I’m only commenting on one part with a possible idea giving the way she said “im not strong enough if you really want to, so go ahead”. Does she have that kink? I forgot the name but it’s practically like rape. People that have been SA tend to get that kink as a coping mechanism or something… But summed up, the kink is dominate her and make her do as you say, and do whatever you want (technically rape) which is why I refused to participate in that kink when I girl had asked. It made me highly uncomfortable. Ask her if she has that kink, or say do you want me to make you my little slut, do as I say and I do what I want. I’m only replying to that one line, nothing else. Only one thing, don’t pressure her to take BC
I’m only commenting on one part with a possible idea giving the way she said “im not strong enough if you really want to, so go ahead”. Does she have that kink? I forgot the name but it’s practically like rape. People that have been SA tend to get that kink as a coping mechanism or something… But summed up, the kink is dominate her and make her do as you say, and do whatever you want (technically rape) which is why I refused to participate in that kink when I girl had asked. It made me highly uncomfortable. Ask her if she has that kink, or say do you want me to make you my little slut, do as I say and I do what I want. I’m only replying to that one line, nothing else. Only one thing, don’t pressure her to take BC
If he is enjoying it then eye contact is great. If he is not enjoying it then you should aks for feedback on how to improve.