So I asked why in the beginning it was never an issue and she never once said she didn’t enjoy it. She told me she basically did it for me and other previous guys in the beginning to impress them and once it’s not “needed” anymore she just stops. This really bothers me because now i feel stuck in a marriage without blowjobs, and it’s something I don’t think I want to give up for my entire life. I mean even once a year I could manage, but never is kinda upsetting given she wasn’t honest about it upfront.
Agree ! 100%
So I asked why in the beginning it was never an issue and she never once said she didn’t enjoy it. She told me she basically did it for me and other previous guys in the beginning to impress them and once it’s not “needed” anymore she just stops. This really bothers me because now i feel stuck in a marriage without blowjobs, and it’s something I don’t think I want to give up for my entire life. I mean even once a year I could manage, but never is kinda upsetting given she wasn’t honest about it upfront.