons and I felt so bad about it. Then My drive took a big dip when i had depression. My partner was really understanding and when I was doing a bit better I just gave him blowjobs. Making that effort to please him, I loved that feeling because I felt so guilty about how I was. My drive has had soooo many ups and downs, but rocketed at about 30 and I've also been on the other end of the scale and I'm the one with the higher drivem. It's tough when your drives don't align and we have battled these issues so many times throughout our relationship. It's not easy at all and takes alot of effort to keep communicating and compromising. I hope you find something that helps you OP.
She’ll wanna know details on how turned on it made you. Compliments are good
I couldn't have sex for about a year once because of medical reasons and I felt so bad about it. Then My drive took a big dip when i had depression. My partner was really understanding and when I was doing a bit better I just gave him blowjobs. Making that effort to please him, I loved that feeling because I felt so guilty about how I was. My drive has had soooo many ups and downs, but rocketed at about 30 and I've also been on the other end of the scale and I'm the one with the higher drivem. It's tough when your drives don't align and we have battled these issues so many times throughout our relationship. It's not easy at all and takes alot of effort to keep communicating and compromising. I hope you find something that helps you OP.