You could talk to your wife about exploring some of those things that you're interested in together. Maybe you'll get lucky and she would be up for having sex with a trans woman who has a dick. I wish there was a better term for that, maybe pre-op trans woman is the right way to put that?
You have a mental block and it will be up to your bf to make you get over it. Its a tough thing to do for yourself only. Source: GF was the same, took 50 mins the first time, eventually got down to a min. Her ex really fucked with her self esteem
Since hell doesn’t exist you obviously won’t go there.
You could talk to your wife about exploring some of those things that you're interested in together. Maybe you'll get lucky and she would be up for having sex with a trans woman who has a dick. I wish there was a better term for that, maybe pre-op trans woman is the right way to put that?
You have a mental block and it will be up to your bf to make you get over it. Its a tough thing to do for yourself only. Source: GF was the same, took 50 mins the first time, eventually got down to a min. Her ex really fucked with her self esteem