This is the only sane comment. Privately masturbating in your own space is literally fine. It's not sexual assault to get off in the same room as someone else, and the shower isn't always an option. If you're turned on by them being in the room that crosses the line and is inappropriate and you shouldn't do that. But just normal masturbation is fine.
There are ways to increase libido in men. Maybe see if he’s open to trying those things. Otherwise I think you analyzed it right; if he’s asexual he’s probably just not in the mood most of the time. Has nothing to do with you
yeah i didn’t even realize how weird it sounds until i typed it out
This is the only sane comment. Privately masturbating in your own space is literally fine. It's not sexual assault to get off in the same room as someone else, and the shower isn't always an option. If you're turned on by them being in the room that crosses the line and is inappropriate and you shouldn't do that. But just normal masturbation is fine.
There are ways to increase libido in men. Maybe see if he’s open to trying those things. Otherwise I think you analyzed it right; if he’s asexual he’s probably just not in the mood most of the time. Has nothing to do with you
Look at the porn addiction subreddit. And there is plenty of research into it.