Oh interesting! Do u mind if I ask? Like u don't have to be specific but just a general overview of the “before and after” sort of thing if u don't mind me asking
Painful sex, especially so painful you avoid it all together, is certainly not normal. Sexual trauma can make women higher risk for certain gynecological conditions, like PID. It should be mentioned to her doctor when she goes in. I think the pain should be addressed first- it's very possible that when it isn't painful she will like penetration.
I have got downvoted so many times for answering these types of questions. You like older guys because you like older guys, nothing wrong with that! Yes you're most likely very submissive. You're both adults so who cares what people think. Yes you're turned on because that is what you're attracted to, just like if you were attracted to guys your age no different.
My boyfriend (28m) and I (21f) also prefer our partner to be shaven, however we also don't mind when the other hasn't gotten around to shaving haha. I would recommend explaining the sensory issue to her, and clarify that the preference is not because you find her less attractive when unshaven. You can also suggest just trimming like other people have brought up. Or you can offer to help her shave. I know many couples find helping their partner shave sexy or intimate! If you are nervous about using a normal razor you can always use an electric razor! But yeah, biggest thing I think is making sure you assure her it's nothing to do with your attraction or view of her. That you still think she's a gorgeous, sexy woman who you're dying to go down on. Just that you'd prefer feeling her skin on your tongue rather than her pubes haha
What does that last sentence mean?
Oh interesting! Do u mind if I ask? Like u don't have to be specific but just a general overview of the “before and after” sort of thing if u don't mind me asking
Im not risking anything n for all a condom costs. Hella lot cheaper than a trip to the docs or the courts.
Hey happy to offer some advice! Feel free to DM
I mean…. Is this for u. Or is the person getting sucked asking for this…
All this goes over my head.
Painful sex, especially so painful you avoid it all together, is certainly not normal. Sexual trauma can make women higher risk for certain gynecological conditions, like PID. It should be mentioned to her doctor when she goes in. I think the pain should be addressed first- it's very possible that when it isn't painful she will like penetration.
I have got downvoted so many times for answering these types of questions. You like older guys because you like older guys, nothing wrong with that! Yes you're most likely very submissive. You're both adults so who cares what people think. Yes you're turned on because that is what you're attracted to, just like if you were attracted to guys your age no different.
My boyfriend (28m) and I (21f) also prefer our partner to be shaven, however we also don't mind when the other hasn't gotten around to shaving haha. I would recommend explaining the sensory issue to her, and clarify that the preference is not because you find her less attractive when unshaven. You can also suggest just trimming like other people have brought up. Or you can offer to help her shave. I know many couples find helping their partner shave sexy or intimate! If you are nervous about using a normal razor you can always use an electric razor! But yeah, biggest thing I think is making sure you assure her it's nothing to do with your attraction or view of her. That you still think she's a gorgeous, sexy woman who you're dying to go down on. Just that you'd prefer feeling her skin on your tongue rather than her pubes haha